r/feminineboys

Just askin, really keen on hearing different perspectives.

I'm a female and I have been conflicted with this because he's never presented himself as hardcore masculine but I feel like I'm losing a part of him since he's changing a lot. I think he will find someone else of the same gender or transition while I have nothing against this in itself I planned a life for the two of us and he is telling me he's not and I want to believe him I just can't. But I know people can have girlfriends and be femboys I just don't really want to lose him but at this point it's easier because I don't want to keep making him feel like I don't support him when I do I love him so much

Guys I just realized I’m such an Amazon warrior, everything “femboy” I buy and I ever owned is from Amazon from all my outfits and everything 😭 someone stop my addiction

Is it a thing among femboys, to completely transition to a feminine appearance (maybe even on E), but otherwise staying a boy (voice, personality, ect.)?

Or would it automaticly be considered trans?

I support the idea of transitioning without becoming trans.

What do you think?

For context: my friend randomly started giving me belly rubs i really liked that so i started purring but then my mom came in (she wanted to ask me something) and now she knows two things: i'm a furry and a femboy but she said its ok

Hi. I used to be a femboy when I was younger. I had a body that many envied.

Unfortunately, due to medical issues, depression, and medication, I lost that body, and currently I am more than anything else; not fat, but not thin either.

I still have my long hair and my feminine features are still somewhat resisting

I currently have a girlfriend who knew me as a femboy, but every night I look in the mirror and suffer for what I've lost, because I also know that I'm not the femboy my girlfriend knew.

Any advice? Should I let go of my past and focus on what I have?

Okay essentially I’ve been a femboy for around about a couple months and in these couple months I’ve felt good about being a femboy, but I can’t tell anyone in my life like I feel like my friends would judge me and I know for sure my mom wouldn’t take it well I don’t know I just feel like I don’t have anyone to kinda talk to abt this kinda stuff I think my sister and brother in law might know I’ve left my thigh highs out a couple times but idk I just feel stuck and don’t know what to do, any advice is appreciated

So a little background, Ive been struggling to gain weight for the past few years and I thought it was fine to be a little underweight anyways. That was until January of this year when my left lung collapsed spontaneously. The doctors said that taller, skinnyer teens are more likely to have a collapsed lung. so since then Ive been trying to eat much more to up my weight and I finally passed 130lbs, and Im kinda pround of myself idk sorry ok bai.

Politics aren’t as black and white as many people make them out them out to be. You can’t define it as solely left or right and you can’t judge people on that, or stuff them into a category; there’s more nuance than that. The two party system is a sham and should fall under the same category as racism/homophobia. Someone falls slightly right of center and they’re burned at the stake. Someone falls slightly left of center and it’s off with their head. Plus fiscal and social politics got merged somehow, which is possibly the dumbest thing to ever occur in human history. I’m fiscally conservative and socially liberal so now it’s a choice of trash the economy or trash society. Be careful judging someone based on how they vote, because there are an infinite number of reasons they acted the way they did. I’d say we should just all go libertarian but the extremists in that group turn into anarchists real fast.

Anyways the point I’m trying to make is that if you judge someone based on the way they vote that’s the same as judging them for their skin color or gender. (Thanks for reading my Ted talk :3)

Hey all, I just wanted to talk about a hurdle I'm going through. It's very hard to practice and learn how to actually look good when cross dressing when you are hiding it from people. So you have to get things in small purchases. I bought some acrylic nails for the first time and showed my lesbian friend and she laughed and said I looked like a granny. This was before I cut them and styled them a little better. That was a big punch in the gut for me and got me thinking about how hard it is to be taken seriously. It's embarrassing when I show someone how I look with something and it just looks like I have no idea what the heck I'm doing. Granted that is true but a lot of the stuff I show is not set in stone, it's stuff I wanted to try and perhaps it isn't the right thing. I am just so ashamed and embarrassed, discouraged that I cant pull it off an that I'll look like a creep. Can't do anything right 😔

Hiya.

I’m 16M and wouldn’t consider myself feminine or as a femboy, but I do have some ‘feminine’ interests such as Sanrio and Pusheen and I like, though don’t wear, bows and frills and etc.

As I said, I’m not a femboy, but I’ve been searching for the perfect subreddit to put this in for half and hour and I feel like this is where people will be able to properly understand my grievance.

Going into clothing sections at stores, the clothes for women/girls usually have wayyy more colour. Pinks, purples, oranges, blues, greens, browns, reds.. basically every colour of the rainbow in neutral, pastel and neon.

Whereas for the men’s and boys’ sections, the clothes are ALWAYS just black, grey, brown, blue and red. Even when I was 6 I thought this and sometimes opted to wear the girls’ clothes as they had some more personality.

This remains for online shops as well. If there’s pale blue frilly boxers for men, it’s either by an independent handmade brand for £120 or it’s by Temu and will likely rip within 2 wears.

My main grievances of the clothes that I would want to wear from the women’s sections are sweatshirts/hoodies, underwear (sometimes a guy wants to have a Hello Kitty on his butt) and pyjamas.

Not with boxers, but I am aware if I really want to, I can wear women’s pyjamas and hoodies, but I dunno! It’s like the principle… I wish I could wear cute button up pastel coloured pyjamas with animals on them without having to go into the women’s section, or without people giving me strange looks cause ‘why tf is this 16 year old guy buying women’s pyjamas’.

I kind of wish I was a girl, but not in a trans way, just in a way where I could wear ‘girl’ clothes. I understand that clothes don’t have gender and I can wear them, but I can’t wear them how a girl would with barely any judgement or strange looks.

I’m really bored right now and I don’t know what to do. Someone talk to me and I’ll talk back :3

I want to meet more femboys, and besides warthunder, what other games do femboys play?

Hi Call me will. So recently I’ve been coming to the decision to actually become more feminine. I’m a pretty athletic masc guy, hairy and all. Look nothing like fem. I want to get good advice on what people think are the best steps to transition.

A few key things:

Do you think being petite is a must. Or just smooth and dressing up.

On that note of being smooth. What’s people recommendation. I’ve seen some things on like. Cosmetic stuff that removes hair easily. I don’t really own a razor that can be used whole body wise.

I would love any other idea. Whether in comments or DMs. Thank you all.

P.s. look at my pfp for how I kinda look.

Aside from the understandable over-sexualization of femboys, which is not exactly a black and white issue, I keep seeing a bunch of hate posts/comments in other lgbtq+ subreddits, even seen trans people hating on femboys for some reason. It seems like the whole idea of what a femboy is, is kinda misunderstood. It’s super unfortunate

I wanna be a femboy but I'm nonbinary and don't wanna be a boy. I go by it/it's, can I be accepted as a femboy?

ive been depressed for almost a year now, i feel under pressure because of school, my future, parents and my sexuality. i feel wrong for liking the same gender. im asking myself if it is even okay for me to feel that way, theres no one i can talk with about this and i dont know what to do.

So recently I started wearing bras its easy to hide and they're surprisingly comfortable but when I told my girlfriend she said she didn't like it and i've already told her about me being a femboy all she said was "I guess I don't mind" and honestly idk what to do I love her and all but if she cant love me for what I like doing then what? any advice is appreciated.

I’ve found it interesting that most of the posts about femboy hate occur in rather liberal areas and forums rather than conservative. (Plus I’m tired of the misconception that all conservatives are racist/homophobic. It makes up such a small portion that it’s like saying all Germans still follow the mustache man.) I live in a rather conservative area in the south but everyone is super kind and accepting. I’ve not seen an instance of hate between race or gender in my town (41k+ people). I’d be curious to know why conservative leaning crowds are more chill than liberal leaning crowds, as well as why extremists on both sides hate on femboys. Has anyone else noticed this trend? That and is this more of a regional thing than a politics thing?

I’m confused on where I fall and was wondering if anyone had a better answer for me