u/Born-Complex-4555

my sp and i went from dating to seeing each other more casually (took a step back because our circumstances were straining our communication/all we did was fight). there's something going on right now that caused another argument.

basically, we got into a large discussion/fight about this (went in circles) and he said that he felt pressured into the arrangement, etc. i ended the conversation saying that i wanted him to keep an open mind about this and be open to seeing how i can be different, and i want a second conversation. idk if he agreed just to get me off his ass, but idk where to go from here

idk why i find it so much easier to visualize through their eyes about me for some reason. has anyone else tried?

people saying to DM them and then ghost when you actually do, people who say to DM them and then ghost when you're unwilling to pay them, people pushing their substacks, people giving ChatGPT responses that provide zero advice, like damn i get it its a lucrative environment to try and sell stuff to a vulnerable demographic that really wants someone back (something not as tangible as getting a job/money etc), but damn