r/CamGirlProblems

My favourites

• SPH guys - This is super easy to me. I just rattle off some insults and act grossed out. If my mind goes blank I can just laugh.
• Cucks - I'm very familiar with this fetish from IRL experience so I know exactly what they want to hear. As with SPH, I find it easy to insult them lol
• Good Doms - I love polite older men who rattle off a few instructions, don't push and understand the transactional nature of our relationship.
• Blowjob callers - This is only for phones but I have a few regulars who just want to hear me give a "blowjob". I barely have to say a word lmao

Least favourites

• Sissies - I never know what to say! I actually enjoy making sissification audios but something about a live call/private makes me freeze. I'm confident with this fetish IRL but not online.
• Pegging - Same as above
• Guys who aren't clear about their humiliation kinks! - Ex. They send a pic of their dick and I compliment it but they keep asking things like "Are you sure it's nice?". If I happen to misread the situation and insult someone who's not into that, it can be very damaging.
• Scat. - I tried briefly for the $$ (no actual poop, just talking) but those conversations haunted me. Nope. Never again.

Im so embarrassed I was camming last night and at some point I fell asleep I woke up to some of my regulars just watching and I have no idea how long I was out or if I said anything before passing out. I should mention i don't have any medical issues I just had a few drinks to relax and get comfortable. I just know when I sign on again tonight im gonna laugh at myself when everyone joins my stream and then do a few of my tip request for free since im sure I missed some of them.

Just a general chit chat wondering how it’s going for everyone??

is becoming incredibly hard.

I act interested and social.... nothing.

I act lowkey.... nothing

I act like a mannequin..... lurker who say hi and then when I say hi they leave.

I can't even do gig jobs because I don't even have a car.

I'm conventionally attractive and can't make squat.

how are you guys doing it? I've been doing this for 10 years. I don't know what to do.

EDIT:: also whenever I do the sensible thing like pander to regulars they've become increasingly sadistic and they lead me on now with no follow through.

How do you ladies that stream during the day do? I usually don’t hop on till 9pm but today was thinking about hopping on around 1ish. Is the money okay during the day or is it slow bc all the users are at work?

Update- I didn’t make a single penny. Idk how you daytime girls do it. I tried CB and SM

I recently started camming on Chaturbate and I enjoy it. Next month I am entering a profession field as an intern and it looks like camming violates their code of ethics. I know I should stop camming, and I believe I will, because even with geo-exclusion. there is a chance a colleague or client could see me, and it’s not worth the risk. I am wondering if anyone has any insight here or somehow keeps their cam life and processional life- particularly in the filled of clinical mental health counseling. Thank you!

I am so susceptible to bullying and being taken advantage of, even though I’ve learned how to enforce boundaries, it still gets to be too much, at times. And I interact differently from other people, as well, so I end up disappointing a lot of people who have premade expectations of me being like a “normal” cam girl, and it attracts more bullies… but I have difficulty masking. I am trying not to give up because so many people have watched me start over countless times, and it feels like I have completely ruined everything with my extreme anxiety. I was hoping I may not be the only person who has gone through it and if not, if somebody could tell me how they got through it and how it worked out for them?

How do y’all keep your puss so hairless? I use a nice razor and still always end up with some stray hairs when I shave, just can’t get the technique right for the hard-to-reach pieces. Less than 24 hours, it’s all stubble, and it doesn’t feel right shaving stubble. Any advice? Should I try a different method for hair removal? Thank you! 😊

As the title says, don't even know if this post will be allowed here but I got attached to a client. He said he wanted us to sext and play long term but today he randomly deleted his account.

He didn't even say goodbye :(

I know it was dumb to get so involved but how am I supposed to cope with this? And advice would be appreciated

Thanks dolls xoxo

bad days don’t mean you’re failing, this job can be mentally exhausting, but your worth is not defined by one slow shift, you got this 😽❤️

yeah i don't know what else to title this... i am getting a cat this weekend. am excited about it ofc. am planning on taking a few weeks off to bond with my kitty. but i need advice on what website has the BEST traffic. am not leaving the industry i love this work. but i still wanna get paid. but i wanna know if there any websites that i could make or anything to still get paid because i don't think i will have time to cam for 1 or 2 hours locked in a room. he might be in my room with me. his bed. which i emailed CB & SC about this but what if he needs to his littir box. what if he whats to go eat etc etc etc. so i wanna stop camming and move to a new website with traffic. like fansly but but a much of ppl can sub but also where i don't need to go live or cam and i still can make money still.

also i have some videos from my past lives. i wanna know a website where i can post them. am on IWC but i only got one buyer and i made it about a month ago. i can't get approved on C4S they just won't take my application. and a long story so any advice on which websites where i can do good and make money without camming and also a website where i can post my live videos would be so useful.

thank you all. i really like this community i joined many years ago

Anyone have that feeling where you know almost within the first 30 mins whether your shift is going to be a hit or a miss? (That's the thing with SC that just really lowers my motivation). I would be quite happy just to sit there for 5 hours but im just lowering my stripscore for nothing. I look at the guys/numbers in my room and see that it's like that the whole time. Frustrating how different it is. Anyone else get this feeling? It's either popping or crickets and it doesn't change.

(If anyone wants to verify, my old name was 'Chy Latte' if you want to search interwebs).

THINGS ARE CHANGING. No matter how much you whine, complain, stomp your feet or want things to go back to 2020 numbers, it's not happening. This is the New Era of Pluto in Aquarius (I also study the stars if anyone is interested in finding out how to market according to their Birth Chart in Astrology).

You can still have a twitter and tiktok accounts, just don't post sexual/sensual content or post it as much. That's not necessary when you know how to market. Gone are the days of needing to be explicit/NSFW to attract NSFW money. Be SOCIAL on SOCIAL MEDIA. That's ALSO why they're banning some accounts and allowing others to stay (my accounts haven't been banned since 2019 an that's only because a loser male mass reported me). Show your personality, tweet your creative thoughts, not just your ass and pussy or how much money you aren't making. WHY would someone want to subscribe to you when they could go find 10 other models (who probably look just like you)? SHOW THEM WHY IT SHOULD BE YOU and no one else! I'm also a Findom and a Femdom and that's the whole premise of the kink. Why are you different? What makes you special? Don't convince, just show it and do it proudly and confidently without worrying about numbers. You never know who's watching you at a distance.

Edit to add: It's the mentioning of and direct linking to other sites as well as interacting with NSFW pages on Twitter that gets girls banned (that along with promo groups -- BIG NO--- bot farms, bot followers/paying for promo from those who have bot pages as followers, even if they don't know about it). It's safer to avoid it all together and look as vanilla as possible while being social (commenting on regular and viral posts with more than an emoji or 1 to 3 word replies--that's spammy AS HELL). Twitter, now more than ever, hates linking off site. I tell them to DM me (because the messages are supposedly encrypted now) or search my name online. It's more work for subs, but the ones who want the content will find it. It IS harder to grow now and that's intentional because the man shaped like a box speaker who owns it wants you to pay for verification which I refuse. Also, if you use the same phone/computer and IP address to sign up for a new account, they track that like Instagram (except IG allows 5 accounts on one IP address/phone (just make sure none of them have been banned on that IP or you'll have to sign up with a completely new phone). They make it difficult on purpose because they realized just how easy it was for people to make money smh. I've seen people build businesses and communities on youtube and that seems to be the most useful social media site right now. It's annoying all around but once you get going, you do see results.

I've made MORE money off of OF than on it because the ones who respected my craft wanted to make sure I got most of my money. I say that's because of my marketing on and off of OF. Descriptions are KEY! The longer and more detailed THE BETTER. Your OF bio should be as long as they allow, not cute, giving little detail. List EVERYTHING that you do, what you don't do, what kinks/fetishes you cater to so people know what to expect. Them not being sure is a GAMBLE and most people don't like to gamble UNLESS there's a chance they can get something worth while.

I got more subs at $50/month than at $12/month because I was so detailed about what was on my timeline (they told me so before unsubscribing to pay me on platforms where I got more than 80%---my own site, for example). People who had never seen me before, subscribed because when they searched for their favorite fetish/kink, I was the one that popped up and my VERY descriptive videos (even on a paid page) and bio is what convinced them. I would also suggest you get rid of your free OnlyFans page UNLESS you're making good money from it (over $100/month or more). If you aren't, let your socials be the free content they can get. It's pointless otherwise.

I posted this in another comment on here:

People are overwhelmed with porn and a lot of folks are over it. That's the truth. The ones who are addicted are [redacted] to 15 second porn on X and moving along with their day, (mostly because they are broke and/or cheap). Men with a lot money aren't watching porn all day, they're too busy. There are a few who actually pay for porn and have enough money to collect it. Stop looking at the ones who can only pay $5-$20/month for your sub (or $200 for 10 girl's subs---yes, that's what they do). My focus have always been the ones who can send me the $200 and not think twice about it. There are more of those types of customers than models think, they're just CHOOSEY with who they INVEST their money with---that's how the rich stay rich.

It's been non-stop porn on people's timelines since 2020. I was there long before the Paddywagon OnlyFans boom and even I got tired of seeing porn all over my timeline and I've filmed it for over a decade! Now, they want, crave, desire and need intimacy. That doesn't only mean sex and being sexy even if you lead them TO your sexual platforms. The biggest earners on OnlyFans (allegedly, Camilla and The Bop House) never/rarely shot XXX content for promo. It's suggestive, but it's mostly cute because that's what they are (and their clientele are 18-25ish). Think about what you're good at. and who your customers are. I'm good at pulling in people with the truth.

My customers and subs have always loved how blunt I am while also being nurturing/"mothering". For the past decade, my customers were between the ages of 18-25 and 35+, now they're 30-60. My features are also different from most of the top models on OF (for starters, I'm a darker-brown skin Black woman). The "imperfections" girls have paid thousands to fix, I grew an INTERNATIONAL following from (gap in my teeth/overbite, I was BBW at one point, I've had a bald head the whole time but I wore natural wigs mostly, etc). When I posted on clip sites, I could see my biggest customers came from down South USA, Japan, China, Sweden, Italy, etc. I'm also building a youtube channel with my favorite hobbies that I know they'll enjoy too.

Think about what people have said they like about you in AND OUT of porn. What do you like about yourself? What are yours hobbies? What do YOU need in terms of intimacy? Are you funny? Do you sing, act? Do you cook or bake? Do you like to serve or be served? What can you do that not many else people can? Are you controversial? I've ALWAYS been controversial as Hell and I made it work for me even when most models AND tube/member/clip site CEOs wanted to burn me at the stake LOL---remember, we are INDEPENDENT CONTRACTORS. What makes other models money and their opinions of you, don't fill your bank account. You can collab, but remember, your business (cus this IS a business) is YOURS and no one else's.

Most people (quality customers) NEED to connect on a deeper level now in order to give you their money freely and often. The days of gathering thousands of subscribers are also gone UNLESS you have the money to pay for promo, build a b*t farm, collaborate with SFW creators (that's the KEY now), etc. If you can show other SFW and/or NSFW creators WHY you would be a benefit to their platform, they might collab with you for free as long as you can get to them or they happen to be in your same area.

You can make $100K+ a year with less than 500-1000 subscribers. Just keep at it and be open to pivoting when necessary. The ones who earn/attract the most are the ones who keep going. There are hundreds of models who started after I did and they were gone long before I took a break.

Let me know if I should do a virtual seminar on everything else I have in this brain of mine.

First and foremost, I'm motioning to abolish the 30 second grace period before the customer is charged. Kind of sick of having to block these freeloading lowlifes coming into my private sessions for free, seeing my goods, enjoying the show while someone else pays.

Honestly, the 30 second window is the perfect loophole for freeloaders to steal our time, steal out energy, consume our content free of charge, and view our bodies without consent nor compensation.

Continually and without accountability and tbh, it feels invasive and creepy. theres also nothing that i can do about it, so add powerless to that laundry list of negative emotions.

Secondly, if we, the workers, are only receiving 35% (arguably 32% as my gold earnings are .32 for 1 gold for example) that means streamates LTD is raking in most (65%) of OUR hard earned revenue while we earn peanuts.

Coupled with the fact that the websites traffic is much slower than usual, models are complaining about being online for hours only to make <$10, people are not spending and models incomes and savings are depleted. Youd think that since a large fraction of SM models are in the US, SM’s corporate/hr/ payroll depts would take some consideration for the fact that we have a fascist oligarch in our current administration who is doing nothing to make basic needs accessible, and is doing everything to commodify and inflate them. Even outside of the US, people are seeing rising inflation and fuel prices due to the blockade of the straight of hormuz.

With these factors considered, it would be fair to at least let models be able to withdraw an advance in case of emergency, or financial hardship.

But no, we are not even afforded that cushioning. But the fuckin broke pieces of fucking shit can come watch 30 seconds of my show for free, at MY OWN expense.

To them, we are disposable, expendable and replaceable. A model could die, and all SM will do is delete the persons profile, let it idle out of their system, and forget they ever existed. Streamate absolutely disregards the very people making them this much revenue. We dont matter to them. They let customers degrade, insult and threaten us, and dont terminate their accounts or even give them a warning. The camgirls are bottom tier priority to streamate. We are just cogs in the wheels of their exploitative system. They dont even view us as human beings.

Some models are making 10k a week. Hats off to yall. But theres a majority who are not seeing the payoff with these unbalanced and unfair percentages.

So what exactly is 65 percent of my income paying for? And how do these exploitative sociopaths sleep at night thinking this is okay? How do they convince themselves theyre not stealing peoples hard earned living?

Cause when i see how much a client paid versus what i earned, its enough to make you cry.

I think that the people working at streamates corporate should be reminded that they didnt have to take off their clothes and show a stranger their body. They didnt have to deal with these creepy bastards grunting and talking gross perverted shit while they crank their disgusting wart covered hog. They didnt have to watch an elderly man in a tutu and fishnets ride a footlong dildo, cover himself with mayonaise, beat himself up with a fly swatter and cum between two pieces of bread at the end of the session and eat it. They didnt have to watcha guy stick a rod or a sharpie or the wooden end of a paintbrush in his dickhole. They didnt have to throw up in their mouths reading all of the sick, disgusting and repugnant fantasies these perverts ask us to fulfill or articulate. They didnt have to work long hours dealing with gross fucking scumbags who treat them like an object instead of a human being.

No. None of that.

WE FUCKING DID THE WORK AND WE DESERVE TO BE PAID FAIRLY AND BE GRANTED ADVANCES FOR WHEN TIMES ARE TOUGH!

Streamate has been sued in class action lawsuits before and it doesnt seem like theyve learned from it.

Now, i’m no Ms Cleo, but i have a sneaking suspicion someone from SM will see this, or one of their subservient pick-me asses will pass this along for a pat on the head.

And to this i say:

Streamate, quit fucking starving us! Get off your fucking lazy asses and start doing some footwork on your end to bring us more clients willing to spend and not waste our time. Start weeding out time wasters, freeloaders and bad actors. Get your fucking shit together. CAUSE WITHOUT US, YOU ARENT MAKING A FUCKING DIME. Not even a peso! Without us, how will you generate revenue from your dry dick, no pussy gettin ass customer base?

Anyone else having issues on CB this morning with messages not going thru and being very laggy etc?