r/manifestation_support

I have a male friend I have a past with. I know he’s not perfect but I think highly of him. I thought of him as the type of guy to never cheat since he always said he’s against it and he’s my male friend. I did have a small crush on him but he was dating someone else so I didn’t wanna try anything.

One day I was at his house, we got drunk and he came onto me. I assumed him and his partner broke up bc I see him as the type to never cheat so we slept together. The next day I found out he was still dating the other person. I was suprised bc I always assumed he wasn’t the type to cheat. Please tell me how this happened😓

my sp and i went from dating to seeing each other more casually (took a step back because our circumstances were straining our communication/all we did was fight). there's something going on right now that caused another argument.

basically, we got into a large discussion/fight about this (went in circles) and he said that he felt pressured into the arrangement, etc. i ended the conversation saying that i wanted him to keep an open mind about this and be open to seeing how i can be different, and i want a second conversation. idk if he agreed just to get me off his ass, but idk where to go from here

Hey everyone I’ve been manifesting my sp from November 2025 btw for rest of the post I’ll using chatGPT because my english is not my first language….. so I broke up with my SP in September 2025 and started consciously manifesting him around October–November. In the beginning, I struggled a lot with spiraling and wavering, but over time I genuinely got better at managing my thoughts. I reached a point where I felt calm, secure, and was truly “living in the end” — I wasn’t missing him, I just knew it was working and that everything was aligning in its own time. Things stayed like that until about a week ago, when out of nowhere I started missing him intensely and ended up crying for three nights straight, which confused me because I thought I had moved past that state. Then one night, I got a call from an unknown number, and it turned out to be my SP. I was honestly shocked and thought maybe this was it — maybe he was coming back to apologize or fix things. But instead, he said he was with a “friend” who wanted to talk to me, and that friend turned out to be my ex. It immediately felt chaotic. He then started bringing up old things, calling me a liar, saying hurtful things, and I just apologized and didn’t engage much before the call ended. About an hour later, my ex called me separately and told me that my SP is now back with a girl from his past and is apparently happy and has moved on. He even showed chats where my SP said this. That completely shook me because I had no idea about any third person, and it felt like everything in my 3D flipped overnight in the worst way possible. Since then, I feel like I’ve been pushed back to square one — I’m anxious, overthinking, unable to sleep, and weirdly, I can’t even cry properly anymore. I still want to manifest him, but the current reality feels so opposite that I don’t know how to process any of this. If anyone has been through something similar or has advice, I’d really appreciate hearing your perspective.

Hi all, hope you are well!

I’m manifesting my sp and all seems to be going positively, but recently a situation has been occurring which has left me feeling disrespected and feels like it needs confronting. Before you say anything, I KNOW circumstances don’t matter! I know that no matter what, nothing can prevent me from achieving anything I manifest. And very aware that the 3D reflecting the opposite is also movement. (Also my self concept is pretty great, fully aware that I’m loved, chosen, always get what I want etc)

I feel the need to confront this person about the situation that hurt my feelings, and perhaps be quite straight up and blunt about it. In the past I used to let people walk all over me and I’m not about that anymore. I know that this won’t affect the end result, I’ll still get whatever I want of course, but just curious if any of you have ever intentionally confronted or separated yourself from someone you’ve been manifesting a relationship with?

A lot of people struggle with affirmations because their mind immediately argues back.

“I am wealthy” → no you’re not

“I am loved” → then why hasn’t it shown up yet?

So instead of forcing statements your brain resists… start asking better questions. Your mind is wired to answer questions, not fight them.

Try this instead:

“Why does money flow to me so easily?”

“Why am I always chosen and prioritized?”

“Why do people treat me so well?”

“Why does everything always work out for me?”

Notice how different that feels. There’s less resistance, and your brain starts looking for evidence instead of blocking it. This is powerful because you’re not trying to convince yourself, you’re gently leading your mind into a new assumption.

If statements feel hard or fake, switch to questions. It’s the same end result, just a smoother path getting there. Find what feels natural for you, that’s what sticks.

Try it for a week and comment what you notice! Who is in?

So I’ve been trying to manifest something happening but more like having someone else do it on their own…it sounds a little odd putting it like that but I’ve been trying to get my friend to do something in her favor and it’s not working well.. And I keep having doubts. I’ve been trying this for months and when I text her it seems like she still doesn’t have any interest or sign in doing so. I haven’t given her a sign myself because she wouldn’t listen to me and it’s just not an option honestly. I just worry so much and I feel like I’m not even close and it’s making me really anxious and helpless and I’m not liking the fact that I’ve been trying to do this for months and still nothing.

To add on to this I’ve also been trying to manifest something else that has nothing to do with this for a while now too…and that hasn’t made any movement yet either…I just feel so lost and it makes me a little bit discouraged when I see how many people have their manifestations coming true or how long it’s taking and why is it not happening for me despite how patient and how persistent I’ve been. I’ve tried living in the end, I’ve tried to not check the 3d, I’ve tried to regulate myself and there were moments where I even felt good about everything and yet not a single movement was made yet. It’s really hard and when someone tells me, “It’s coming soon.” or “It’s already happening.” It feels so strange because I believe it but then no movement when I even try.

If anyone can give me some guidance or some kind of help please let me know.

Hi.

I am a 21 y/o female and my SP is a 21 y/o male.

(Disclaimer: My language might be unclear a bit bcoz I just wanna type this out as soon as I can)

So my SP ( boyfriend of 7 years) had broken up up with me in the first week of September 2025 and we got back together in the first week of November itself, exactly 2 months and 3-4 days. So two weeks into the breakup I discovered manifestation. I had a very low self concept and kept blaming myself for what I said to my SP which caused the breakup(some disrespectful words). So we are studying in a different state from our home and when we went back home in October for study holidays, things changed. I had been pining for his mom to call me home for food(she was unaware of our relationship at the time). Bcoz I saw that as a chance of being alone with him and getting intimate and making him remember all the good moments. As soon as I had given up and 5 days were left to go back to uni, his mom called me. And so I went to his place and things happened and he told me that he might consider getting back together with me. Since then he was obsessed with me. He even asked me if I had manifested my obsession with him just like I was trying to manifest him back as I had told him. So we met once again at his family's place and didn't do anything, but I think his attraction and everything else just grew. And eventually when we went back to uni, we got intimate once more and then on the last day of exams he asked me to get back together with me when we had gone to stay out. So 4 months since then, smooth sailing.

Now coming on to March 20, 2026. He had been pissing me off by being lazy and I blocked him twice and said I'm breaking up, he was still joking around but he got serious and when I gave him the option to either put in efforts or stay, he said he can't continue. And since then I've been miserable. He has got together with 3P who had actually become my close friend since Feb. They got together on the day of our break-up or a day later. And the funny thing is I think they were still at the coffee place when the breakup happened. She had called me for coffee coz she was feeling low but I declined as I had already had breakfast, and I wanted to help my boyfriend with his college work. So she then asked him to come. And I was pissed bcoz he went as he wouldn't do his work then. He apologized for it later, but didn't agree to get back with me. She was someone I was insecure of bcoz she is very touchy, but as we became friends, the insecurity went away.

So yeah he has been posting stuff on social media and I have deleted Instagram and I am not looking at his WhatsApp Updates.

Now coming onto my beliefs. I think my self concept is much better than last time. However I wonder whether I got him back just bcoz I had manifested meeting him at his home and solidifying the path to reconciliation. Like I was just pining on his mom to invite me and that everything would get better.

After we got back together last time we told his mum and aunty about us and they were quite happy. Now I have been relying on them for emotional support during these tough times. They are Catholics, I am not. But I have been strongly attracted to their faith. They have given me good advices. They tell me that whatever happens will happen for the best for me and I'll be the winner. However they talk about destiny and say if it is in my destiny, I will surely get it.

Now I find that law of assumption is basically assuming what you want to happen and this newfound religious inclination of mine has been interfering with LOA. I'm really confused about what to do. I've been praying everyday for the past 4 days. Btw sp hasn't told me about 3 p and he mostly just ignores me. Our exams will begin on the coming Monday. We will be going back home in 3 weeks.

I am really confused with what approach I should go ahead. Either I purely manifest or purely leave it in God's hand( so that sp learns a lesson and comes back to me) or I believe that God is supporting me in whatever I assume or want to create. While we were together when he used to be ungrateful to me or take me for granted I'd tell him that no one will be like me and tolerate him. And he used to say you never know, there might be someone. But I know for a fact that there isn't lol. This rebound nonsense of his gets to my head sometimes but I am not that bothered. I have some limited beliefs or fears which I don't want to state here or say aloud with the fear that it could come true. Also if I assume that these limiting beliefs will not happen, is there a chance it could occur just bcoz I thought about it?

Please give me advice guys, I'm fairly new to this, till the breakup LOA had been working for me well, but I'm stressed out now and so conflicted between religion and manifestation.

Also suggest any subliminals or rampages or anything that does work.

Guys please pray for me and give me advice. If things go smoothly then we'll be celebrating our 8th anniversary in July, please pray for me guys.

Hi! I am new to manifesting an sp so any advice is appreciated.

i used to go to the gym with this guy. He was really cute and i was into him but i didn’t like the idea of approaching him or being approached by him, idk why it just gave me anxiety so i would do everything in my power to give him zero signals that i was into him. I still thought hr liked Me and would eventually come up and talk to me, i assumed it was inevitable that we’d talk but he’s disappeared for months now.

idk his name so im not exactly sure how to go about manifesting him. I’ve tried it here and there but i feel like that initial anxiety of meeting him is stopping my manifestations from working

Hey guys, I’m really pretty new to manifestation but it’s something that I totally totally believe in and know works. My ex broke up with me recently, about a week ago and I need advice for how to manifest him back, but fully committed to me. What would be recommended to that?

I am still pretty confused about the 3d-4d situation as well so I don’t know how that would work for learning about that. But if anyone has any readings or advice on where to start or what kind of affirmations/etc I should do I would be extremely grateful!

every time i try to manifest, it seems that they do the literal opposite. I listen to subliminals, affirm daily, even tried journaling yet it seems that the universe hates me and doesn't give me what i want. what am i doing wrong?

I’ve noticed something about myself lately.

When I’m overwhelmed, most advice doesn’t help in the moment.

Things like “journal”, “reflect”, “take a walk” — they’re good, but they require energy I don’t have right then.

What I actually need is something immediate.

So I’ve been testing small things that work in under a minute:

•	saying one sentence to myself like: “This moment is not permanent”

•	taking one slow breath and counting it

•	physically stepping away from my screen for 30 seconds

•	reminding myself: “I don’t need to solve everything right now”

Some of these help. Some don’t.

I’m curious — what actually works for you in the moment?

Not long-term habits.

Not therapy strategies.

Just something that helps you reset right when the feeling hits.

Hi everyone. Just truly need some advice. Yesterday, on Easter I sort of had a break down after doing so well with journaling, positive mindset & living my life for me. But yesterday, I tried so hard to stay positive but I had to drive 2+ hours one way in a torrential downpour the entire way to meet with my extended family for brunch for an hour 10mins just to drive back another 2+ hours in the pouring rain, again. I couldn’t help but cry & felt as though, this is prime example of how ready I am to start my own family, be married, have kids & traditions of my own so I don’t want to exactly travel to do this anymore.

I’ve always had really great self concept, I own my own house, have a great career, new car, I workout & love my body, I’m always trying to self-improve, I have accomplished a lot of my goals & genuinely have a life I really love to the point where I’m good on my own & don’t feel like I need someone but I’m ready for a family of my own. I’ve started journaling my limiting beliefs and all I can think of is feeling as though there’s not enough good options that live near me. Any help is very much appreciated & I’m willing to learn more.

Thank you!!!!!

every time i try to manifest, it seems that they do the literal opposite. I listen to subliminals, affirm daily, even tried journaling yet it seems that the universe hates me and doesn't give me what i want. what am i doing wrong?

every time i try to manifest, it seems that they do the literal opposite. I listen to subliminals, affirm daily, even tried journaling yet it seems that the universe hates me and doesn't give me what i want. what am i doing wrong?

Okay so changing the assumption is just changing the thoughts. For passing final exams I need to just stop thinking I wont, stop imaging the consequences if i don’t and stop saying smaller things like “im so stressed ab exams,passing,subject” etc and just constantly think about how i have passed. These smalller thoughts and imaging the disappointment is what would prevent me from passing. And circumstances dont matter like even if im really behind and have failed classes and anything previous in the 3D that shows me another outcome? So as long as im thinking positively about it and that i already have it it’ll happen? And since I’ve spent so long in the identity of failure i need to work that much harder to change that until it feels natural (work meaning affirmations like i passed) ? How long does it take to really gain that certainty and new identity ? And does it work if i still want the 3D confirmation that i passed?