like if you’re not ace i feel that you just don’t understand? thats prolly insensitive to me but from my experience, no one understands or takes me seriously
i don’t even tell people im aroace anymore because it’s too complicated to explain :(
like yes i’m not able to be attracted to someone but i don’t want to be alone and i cry everyday about it
so i’ve noticed my entire life i can’t get aroused, and also my body won’t produce lubrication no matter what.
as well as the fact that i can only come through repetitive touch and it doesn’t feel that great just gets me annoyed and overstimulated it’s not great at all! and i can’t put anything up there because it’s usually rock solid and dry as hell 😭
and once in a blue moon when i do get aroused, it lasts for like 3 minutes and then it’s over and it SUCKS
i know sexuality is innate and whoever says asexuality is a preference count your days because why the hell would someone want THIS?
so i’ve noticed my entire life i can’t get aroused, and also my body won’t produce lubrication no matter what.
as well as the fact that i can only come through repetitive touch and it doesn’t feel that great just gets me annoyed and overstimulated it’s not great at all! and i can’t put anything up there because it’s usually rock solid and dry as hell 😭
and once in a blue moon when i do get aroused, it lasts for like 3 minutes and then it’s over and it SUCKS
i know sexuality is innate and whoever says asexuality is a preference count your days because why the hell would someone want THIS?
heyy so i never really feel arousal unless i beat it out of myself forcefully
by this i mean i don’t get err aroused by anything snd the only way i can come is by just touching it for ages
i don’t produce any lubrication or anything it’s weird and it’s been like this my whole life
i’m not one for sex, never had a bf or felt any sexual attraction to anyone
i know im asexual but it’s just weird how it’s biology too? i mean doesn’t this sort of defeat be point in “sexuality is a choice”?
this has happened around maybe 3 times in my life but i’ve stretch whilst laying in bed and for some reason my whole arm had just erupted into complete agony for around 1-2 minutes.
this has happened before in the arm arm and area but i almost felt like i was gonna pass out last time but not this time
i’m not joking it KILLED the pains gone now but what even was that
the pain slowly got worse and reached a peak slowly and then slowly came down
okay so i’ve been doing some research on my brain fog, confusion and gibberish when talking!
my complaint was this
“i often jumble up words like instead of saying “the chicken crossed the road” i would accidently say “the road crossed the chicken” or i would speak absolute gibberish and slur my words or find it hard to think of a word or for example ill eat an apple and say “this banana, pear, peach APPLE is yummy””
and apparently it can be linked with hypermobility with the looseness in our jaws? i’m not sure as it still makes me forget and stumble on my words. anyone else?
like to the girls who i’ve never spoke to during secondary school, why did tot completely hate my guts? 😭 i know im quiet and fugly but you do NOT need to talk smack about me
soo near my period or ovulation down there decides to let rip and release tons of discharge. today i could even smell it! it makes me insecure and grossly wet on my trousers, as well as leaving a trail when i sit in so embarrassed i cba to wear pantie liners 24/7
hi i know this isn’t women’s health related but i don’t need men yapping in my ear talking about my hormones ok?
for the past maybe 1-2 years ive been getting brain fog, and when i speak sometimes its complete gibberish like slurring its not even english just a bunch of stuff mashed into one! and sometimes i forget what im doing mid sentence.. my therapist says it’s my hormones prolly and my parents won’t let me get it checked out :((
i’m 17 i can make my own appointment but im just so nervous i’ve never made one myself before and ive been stupid and googled what’s wrong and they say some terrible things! especially with the meningitis outbreak recently! i’m very scared..
but i’m also a very stressed out person, i’m losing hair and im rly immature omg i’m really scared can someone reassure me PLEASE
Okay so i bought something for the first time online and I accidently made a small typo on my streets name! Only a single letter, the rest of the address is perfect. Will it be okay? Also for some reason the order isn’t showing up on the website only the tracking app… It’s an American brand and i don’t know what delivery company it uses.
We have a terrible Evri driver around my area so I’m nervous I’ve spent all my savings for nothing 😭
i’m not sure how to describe it but i just think it’s ugly i’ve never been a pretty girl and i feel as if my body never really developed properly and my body just looks wrong.
i’ve only seen my 🐱 once and i would never do it again, it’s disgusting and makes me feel ashamed. im not ashamed to be a woman it’s just it rubs me the wrong way.
i guess it’s okay i’m flat but i think that what makes me ugly as well, they just look wrong and i cant describe it but looking at them makes me feel shame.
has anyone else been through this? and how can i hate myself less? i’ve never felt truely feminine, i don’t have soft features or a gentle touch. im just wrong 😑
because i can’t physically prove or explain im exhausted or in pain so people just assume i’m lazy and unfit
(which is already true but ts makes it so much harder)
“im tired”
“you’re just lazy”
“my hip hurts”
“you’ll survive”
being told this my wholeee life and not having much support rly sucks. i remember being jn pain and not being allowed breaks when we had to run a mile in primary school. totally sucked. felt real guilty and crazy.
sometimes i feel it’s all in my head, it’s not but i can’t prove anything. only with a medical record
does anyone else feel like they’ve had 1 hour of sleep and as if they’ve done a 5 mile sprint when they get home from school or work 😭 it sucks totally ruins my motivation
So basically she asked me “can i put some makeup on u?” and i was like no thanks haha
and she’s like “well u need to wear more makeup i need to fit in with all the other girls” and it just rubbed me the wrong way…
i can wear a full face of makeup and it looks like im wearing nothing. im an ugly girl i know, and it upsets me to hear my parents who say “oh that woman’s wearing so much makeup she looks fake” and then tell me i need to wear more.
i DO wear makeup i cant go outside without it you just can’t tell :(
okay so i go to a sixth form and i have a handbag but it’s a tote but whatever its on my right shoulder and it’s totally be tearing it up!
when i put the bag on my shoulder it pulls and strains it so it hurts real bad and i’ve even gotten bruises and broken blood vessels underneath the skin
no i won’t use a backpack maybe if i can find a cute one but until then nopeee
i’ve had hyper mobility my whole life aka i’ve been diagnosed really early and i’ve kinda gotten used to the pain but everyday it feels like i’ve been hit by a lorry the muscle fatigue and strain is KILLING ME!!!
stretching helps i’m trying to get into it more tho