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I have a fiance and I love her very much but sometimes I get these random thoughts that I wish I had gotten to date more women. She is the only women I’ve ever been in a relationship with. It’s not that I don’t want to be with her or that I even want to be with another woman, I think I just want to know if other women would find me attractive as a trans man. It could also be a little bit of the fact that my fiance has been with a lot of people before and so I feel inexperienced.
Sometimes I wish I could’ve been a guy who talked to girls but I feel like a missed out on that.
I feel like that makes me a bad fiance, idk… does anyone else understand this?

Some good news for Australian trans women

I (24 Non-binary Fem) have been struggling with my sexuality for years. I’ve known since the 7th grade that I was bisexual, but that doesn’t feel right anymore.
Right now I’m away from home trying to find myself while spending time with God and my close friend Bill Wilson (iykyk). While being away from home I’ve met a guy (38 Male), let’s call him Andy, and we’ve been dating for a month now, I enjoy our moments together and the gifts and love he has for me, but being in a relationship with him doesn’t feel right, maybe because I’ve been spending time with Bill for only 6 months and I’m getting back into the routine of spending time with God for the first time in almost 6 years (due to religious trama I left Christianity and decided to come back when I felt ready). I never intended to date while being away from home, it all just kinda happened, and Andy is a super sweet guy, but our values don’t align and I just don’t feel that spark with him the way he does with me.
I feel so confused, frustrated, and overwhelmed, I don’t know what to do and how to solve this, but I’m tired of denying how I feel and I’m tired of feeling like I can’t show who I really am and how I sparkle.
If anyone has any advice, I would appreciate your help more than anything. Thank you for reading and I hope you have a wonderful day

Happy 17th of may, queers and trans!

Seems like a complicated issue. But in Australia a transgender woman won a discrimination case in court for being banned from a lesbian dating app.

What do you think?

Is it ok for lesbians to exclude transgender women from lesbian dating apps?

I'm Bi but I don't date guys I date other women and NB people (neutral NB or feminine NB, so Neptunic) and I'm into styling hair/trying new hair hacks and I'm basically obsessed with this kind of stuff one may call me even a girly-ish girl ("ish" because I'm still into other stuff like soccer and etc..). And apparently I can't be that while being sapphic because it's "against girl-code" someone told me.

I also got shamed for liking hair videos that have no narration that's like "If YoU dO tHiS yOuR bEsT fRiEnDs BrOtHeR wIlL aAtUaLlY fAlL iN lOvE wItH yOu!". I don't have anything against straight people or having crushes on your best friends brother and whatever but it kind of gets too much. Especially since this happens on almost EVERY video I see which is an annoyance I wanna point out just for the sake of it.

But the main point is is that whenever I say "oh yeah I'm actually not into guys..." people (rl and online) go all shell-shocked like "Really? Never thought someone who gave me that ponytail hack would be...y'know..." and believe it or not- they treat me differently even if they are my own close friends who say "Oh I really don't care" but they do.

I lost one of my most important friends (it was a guy friend) because he found out I'm Bi (Neptunic), I don't know if he was disappointed or just told by family to stay away from gay people.

Thanks for listening.

(NOTE: All rude comments made to insult me will be ignored! Hope that won't happen).

Scotland's Parliament has entered new territory with the election of its first transgender MSPs. Yet almost as quickly as the result was confirmed, JK Rowling redirected attention towards a defeated candidate known for opposing trans rights legislation.

The election of Dr Q Manivannan and Iris Duane on 8 May was widely viewed by supporters as a watershed moment for transgender representation in Scottish politics. Both were elected under the banner of the Scottish Green Party, with Manivannan representing the Edinburgh and Lothians East region and Duane securing a seat in Glasgow.

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