r/bondha_diaries

Nenu present USA lo untanu, I’m hard working, enthusiastic, new things edo okati nerchukuntu untanu like Nenu anukunte aa work ela eina complete chestanu.. oka mata chepthe adi complete avvali endukante na work lo students life depend ayyi untundi. Naku abroad overseas consulting firm undi running from last 3 years(ekkuva applications cheyyanu just na close friends reference eh accept chesta na strength ki saripoinantha matrame)

Eithe nenu okkadine job chesta kada na work life other projects Chala chestu untanu so oka 2 persons ni hire chesukundam anukunna ..

First hiring
1 boy and 1 girl experienced 1 year in the field — hire chese varaku baga matalu chepparu adi chestam idi chestam ani hire chesukunnaka .. Nenu chese work lo 5% kuda pani cheyyatledu.. edi cheppina Andulo edo oka doubt vethiki aa day pass chesevallu

Edi neroinchina Malli same same with questions eh reverse lo adigevallu .. after 6 months kuda day 1 adige questions adigevallu ..

Final ga 1 year Chusanu inka 🙏🙏 petti releave chesesanu project lo

Second hiring:
Sare Ila kadu le oka person ni hire chesukundam Sare nerchukoni partner laga undi Sare opportunity chepiddam ani anukunna

Manodu next level anni vadini 6 months salary pay chesa nenu 6 days lo complete chese work kuda manodu cheyyaledu

Manodiki kuda 🙏🙏 petti relieve chesesa

Inni years lo kuda everyday night nene Vella tasks anni finish chesi vellaku salary pay chesevadini ..

Endukani people job vacchedhaka okalaga cheptharu vacchaka asalu work cheyyataniki istam chupincharu ..

Elanti qualities unna person ni hire chesukunte best antaru
- e business lo loyal and no charges tho help chestha work chesukunte chala huge gap undi i can make a very big company with huge customer satisfaction with work satisfaction too..

Inka oka community services kuda start chestunna but in order work all these i need to hire best people in my team who will give 100% for their work and the can take their salary ..

Abroad services scam anukuntaremo .. No, I travelled almost 4 countries till now I know what to offer for the people with basic charges or no charges at all. I do follow set of rules anduke takkuva applications accept chestanu ..

Evarikina similar idea and some set of rules unna kuda reach out Avvadi .. let’s build something together

—please evarina reach ayyevallu please bring your thoughts on this how we both can take further ani ..

As bad as it sounds I've been carrying this guilt with me for the past few weeks.

Me and my boyfriend usually get along fine and we like spending time with each other i wouldn't say that we are compatible, cuz he's super chill and doesn't really care about anything whereas I'm ambitious and a little serious in general.

There was a point in our relationship where we weren't that close and everytime I spoke about it to my boyfriend he would literally tell me to calm down and not overthink, whenever I spoke to him when I was low he made jokes on me and made me feel even worse.

At this point I really wanted to talk to someone just as moral support and I've been really close to my ex. He's one of my closest friends ever and we have a good bond so we eventually started speaking (my boyfriend doesn't know that we speak) and it started blurring the lines between our relationship and i just don't know how to feel knowing that I'm closer to him than I'm with my boyfriend.

I put the point of breaking up with my boyfriend but he's very sensitive to that topic and gets angry if I say anything like that. I feel bad for cheating on him and idk if anything is really justifiable.

Long story short ga cheppestha...I was on twt for a pretty long time...and I have stopped using it for my good. And a lot actually happend in that time...so I'm here to vent

Ee time lo me and a guy got close...he was nice, used to text me nicely, and overall got to know about me pretty well. Both the same age and all, and suddenly one day he proposed to me out of nowhere and I couldn't believe it...like we both don't even know each other's faces...so like he fell in love with my texting style? 😭

Like ela ila?

I just knew he was down bad...and our mutuals knew something that I didn't knew about 😭

I felt like they were all hiding the fact the he had a crush on me...but anyways

Ala ela padthar andi

Say you became prime minister. You have 5 years term in your hands. What is the first major policy or issue you would eliminate or reform immediately?

I know I will get backlash but make modifications in current reservation policy and give reservation based on economic status completely. If your parents opted for reservation and your family is well settled now, then you and your children won't be eligible for reservation and give others a chance. Remove caste/category field in all official documents. I read somewhere recently, neet pg lo evariko 1/800 marks vaste MS ortho lo seat vacchindi anta. That lowers the quality of doctors in India.

Second is the civic sense. If people litter up the roads, severe fines veyyali. And ala litter cheyakunda undali ante infrastructure kuda ante develop cheyyali. Prathi place lo oka dumping bin pettali. Now a days, I see, kontamandi oka 15-20 feet dooram lo dustbin unna, anta daka velladaniki baddakam ayi akkade padestaru.This mentality should be changed.

What do u think??

Seriously asking assal dating ki meaning Enti?
Ippude dinguuuu mani dating page lo post chesa anamata

Context: I’ll be turning 22 (f)soon and wanted to experience going a date (because I haven’t been on one) even though it was my choice not to go on one i just wanted to give it a shot. 1st post got deleted, texted the ‘person’ who maintains it asking what’s wrong and they say ‘it’s isn’t for casual dating’ and I’m like huh??? But dating is casual kada (or Atleast what I thought) sarle ani aa ‘casual element’ edi aithe undo tisesi I changed it into a normal one and posted and it got deleted again.

Now I’m comfused af.
Y’all tell me what’s your definition of dating? (Also
I’m not able to post on ask page somehow)

Edit: whoaaaaa thanks to all of u who told me about misinterpretation of the term ‘casuallll’ nahhh I ain’t looking for a hookup frensss backkk offff. Casual ante casual ga kalavatam matladukotam 😐

Nadhi recent ga engineering aipoindhi, so intlo ne kaaliga untuna. Naku message chese vallu, call chese vallu evaru leru. Asalu close friends ane valle evaru leru. Ila nenu okadine na ledhu asalu friends leka inka evaru anna untara. Mobile pakkana petti chala sepu tharvatha chusina naku em msgs raavu. I regret it so much for not having any friends, but em cheyadaniki ledhu. Online lo frnds cheskundhama ante elano thelidhu

Epdu present apollo hospital lo Maa daddy in ICU, nenu lobby lo chair la meedha nenna nunchi night duty.

Maa nanna central gov lo officer, family 3 kids, elder brother recently married, elder sister married and oka son. Nenu last kid accidental kid anamata, single sinthakayya.

ICU lo aydhuku vundu present asalu ento prasthithi chypali antey..

Maa dad ki heart lo stunt vundhi and health issues vunae like bipolar disorder, ground ki roju morning veyle vadu manchiga walking chsthu andri family lo laganey happy ga vuntunde, ala walking velthu oka batch friends ienaru, ala ala manchiga enjoy chsthu trips ki veyldam apdu apdu parties ki veyldam common iendey, Maa father vachi ah food try chysam e food try chysam Anni stories maku chypadam memu enjoy chsthdu ani happy ga feel avdam

Cut short chsthey...

Daily parties started, every day drinking started byta and intlo malli thagadam, ey stage nunchi ey stage ki veylindhi antey, mundhu ey party vunna rapido or friends pickup and drop vuntunde like drunk and drive risk ani, epdu entha thgina thana bike meedha velthdu vasthdu, dorkodhu ani gali gali nunchi vsthdu, aydhuku dad ela mari ani adguthey nenu inthey nenu elane thagutha ani saying

Roju maa dad ayla intiki vasthdu ani maa mom bhyapadutha vuntadhi, ala ani maa dad salary antha spend chsthdu ani kadhu intlo icheytivi isthdu antha bagney vuntae but thanaki health issues vundadam valla ela Daily thagdam valla last month heart lo block vundhi ani angiogram did, ah blocks tablets tho clear avthae ani thylsii malli started drinking...

Epudu lungs lo emo infection vundhi anta breathing issue vasthundi, night sudden ga mom ni nidra leypi naku oopri adadtlydhu anntundu anta, mom bhyapduthundhi, sarey drink stop chyee antey nenu elane thautha antundu..

Apollo lo admit chysi ICU peyti, eroju doctor vachi em infection thylsukodaniki tests chsthru anta...

Ento happy ga smooth ga em pressure leykunda vuntadu ani anukunte leni poni anni problems koni theychukovdam anipisthundi

Maa eyes mundhu anni avthunna memu em chyaleykapothunam aney badha inka aykuva vundhi

you went from being my stalker to my room mate and lover for 6 months and went back to being a stalker again, i had fun spending those days with you, i wish you stayed with me for a life time but you had your reasons and i wish things were different, ni kosam aina i will keep posting my wins on reddit so you can feel happy for me

EORJU tcs interview ivvadam jarigindi.

Nela kritam exam rasa.. ah bochu naku radhu anukunna.

Kani ninja ochindi.

Coding sql python tega practice chesa full ga.

Resume lo naku ochinave pettukunna..

Last ki Eroju velthe.

First question ke panic ayya. Sarigga cheppaledu.

2 Technical questions adigadu edo ala ala answer chesa

Two coding questions ichadu.

1. Printing pyramid pattern

2. String list lo odd place lo unna words reverse lo print avvali.

1 di radhu naku. Try chesa workout avvaledu. Direct na mokana laptop esi dintlo cheyu annadu.

Ippudu iche question answer cheyakapothe direct reject chestha annadu. Appudu 2 question ichadu chey aani

2 di chesa kani edo edo only two words reverse print ainai

Asalu niku job Enduku ivvali nannadu total blank bayya.

Pakka mr gadu kuda kusunnadu.

Nenu laptop lo code kodthunte na mida kullu jokelu veskunnaru.

Mr gadu general questions adigadu answer chesa.

Tharvatha hr round bane ayindi.

Andariki emo sql resume lo projects adigithe naku emo ila ayindi.

Vatiki gurinchi chala prepare ayya.

Nenu edo thope thurum em kadu. Alane mari asalu em radhu ani kuda kadhu.

Ayina bokka laga ayindi. Anni muskoni life gurichi alochisthu. Intiki ochesa

Alavaikunta puram lo : " 10 times 90s lo out aina no of centuries lo 0 ne vestharu, konni jathakalu anthe eppatiki maravu"

Anukunna

I come from a local (tier-4) college, where I completed my B.Tech in Electronics and Communication Engineering. In 2022, I started preparing seriously for the GATE exam. Around that time, I received multiple offers from MNCs such as Bosch, Cognizant, and KPIT Technologies, among others. I decided to join one of them.

However, by February 2023, I realized that the job was not aligned with my interests or long-term goals. I made the difficult decision to resign and return home to prepare for GATE again.

This phase was personally very challenging. I went through a breakup due to a long-distance relationship, where I was cheated on. At the same time, my parents told relatives that I was working from home, while in reality, I was preparing full-time. Since both my parents worked during the day, I spent most of my time alone at home. Nights were especially difficult, as I often found myself regretting my decision to leave the job. Despite all this, I continued studying because I felt I had no other option.

In February, I appeared for GATE and initially felt that I had performed poorly. I started exploring alternative options like BITS and IIITs. Later, I realized that the paper, set by Indian Institute of Science (IISc), was particularly tough that year. Even an average score translated into a good rank, and I eventually secured a rank within the top 500.

I was aiming for my preferred specialization, but due to the lack of reservation, I had to wait until the 9th round of counseling. It was a very stressful period, especially since I had already let go of opportunities at places like NIT iruchirappalli and other good institutes. Finally, in the 9th round, I secured admission to my desired branch at oldest IIT, which was a huge relief.

After joining, I initially struggled to cope with the academic pace, as it was much faster than what I was used to. My first-year CGPA was 7.7. Realizing I needed to improve, I worked harder in the following semester and raised it to 8.3.

Regarding placements, my seniors had consistently achieved nearly 100% placement over the past 20–30 years, as this is a top branch in Electronics. However, this year was different. Several major companies like Micron and Samsung did not visit, and some companies that did come did not hire anyone.

Given that I am now 25, I felt a strong need to secure a job. I attended an interview for a 14 LPA role and received an offer. I also continued applying off-campus and secured another opportunity at a startup, again with a package around 14 LPA and a role aligned with my interests.

Additionally, a senior referred me to an MNC that had two open positions. My interview went very well. The HR informed me that although they had only two vacancies and selected candidates with prior interview experience, they were impressed with my performance. They have now requested approval to open a third position for me, and I am currently waiting for an update, which is expected within a week. So this is my story till now....

Nen usually night 8 ki velta gym ki, but Ippudu summer holidays and work kuda ledu ani evening 5 ki veltunna. Little to no crowd in both of these timings, inka last bent over rows cheddam ani squat station deggara vella. There was a guy doing squats bar meeda 20kg veskoni half reps chestunnadu while wearing running shoes.

Manaki aagaleka "bro bare feet to chei or get some squat shoes, munduku padipotunnav" ani cheppa. Vadu inka nen 5 years nunchi gym ki vastunna, nuvvu eppatnunchi vastunnav? Ani direct tshirt tisesadu 😭. Body kanavadadu gani Naku body undi, nen trainer tammudni ani gola chesadu.

I was flabbergasted and kinda got taken back veedu Deeniki inta react avtunnadu, nen form correct cheyale or technique wrong anale just barefoot chei ra babu heels lestunnai kinda padtav anna. Pai sandharbam dwara telisina neeti emi anaga mana pani muskoni cheskovali, pakkanodu elagaina savani

Roju intlo bayam tho undalsi vasthundhi,eppudu eh godava start chesthado anesi, avi chinna chinna vi kadhu,thagesi vachesi thannadi mummy ni chuttu unna objects ni padeyadam, like a beast who is not in his control. Morning velthadu ee oka frnd unnadu pani cheydam vadilesi vadi shop loney rojantha untadu, em em nerpisthunnado Thelidhu

Vere valla laga na life normal ga Enduku ledhu, andhari intlo godavalu untayi antar kani idk,he is just evil

Eroju mummy dentist deggariki vellochinchi, adhi tlsi kullu. Pakka galli lo kurchunnadu velli adigithe ah vastha vastha ani alage unnadu, chala thagesi unnadu, entha godava avthundho bayem esthundhi

Divorce ki apply chesedham ani mummy ni adigestha,I am 20 year old ny the way, nenu 2nd year btech job ravadaniki time pattidhi, appadi varaki financial ga independent kadhu nenu amma, alimony ki apply chesedham anukuntunna

Telugu Brahmin. Born and raised in Hyd. Highest degree is Bachelors. Chala dakkalu tinnaka ippudu oka stage ki ochi 11 LPA earn chestunna. Last year ma amma matrimony search start chesindi. Till now we haven't met even a single prospect. Phone calls lone thelipotunnai and mokam meeda no cheppestunnaru. Women preferring a high earning/well to do groom is totally fine. Adi reason ayyi reject cheste kuda oka ardam undi because most brahmin girls I'm coming across are making atleast 24LPA at the age of 22-25 itself. Kaani chala mandiki vere expectations kuda absolute mandatory unnai.

I'm a 5"5 guy. Ye matrimony profile open chesina kuda preferred height minimum 5"8 or 5"10 thone start aitunnai. And most women are barely 5ft in those profiles. Assalu India lo entha mandi magallu 5"8 unnaru ra ayya... avg male a 5"6 unte. Because of this height preference life lo eppudu leni inferiority few months ninchi start ayindi naku.

Next ochesi bride parents ki ee degree fetish okati chachindi. Kuturu Btech chesina kuda leni inferiority abbai Bcom tho aapeste enduku ostado inka ardam avvatledu. Ivalti time lo kuda degrees ki intha importance undani assalu telile. I did aim for good bschool admissions for almost four years. 20 lacs pettinappudu manchi MBA school ki vellakapote adi pointless ani eppudu distance MBA cheyaledu. Ippudu chala mandi parents ade adugutunnaru kanisam distance degree techukovachu kada ani. Tier 3 MBA chesinolle certificate lo muri mixture eskuntunnaru inka distance MBA ki assalu em value undi ani.

Then came an even bigger red pill. Oka family ki ma amma call cheste aa ammai father direct ga mee abbai ye rangu andi ma ammai ki mahesh babu lanti thelupu abbai vethukutunnam annadu. I swear this is the exact line that guy said. And he is a criminal lawyer. Naku wirelu anni cut ayyi i started laughing out of confusion. 2026 lo kuda families ki colour pichi untundi ani nen expect kuda cheyyale.

Mem intha mandi ammailaki interest pampincham. And it's not like I've liked someone who is way out of my league. Most of them have a same financial and social status. But none have shown any sort of interest. Sometimes i think will i ever find love in this lifetime. At this point Now I'm working on myself, my hobbies and trying to spend as much time with family and friends. Because thats what is keeping me sane.

[supprimé]

soo btech aipothundi, ala random ga paatha memories anni flash ayyaayi, so thought of sharing.

i got into my first relationship in 12th. let’s call him A. appudu everything felt perfect. he was nice, caring, full attention ichese type. naku kuda adhi chala pedda thing laane anipinchindi. typical first love phase.

btech ki ochaka everything started changing. different colleges, different circles… and slowly A original colours bayata paddayi. too possessive, too jealous, every small thing ki issue. like literally suffocating. first lo adjust avvalani try chesa but it just kept getting worse. we were on and off for months and finally it ended. mutual ane ankunnam, but honestly both of us were just tired.

ah time lo i met B. we started talking, just normal conversations, nothing serious. but somehow A got to know about him even though we weren’t talking anymore. appude real drama start aindhi.

A literally went to B and said “she’s mine, don’t talk to her.” like bro?? nen edaina object ah. and that wasn’t enough, he started blackmailing me saying mana photos me intlo chupistha if you continue talking to him ani. that was the point where i was like okay this guy is actually messed up.

cut to 2nd year, B and i started dating. things were going fine. but again A couldn’t stay out of it. he went to my brother and complained that i was roaming with some guy and that B isn’t a good person. like the obsession??? luckily my brother was chill and didn’t make it a big deal.

fast forward to 4th year, i’m single, peaceful, and honestly so much happier. looking back, i can’t believe i put up with all that for so long.

things i learnt:
don’t confuse possessiveness with love, it’s just control
if someone has to threaten you to stay, they’re not worth it
no relationship is worth losing your peace
walking away is sometimes the best thing you can do for yourself

anyway that was my little clown era. glad it’s over lol

PS : B cheated on Me

I don’t really know how to write this.

We came to Sikkim yesterday and reached Pelling last night . This morning around 5 AM, we got a call that my mother-in-law passed away.

She was already very unwell (advanced cancer), but it still feels so sudden. Today morning she had cardiac arrest.

I keep thinking about it again and again. It doesn’t feel real.

We’re still on the way back and will reach late tonight. I feel really uneasy not being there, like I should have been there somehow. Even though I know it wasn’t in my control.

My parents and my brother are with my father-in-law and helping him, which I’m grateful for. But I still feel this heaviness and helplessness.

One moment I feel numb, the next I feel anxious and scared about reaching and facing everything.

I don’t really know what I need right now. Maybe just to say this somewhere.

[supprimé]

I’m elder sibling fr two younger ones…So I always wanted to have Akka.. It’s an emotion to share everything with akka asking suggestions, etc.. I want to experience that Akka’s Vibe…😭

eroju na leg day. endhuku ra devudu kallani kanipettadu.. ayyya...sachipoya almost. enti intha tondaraga diary entry isthunnav anukuntunnava? cheppanu kadha early ga sleep eyyadaniki try chestunna ani. annattu insta teesi dobba phone lonchi. ekkada chudu dikkumalina pulihora reels. ammaila account lani tag chesi. nee notes isthava, naaku physics nerpisthava ani ep nimmakaya tiger rice gallu. daniki vallemo reactionlu ivvadam. aa reaction ki malli ee chetta gallu inko reaction ivvadam. usshhhh... kanisam alanti reels pampinchadaniki evaraina unna bagundu.. sarele ani frustation teerchukodaniki twitter ki vella. kanni prabhas fan accounts ki velli belated happy may day ra ani wish chesa BUWHAHAHAHAHA. sarle eroju study just 5 hours chesa. ill improve repu day 2🔥...unta inka. bye

Maa team ni dobbytunnar.. long weekend kuda vadalle.