I F19 can never get myself to orgasm I think it’s because of the technique I do that I’ve been doing for like ever and it’s like a squeezing technique but it makes me frustrated a bit because I only feel pleasure for a few seconds and rubbing my clit doesn’t really like feel stimulating any advice? And also how do you even know if you climax?
I’ve had anxiety since I was In elementary it just got progressively worse as I got older and I’m wondering if anybody here has experience with medication not any specific one since I’ve never been on any before and if it has worked? I’m thinking about starting but I hold back since my family fears I’d become addicted to it or reliant on it so if anybody here has any experiences with it I’m open to hearing you out.
Edit: I’ve decided what I’m going to do thank you everyone
Hiii I’m a female and weigh between 175-185lbs since my weight fluctuates and my goal is to lose weight and grow my glutes at the same time is that possible? If so where should I start and how? I have a set of 20lb dumbbells and resistance bands and ankle straps, and protein powder for extra protein if I don’t get it through food. Any advice or tips or workouts will help me with my goal
Hii I’m A female and I’m trying to lose weight and build my glutes at the same time but not sure where to start. I’m 5’6 175-185 ish lbs my weight always fluctuates between those two and I have 20lb dumbbells, ankle straps with different weights and one resistance band. I don’t know where or how to start. Is it possible to grow my glutes while trying to lose weight? Please lmk if you know a thing or two 😭🙏🏼 for extra protein I could also use protein powder because I have some but if you can give me work outs and maybe meals to maybe eat for it I’d be more than thankful 🥲🥲
I want to learn how to drive soon but I am scared. I practiced one time in the cemetery with my brother and my sister and I wasn’t scared in the beginning I was actually driving around for a bit in a triangle if that makes sense. But then I tried to turn onto another street and almost drove onto the curb and both of my siblings started yelling at me and it scared me even though I didn’t hit anything or even drive on it. This was 4 years ago but after this experience I never wanted to try again, but I feel like this is a skill I need to have. How do I get over this fear I also want to know how and where to start? If I try again it won’t be with those same siblings it will piss me off.
Yes this is my third post 😭 I’m thinking about starting it but I’m not exactly sure if it will work?
I’m very isolated and it makes my anxiety really bad even if I look good it makes me not want to talk to people because my insecurities come up in my head and it makes me worried that I’m being judged another problem is I’ve been bed rotting for almost three years now and everything just feels heavy and I get tired easily even when dealing with people and it sucks im not sure what to do. Sometimes I don’t care when I’m out only when I have earphones in but even then it just all feels like my life’s not going to change because I don’t know how to change the inside of me when I easily end up feeling careless I don’t know how to break the cycle of how I feel I don’t even know anybody in my life that’s dealt with this type of situation either. I have a therapist but talking to them only temporarily makes me happy or feel better and I’m not sure what to do anymore. I feel like if I don’t change now I will become homeless but even that doesn’t motivate me I don’t know what to do.
Should I try medication for my anxiety? It comes and goes but my family is very against it. They say it could make people dependent on it but then again they don’t have anxiety like I do I’m not sure what to do will it help me?
I just feel this way because all my day consists of is staying in bed multiple hours a day I know it’s bad but I’ve been doing this for almost three years now it just got worse because throughout the years I’ve became more isolated and with isolation I stopped going to school which caused me to unfortunately flunk. I feel fine sometimes but often I find myself not interested in talking to my loved ones like I used to anymore. Even when I go out I don’t feel joy atleast at family events to be honest. I used to love working out now I don’t even have the energy to do that anymore. I just don’t seem to care to keep up with myself anymore when I’m alone and I used to love taking care of myself. I know I have anxiety but I never want to say I have depression because I feel like it’s a serious serious topic not saying anxiety isn’t but that’s just how my mind thinks and I need help because honestly I lost my purpose in life to continue/try to do better In life even laying in bed and playing games get old but I don’t know what to do or how to feel or who to confide in when everyone is so busy yk. Is this worth telling my therapist because I’m not sure if it will help me and I’m not even sure I am depressed?
I would do a deep dive into probably what made me this way but to sum it up about 3 years ago I dealt with two losses a week apart due to yk……. and before that I was kicked out of school and not put in my entire sophomore year which made really not gaf about school. Before both of these big events happened in my life I loved taking care of myself working out keeping up with my looks. After I genuinely just stopped caring all together and I’m not sure anymore what to do nor do I care most days nothing motivates me if I’m being real
Im 19 and not really recently but for about 3 years now I’ve been feeling lonely but as of now I really am. I barely talk to anybody everyday and I feel like sometimes it makes me feel like I’m going crazy. I never thought about it before but now I yearn having connections because it makes me sad I don’t really talk to anybody now. I know you’re not supposed to rely on other people to make you happy but honestly I have no motivation at all to really do things for myself that im supposed to do. I’m not saying I need a crowd but as bad as it sounds being lonely makes me cry sometimes and honestly I don’t know I just feel like being lonely kills/killed my motivation.
I have family in my life but everybody is really busy right now and my feelings honestly just aren’t that serious to me to really put it on them bc I have a therapist. But I don’t know what to tell them and I don’t know how telling them is going to help me I’m not sure what to do how can I accept this. I don’t want to hear nobody’s coming to save you because I already know, I told myself that a few times and I just don’t care. I feel like maybe I don’t care at all what way my life goes i don’t know anymore what I want out of this life how do you find a purpose
Female 19 and I’ve never really dated anybody. This is due to me losing interest in people or instantly being on edge when I get asked out In public and immediately saying no. I feel like my life isn’t in line enough to really start pursuing anybody so I ask do I need to be ready to start dating? I feel like the answers yes but I have things and goals I want complete first before I do but from time and time again sometimes I do want to start dating but nobody in particular. 🤷🏻♀️
I used to be so good at doing my eyebrows but I stopped and lost the hang of doing them. I have eyebrow scissors and tweezers and face shavers but I don’t know what shape to do and how to even them out anymore can somebody gives some advice.
I just started taking necon about 8-9 days ago and was recommended to take three pills for three days two pills for two days then one for the rest of the time being and everyday I get irritated easily and sometimes nausea I’m not sure if it’s because at the same time I started taking necon I also started taking vegetable laxatives to help with constipation yes These both where prescribed to me but necon was prescribed because I was dealing with an irregular period. Is it the birth control making me nauseous? I did drink coffee like 3-4 hours ago idk if that’s what caused it. I’m positive this is a side effect though. I also noticed for some reason I feel like I’m going crazy I can’t explain it I don’t know if it’s stress or irritation I’m not good at pinpointing if I feel stressed tbh
I’m genuinely not rude but lately…. For some weird reason I keep being rude and I don’t understand why. For an example I was having a conversation with my teacher and they asked when I was leaving I said without thinking, whenever I want too 😞 and immediately regretted it even now. (This happened yesterday) usually my mind has a filter like I think before I speak and I’m usually polite definitely not a jackass but as of this month I keep letting this negative attitude into my life more and more and I hate it.
I was also recently dealing with a irregular period for the first time I’m not sure if that’s what’s contributed to this sudden wave of rudeness but before my irregular cycle started I was not this rude and I don’t want to become a jerk
I’m not sure what’s going on it’s like my mind can’t think anymore before I speak specifically when I’m about to say some rude shit, atleast that’s how I feel and honestly I hate it because i was never this rude before.
If anybody here has experienced this before I’d appreciate some advice on how to stop this because it’s bothering me a lot I don’t want to be a rude person I’ve always disliked people who had attitudes and for some reason I’m becoming what I don’t like and I don’t mean too 😔
I don’t know anybody in my life who has ever been to job corps and I’ve been thinking about going to the sf one. How’s it like over there? Be honest don’t sugarcoat nothing 🥲😭😭