u/Suspicious-Air1997

Telugu Brahmin. Born and raised in Hyd. Highest degree is Bachelors. Chala dakkalu tinnaka ippudu oka stage ki ochi 11 LPA earn chestunna. Last year ma amma matrimony search start chesindi. Till now we haven't met even a single prospect. Phone calls lone thelipotunnai and mokam meeda no cheppestunnaru. Women preferring a high earning/well to do groom is totally fine. Adi reason ayyi reject cheste kuda oka ardam undi because most brahmin girls I'm coming across are making atleast 24LPA at the age of 22-25 itself. Kaani chala mandiki vere expectations kuda absolute mandatory unnai.

I'm a 5"5 guy. Ye matrimony profile open chesina kuda preferred height minimum 5"8 or 5"10 thone start aitunnai. And most women are barely 5ft in those profiles. Assalu India lo entha mandi magallu 5"8 unnaru ra ayya... avg male a 5"6 unte. Because of this height preference life lo eppudu leni inferiority few months ninchi start ayindi naku.

Next ochesi bride parents ki ee degree fetish okati chachindi. Kuturu Btech chesina kuda leni inferiority abbai Bcom tho aapeste enduku ostado inka ardam avvatledu. Ivalti time lo kuda degrees ki intha importance undani assalu telile. I did aim for good bschool admissions for almost four years. 20 lacs pettinappudu manchi MBA school ki vellakapote adi pointless ani eppudu distance MBA cheyaledu. Ippudu chala mandi parents ade adugutunnaru kanisam distance degree techukovachu kada ani. Tier 3 MBA chesinolle certificate lo muri mixture eskuntunnaru inka distance MBA ki assalu em value undi ani.

Then came an even bigger red pill. Oka family ki ma amma call cheste aa ammai father direct ga mee abbai ye rangu andi ma ammai ki mahesh babu lanti thelupu abbai vethukutunnam annadu. I swear this is the exact line that guy said. And he is a criminal lawyer. Naku wirelu anni cut ayyi i started laughing out of confusion. 2026 lo kuda families ki colour pichi untundi ani nen expect kuda cheyyale.

Mem intha mandi ammailaki interest pampincham. And it's not like I've liked someone who is way out of my league. Most of them have a same financial and social status. But none have shown any sort of interest. Sometimes i think will i ever find love in this lifetime. At this point Now I'm working on myself, my hobbies and trying to spend as much time with family and friends. Because thats what is keeping me sane.

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u/Suspicious-Air1997 — 11 days ago