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Saw my dead coworker at work

Okay so to preface I work at a hospital and this experience has had me absolutely dumbfounded. So I’ve been working at this hospital for a few years as a nurse and we regularly coordinate care with the radiology departments to get patients scans/X-rays and so on. I had worked around this older coworker from radiology for a few years and we aren’t close or anything but when I would see him we would small talk and he was always really kind and easy going.

Well anyways around the time this happened in December I had a few exciting things happening in my personal life and was just mentally all over the place at work. It’s also not uncommon to go long periods without seeing coworkers because of crazy hospital schedules. So on this day in particular I was very busy at work and was rushing to the medication room next to where the X-ray machine is stored. When I see my coworker fidgeting with the X-ray machine trying to unlock it and because I was so busy I was not planning on making small talk. I was going to just enter the med room when something told me “say hi to him”. So the conversation goes exactly like this.

“Hi coworker how are you haven’t seen you in a while”-me

“Hi OP I’m doing so good! how are you!”- coworker

“I’m sooo tired but it’s okay I go on vacation soon for a few weeks and I’m so excited!”-me

And then we say well nice seeing you and to have a good rest of your shift blah blah and I go into the med room. I was in there for maybe 2 minutes and when I walk out he wasn’t there and the X-ray machine was still there.

This is all super important because fast forward about a month later. I am talking to another nurse on my unit and we’re talking about a doctor who had recently passed when she said yeah so sad we lost another coworker this year. I was confused as I only knew of the doctor so I asked further and she went on to mention a coworker from radiology died. She then describes the older coworker I make small talk with and I am so devastated. I was under the impression he maybe passed while I was on my vacation.

When she drops this absolute bomb on me… she pulls up his gofund me/ obituary that states he had actually died 4 months before in August.

I start absolutely freaking out because i immediately recalled that exact encounter with him IN DECEMBER!! I KNOW I saw and spoke to him in December because it was right before my vacation how could he possibly have passed away in August.

So unfortunately this coworker had a tragic and unexpected death. So heartbreaking. Just don’t know what to make of this experience.

Looking back on the memory of this it just all “makes sense”

  1. I hadn’t seen this coworker in while before this encounter
  2. Something in me told me to say hi to him that day
  3. He was fidgeting with the machine and could not unlock it/move it?
  4. I h

ave not

  1. seen him since

(Obviously)

I don’t know what to make of this but freaked out is an understatement.

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u/sunflower480 — 9 hours ago

Experience with otherworldly beings

I am a medium and I can connect with other people's past loved ones but as far as my own family goes I don't have any connection with them...I do however see my star family and extraterrestrials. I came into this world not fitting in with my earth family at all, my mom is a drug addict and dad SAed me as a kid, they are alive still...but I don't even really connect with extended family who passed. I just see light beings and ones who aren't human at all. Am I not human or something? I never really felt like a real person my whole life🤣...sorry if that sounds outlandish.

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u/mettaomegaxo — 1 hour ago

What does mediumship feel like internally vs. what people expect it to be?

I feel like most of what people see about mediumship comes from TV or social media, where it looks very clear and dramatic. I’m more curious about what it actually feels like on the inside.

Is it subtle? Confusing? Do you ever question yourself while it’s happening, or does it feel very certain?

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u/Fun_Butterscotch3303 — 3 hours ago

First experience with a medium

My friend took me (24M) to see a psychic (my first experience). (Please forgive my verbiage or some ignorance when discussing my experiences as some of the terminology and whatnot is still new to me and I am still learning).

I sat down and she explained to me that she would look at me and read my energy, and that when I wanted more information or had a question about something she said to ask. I didn't say anything, but she fairly quickly went on and identified lots of things and dynamics in my life that were going on. Some of these were more general, some very specific, but ranging from family to job, career satisfaction etc. Eventually she had 'won' me over and I began to ask a few questions or seek depth to some of the things she said. Two things caught my attention: 1. She mentioned that my throat chakra was blocked and 2. There were a few problems she identified in my life, to which I asked how to solve them, and she continually mentioned that I had karmic debt, or something along those lines. I eventually asked how to resolve this. She mentioned that before we addressed my karmic debt, I first needed to open up my throat chakra, (and maybe that I needed to cleanse or open my chakras?) that there were methods I could do, or she could do it right there as she provided that service.

I decided why not and did it. It was a very intense and real experience to me, and I felt my body shift. We finished and I sat back down across for her and she told me she had some new information.

She had wrote some things down and she explained that I had in a past life signed a soul contract with the *****, that I had essentially given up love for money/wealth. That this was a self inflicted curse, and that I cannot be happy in love. She also mentioned that I was an older soul, had 126 lifetimes and that I sold my soul 38 lifetimes ago. She also highlighted that the karmic debt showed up in 4 other lifetimes specifically, and that if I wanted to clear my debt/end the contract we had to go back to those life times, and then we could do that, but at that point I would have to pay something to end the contract.

This was obviously a lot to hear and overwhelming but with the relationships and lifestyle I have, I could rationalize it, and frankly as scary as it may be to hear, it was kind of nice knowing there was an external reason/explanation behind it. At this point I shared the first detail of my life with her, and I explained after all of this that I’ve had some strange experiences with relationships lately, and she immediately said “well you’ve met your twin flame”, and that they are scared of me because of something’s that happened in past lives. She explained what that was further, and in a weird way it all kinda started to make sense to me, and I think I could compartmentalize this experience as such. My friend then went in for their reading and it was nothing like mine, she basically told her about her life and predicted some things as well (one of which has already come true).

Although I was skeptical of having to come back 5 times and pay more money, I was at this point kinda convinced with what was shared with me, not to mention that even if there was a small chance it was true, I would like to amend for that. However there is some skepticism still just as she mentioned I would have to ’pay something’- and at this point I don’t know what or to whom. If I knew it was true I wouldn’t hesitate to do it, but realistically, this lady is a stranger and who knows. Regardless, I went ahead and scheduled a follow up to revisit/resolve the karmic debt from the past lives.

I went back twice, for two of the past lives, and I felt something both times both physically and emotionally but was unable to ‘see’ anything. (Still don’t know if I’m explaining this well but I think those reading will understand). After each experience she asked me what I felt/how I felt and if I saw anything. She then explained what happened in each of my past lives and why I felt those things. I will also note that the experiences for me were pretty intense, even though I was unable to experience them first hand or see anything.

Every time I came in however I would go back and essentially ask more clarifying questions, about the process, about the twin flame journey, etc. I eventually asked about the ending, of cutting the chord, and asked what should I expect to pay, or what has happened with other people in the past. This is when I got most skeptical because she mentioned how she doesn’t know but that it will probably be money, but that it will make sense when I get there. I asked if people had reached the end of this journey and decided not to go through with payment/chord cutting and she said yes all the time because people are greedy. This scared me. In my head, I’m thinking so she wants me to come back 3 more times, pay about $750, and then on top of that pay something else?Don’t get me wrong- I am happy to do it if it’s going to end this ‘contract’ but it also seems a little too straightforward to me, especially when it comes to someone that before a week ago was a complete stranger to me and I have already paid a good amount of money to (thus why I am here).

I told this situation to a family member and a friend of mine and they essentially told me to get a second opinion-the only issue is that I don’t know any psychics and even when looking them up, who am I to know that they are reliable or reputable. My family friend however did have a Shaman that they had recommended and trusted so I decided to meet with her. I told her this about my experience with the psychic and she essentially told me that it’s not possible to make such a deal and that she isn’t sure why she told me that. I felt a little better after this session, but then two days later my friend that I got the reading with called to tell me that the psychic’s prediction came true. Now I am somewhat stressed and concerned because I don’t know what to do. Part of me started to wonder, was she making all of this up? Was some of it true but just not the soul contract part?

Is any merit to what she shared with me? Which parts? Or am I completely getting scammed? She can’t just be making all of this up right? Maybe the Shaman has a different world view and thus their perspectives are different?

I know this is long but appreciate any help or advice that can be given. Thanks.

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u/Distinct-Bowler-9413 — 3 hours ago

Do spirits hang around their resting place?

I saw an interesting post on TikTok that said cemetaries are the least haunted place despite us being lead to believe that they’re always haunted and that spirits only go there when people go there to visit them.

It makes sense to me because spirits have moved on, so why would they want to hang around some dark depressing space - what are your thoughts?

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u/acsurban — 7 hours ago

I’ve just found out I’m clairvoyant now what?

Hi all,

I’m 27 and always felt connected to the spirit world. I have lots of dreams that become true in the real life. I can smell things that’s arent really there and sometimes I feel like I know what people are thinking. I also see light and visions during meditation. Where do I go from here?

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u/alexhaaaa — 9 hours ago
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Does everyone dream? I don’t ever remember dreams. My husband passed 18 months ago and I just want to see him.

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u/velvet_rope264 — 21 hours ago
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Suddenly feeling passed loved ones around when they’ve been gone for years

Hi, I’m really hoping that this post doesn’t get removed because I am not asking for a reading or anything of that sort. If this post is better suited for a different sub, please let me know.

I know that when a loved one is about to pass, they will often see their deceased loved ones in the room and even speak to them. I’ve seen this happen with a friend of mine who passed away in the hospital. She had a lot of this happen a week before she died. But they spoke to her and she knew they were preparing her and that they’d be waiting to take her home.

Lately, my mother has been feeling the presence of her mother, father and sibling. None of these are recent passings. One was back in the 1970s, the other two were in the early mid 2000s. All I know is that she just can feel their presence and know they’re there, but she doesn’t see them when she’s awake. And she has smelled her mother a few times when she’s felt her.

She’s also been having very vivid dreams where she sees them, but they don’t speak to her. In my experience when I’ve had visit dreams, it’s typically shortly after the passing and we do speak a little bit.

I guess I just wanted any opinions on what this means why it’s suddenly happening out of nowhere. She doesn’t meditate but she does believe this is real and I do as well.

Is this a common thing to happen prior to passing away yourself?

Or is it a way that they are suddenly making themselves known to comfort you in a time of need?

I guess I just found it odd, because this is all something that’s new to her. She had a few visit dreams by her father, years ago when he passed away but nothing since.

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u/ShameFox — 22 hours ago

Mirrors - What are your thoughts and experiences?

As a medium, how do you feel about mirrors? I’ve been seeing a lot of content about covering mirrors because they trap spirits. I get it because I find myself having OCD attacks in the mirror, but other than that, I don’t feel anything bad from mirrors in general unless it does actually have something attached to it. What are your thoughts and experiences?

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u/littleredsummer — 1 day ago

Spirit Guide Question - What are they?

Hello! I have recently been introduced to spirit guides through the spiritual subreddit and through questions on this subreddit. I have to ask, what are spirit guides? How can I contact them? Thank you very much 💜

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u/Flat-Map5789 — 1 day ago
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I’m being communicated with by dead best friend

So as the title suggests my best friend passed away in September (cancer) it was fast and awful. We were closer than anyone I’ve ever met. He came to me in a dream the night before he passed to say he loved me and it was time. He passed without ever waking up again. That dream felt unreal. But as time goes on his communication after death happens when I’m awake and I have evidence that others who knew him can’t make sense of. Reddit specifically my personal account made a new account and it’s this one is it and we had an inside joke about the phrase soul roach. I ve had Reddit for 4 years and my original account still exists but this one appeared when he died I didn’t even notice the new account until a few months later. There are other things but this one you can see look at my account name and profile I swear I didn’t make this account.

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u/soul_roach_4life — 2 days ago

Ringing in ears after someone passes away

Someone I know passed away a week and a half ago. Ever since, I have been getting ringing in my ears. This doesn't usually happen to me, but over the past few days my ears have rang at least 5 times, probably much more than that but I haven't been counting. Does this mean anything?

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u/DrySignificance7198 — 5 hours ago
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Does raising your vibration attract more jealousy/envy/haters? I thought it’s supposed to do the opposite???

Some context: I have been on a deep healing journey for the past few years now, and have successfully healed a lot of trauma. I feel more hopeful, I’m the happiest I’ve ever been, I smile more, I feel more love in my heart, and feel my vibration is rising (it’s like a feeling of light coming out of my heart, is the best way I can describe it), etc. While all of this is amazing, I’ve noticed I’ve been attracting more “haters” 🧐 I’m kind to everyone and it’s as if my kindness is an allergy to some people. For example: The other day, I was at the post office. There were two workers and one of them just started having a conversation with me. I look over at the other worker and could see that she was kind of side eyeing me. I didn’t even do anything 🤷🏻‍♀️ Another example: At my gym there is one worker who really busts their behind cleaning all of the workout machines. I randomly went up to him one day and told him he’s doing such a great job, and deserves to be acknowledged. He seemed really happy at first, but then the next few times I’ve seen him at the gym it’s like he’s standoffish and gives off a vibe that he thinks I’m this weirdo (I can see it in his face, it’s not just an assumption). Has anyone here experienced things like this?

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u/Classic_Law_3674 — 2 days ago

How to tell if my own thoughts vs Spirit

Hello everyone! I wanted to ask: how do you tell between your own thoughts/memories versus those that come from spirit? Last summer I had a spontaneous "awakening" and have been trying to embrace and practice my mediumship skills. One thing I've struggled with is doubting whether images I see in my mind's eye are my imagination or something else.

I've noticed that certain images and memories seem to arrive differently from my own. For example, when I normally think of a memory, it's the entire scene of that memory and it plays out like a story or scene from a movie. After my awakening, certain images and memories of the deceased person sort of "flash" into my head without warning, and they appear extremely vivid and almost tactile. The images are usually solely of the individual, with no surrounding "scene" or scenario, and are very close up and in high definition, for lack of a better term. These images/memories appear so suddenly and strongly that sometimes I'm startled and distracted by it (super inconvenient when you're on a Zoom call for work like I was today lol). It's very hard to describe. They definitely have a different feel to my normal, everyday thoughts.

Is this something anyone else has experienced? Like I said, it's so hard to articulate exactly how and what I see, and how it's different. Is there any way you can tell when what you're seeing (or even hearing or feeling) is from spirit? I'd love to hear others' perspective and unique experiences. Thanks for reading!

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u/memento_mori327 — 2 days ago

Rashes and hives after channeling

This has been happening consistently for me for some time but I figured it would get easier to navigate by now. Does anyone have advice for this? I find it physically uncomfortable. I can’t take baths so anything involving epsom or oatmeal soaks is unfortunately off the table. Ideally I’d like to not even have the rash appear but I’m sure that’s out of my control.

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u/Ill_Chipmunk_4796 — 1 day ago

Babies and passed loved ones . Do they meet on "the otherside" before we have them?

My friend recently gave birth and its the first granddaughter . Sadly, her father passed away a few years ago. He was a girl dad. My friend said I have this weird gut feeling that she wont want to come out on time. She was born 4 days later! I made a comment that perhaps her dad being a girl dad was spending time eith her and wasnt ready to let go quite yet and she was enjoying her time with her pa and also wasnt ready to come yet. Anyways it made me wonder if my sons got to meet their grandma or how souls work? My son was due November 18th we named him after my husbands grandpa since he was the glue of the family a patriarch . Two days before my husbands mom called me saying "you shouldn't go too far I have a feeling he is going to come today. I got the urge tp cook his soup and I just finished it" I was two cities away and mh contractions were 5 minutes apart and then my water broke very shortly after . I know it all could very well be a coincidence but something in me hopes our loved ones are out there. Its the only thing thats helped with my grief losing so many loved ones . The thought of one day seeing them again . Anyways not asking for a reading, not questioning anyone's abilities I believe since I have witnessed my medium grandma . Just curious as to what everybody thinks or has read or your experiences with babies and loved ones that have crossed. (My Grammer and punctuation is horrible but typing on this phone is hard and I have no auto correc.)

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u/Sylaveda — 1 day ago

Creo que un espiritu me acompaña

Hola a todos!!

Me gustaría explicarme bien y si alguien me puede dar una explicación estaria agradecida.

Hace unos años falleció mi padre y una semana después fui al cementerio y vi una sombra detrás de mí. Intenté buscar una explicación lógica (pensé que habría alguien más en el cementerio), pero lo descarte enseguida porque era imposible que una persona se viera reflejada en un cristal donde solo se veía la pared de en frente y no el suelo.

Durante los últimos 6 meses siento que algo me sigue. Una noche mi perro salió corriendo buscando a alguien, pero no había nadie. Luego se quedó mirando puntos de la casa donde no había nadie.

La última vez que vi a la sombra, tuve la sensación que mi familia iba a tener un accidente y por desgracia se cumplió (por suerte nadie falleció).

Ahora tengo confirmación de que alguien me sigue, porque un amigo sensible me dijo la otra noche que alguien había en el baño de mi casa, mirándonos.

Él cree que es mi padre, pero yo no siento que lo sea. Creemos que es un hombre.

Me gustaría entender por qué se ha pegado a mí y qué puedo hacer.

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u/siddney27 — 16 hours ago
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Animal Communication-My dog has a lot to say

In the past I have been able to hear but not see spirits (except deceased relatives who came to me in dreams), I am able to see positive and negative energy in the environment and around people, and most recently, I am able to communciate with my senior dog who is close to the end with bladder cancer. We are very bonded, but still, it's very strange to experience.

In the past, I would think I heard things come from her and they made me laugh because they were so funny and childlike, but I thought I was imagining it. Lately though, the communication channel is very open, and she is communicating needs/wants, jokes, and love. Today, she was or sending me a mental image of her dog bowl with the bbq brisket I ate a couple weeks ago and letting me know she'd like to eat it. Or she will send me a picture of water to let me know she is thirsty and her bowl is empty. I told my husband about how she has been communicating with me, and she relayed in feeling how much she loves him and asked me to tell him what she communicated. It was such a strong emotion of love towards my husband that she sent me to feel that it brought me to tears.

My husband is skeptical, so I asked him to test it and whisper a word in her ear and ask the dog to tell me. What we didn't anticipate is that she has free will, and every time I asked her what he said she kept saying "I'm not telling!" She finally sat in front of me told me with a flash of an image of a specific type of cookie which was the word he said. He still didn't believe me, so he tested it again but she waited til the next day to tell me with another flash of a picture of the word in my mind. He was surprised again but is still skeptical and it's causing tension between us. Right now she is calling me a nickname that's a variation on "mom" that my husband uses with her to refer to me, and I asked her not to call me that and she started singing it, like a kid. She keeps using it to get my attention. I told my husband this and he said he'd been talking to her earlier in the day and using that name to refer to me.

Last night my husband and I sat down with her and he asked her some questions and I told him her responses. She has been barking a lot more than usual and he asked why, and she told us she feels it is her duty to protect us and she will not stop until she dies, and it is her last act of love towards us. He also asked her why she is more anxious lately when we leave her at home and her response made me cry, she said she is afraid she will die while we are out and she wants me to be holding her when she goes. She also gave us a list of things she wants to eat before she dies. After this session of communicating, my cheeks were flushed and I felt exhausted after translating so much to my husband. He still doesn't fully believe me and the dog keeps apolgizing for the tension it's causing, and I keep telling her it isn't her fault.

This morning she tried to communicate with me when I woke up but I woke up feeling tired and I couldn't hear so clearly what she was saying til I had some coffee. At other times, she doesn't feel like communicating this way and prefers to communicate with vocalizations and eye or head movements gesturing to what she wants. My husband brought her and me both a bacon sandwich and she kept saying thank you and I could feel how touched she was that he had done that for her, as it was something she requested last night in the conversation about foods she wants to eat before she dies.

I was always interested in animal communication but this is the first time I've experienced it. I wonder if it's because my heart frequency is aligned with this particular animal after so many years together. I haven't tried I'm curious to know if anyone else has experienced this. Now that the dog knows I can hear her, it feels like she has so much to say, like giving a toddler a microphone, but maybe she was always saying a lot all along and I just couldn't hear.

TLDR Active sixth sense most of my life, always interested in animal communication but was never capable until recently when my senior dog with cancer started communcating her needs and desires to me telepathically through words and flashes of an image in my mind.

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u/endlesscroissants — 3 days ago
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Famished and exhausted after channeling?

Does anyone else experience this?

Yesterday evening I did about 1.5 divining rods + channeling session for some family members. It was amazing with one of their guides and an ancestor showing up to join and answer questions.

Today I woke up totally exhausted. I was famished also and kept thinking about protein all day. I stay to a pretty strict clean diet to keep healthy and try to keep the connection as strong as possible for times like this.

But this was a first. It felt like I couldn’t eat or drink enough all day, no matter what. Or recoup from being so tired.

(No I didn’t take gummies lol)

Just curious if anyone has this happen to them also?

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u/Fickle-Yak-1917 — 21 hours ago

Passing of a friend and how they are coming through

Unfortunately I received news today that one of my friends has passed. I’m not sure on the cause of passing but I feel I am being told it was an accident and I think she is already coming through to me to tell me this.

Through anyone else’s experience, is it normal for a spirit to come through as panicked and upset at passing over if it wasn’t intentional. I want to say it feels like she’s not fully crossed over yet? I’m very new to this so any advice would be wonderful. It feels like a different connection to others I have had.

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u/Whole_Sandwich5120 — 1 day ago