u/awoox3

Hello. I’ll keep this very brief but I want to highlight some things about me!

I’m a 23 year old woman from the United States. I am a late diagnosed autistic woman (I was diagnosed a year ago at 22). Due to my autism, I prefer to communicate very directly and logically. Because of this, I have always struggled to make connection with most humans. I’m very used to being alone and I actually enjoy my own company. However, I am generally polite and don’t see a reason to be rude to anyone.

I’m half Black (Jamaican) and half East Asian (Japanese). My parents are both immigrants from their respective countries, but I was born in the US. I am bilingual, in English and Japanese. I am working, I enjoy my job but trying to change it soon so I can make more money :)

I’d be happy to engage in some nice, SFW conversation with men outside of my race(s? lol). I can get easily overwhelmed by socialization due to being autistic, so I would really appreciate and prefer men who are calm, laid back, and understanding. Trust is very important to me and must be earned over time.

I really enjoy spending time in nature, hiking (alone), animals (I love dogs so much), occasional gaming, and watching YouTube videos about life philosophy. If you decide to reach out, please include your age, race, gender, location. It would be really nice if you included some of your hobbies and interests too so we could see if we have anything in common. Thank you for reading ❤️

Hello. I’m a 23 year old woman from the United States. I’m a late diagnosed autistic woman. I was diagnosed a year ago at 22. I’m seeking a potential partner who can add to my life, not someone I revolve my life around.

This is a long post because I am often misunderstood, so I want to make things crystal clear before anyone messages me.

I’m going to start by plainly stating that I am not “most people’s cup of tea”. I deeply struggle to connect with the vast majority of humans. I always have, likely due to my autism. I don’t like socializing with too many humans at once because it is extremely overwhelming and stressful. I’ve always been comfortable with my own company.

I have fairly limited interests and I don’t enjoy concerts or crowded events. I find joy in simple things like spending time in nature, hiking alone, animals (I love dogs so much), occasionally gaming, and watching YouTube videos about life philosophy. I also really like sitting on logs alone in the forest. It is very calming. I also like reading history and learning about different countries and cultures. I’m bilingual, so if you are too that is a BIG plus! I’d love to talk about our languages together. If you are into some kind of science, I’d like hearing about that as well.

I would describe myself as very direct and logical, and I prefer communicating that way. I am also generally polite and don’t see a reason to be rude to someone. I’ve been told I am usually quite serious, but I do like humor, even if it is a bit unconventional. I could be described as somewhat of a tomboy, although I enjoy dressing feminine. I am 5’9 and I have immigrant parents from two different countries, but I was born in the US. I am of average build and I take daily exercise seriously. It would be great if you did too, but no worries if you don’t. I also tend to prefer men with a clean shaven face.

Right now I am focused on building a future for myself and continuing to improve mentally and physically. I am working but trying to change my job soon because I want to make more money, save more, and continue building my independence.

I am completely okay with being alone and actually need my alone time, and I enjoy being off my phone and being present in the moment. I enjoy being close to my family and having a very small social circle. At the same time, it would be really nice to find someone I genuinely connect with and share my life with. I’m not the type who becomes obsessed with someone and I don’t want that kind of dynamic. I also don’t believe in forcing a connection that isn’t there. Additionally, trust is very important to me and it has to be built over time.

I value something that feels natural. I like slow-paced, consistent, enjoyable communication and want to get to know someone first, because I don’t see myself loving someone if I can’t consider them a friend as well. Also, I really prefer men who are calm, laid back, and patient due to me being easily overwhelmed by social interaction.

I’m interested in men between 21 and 26 years old. I’m very open to autistic men, we may communicate better as well. I would prefer someone from outside the United States because I really enjoy learning about other cultures, but it is not required. I am totally okay with a long distance relationship. Location matters less to me than intention, as long as there’s a real chance of meeting in person eventually. I want you to accept me as I am without idealizing me, and I will do the same for you. I would not do well with someone who gets emotionally attached very quickly.

If you want to reach out to me, please include your age, gender, country/location, and what about my post you resonated with in your introduction message. Thank you for reading.

Hello! I am a 23 year old woman from the United States looking for online pen pals from countries different than my own, especially places I have never visited before. I really enjoy learning about different cultures.

I am bilingual, so it would be great if you are too so we could talk about it together. My parents are immigrants from two different countries, but I was born in the United States. Some of my interests include animals (love dogs), nature, language learning, gaming, and learning about cultures different from my own. I enjoy relaxed conversations and getting to know people over time.

I am strictly looking for clean SFW conversation only, no sexual or NSFW topics. I am also autistic and can feel overwhelmed by social interaction, so l appreciate people who are calm, patient, understanding, and laid back.

If you decide to message, please include your age, gender, and country. I am especially hoping to meet people from outside the United States.

Thanks for reading ^^

I had been talking online with this autistic guy from a Scandinavian country consistently for a while now (I’m from the US lol). I really thought we had a unique connection and we both expressed an attraction to each other and he even sent me intimate messages and photos of himself. He told me he was single. He told me that he wanted me to visit him and have dinner together go on dates etc. I was happy talking with him, and I was considering entering a serious (long-distance) relationship with him in the future. However I found out today (through my own digging) that he already had a Sri Lankan girlfriend… so I sent her a message asking if he was her boyfriend and she said yes and I told her that he told me he was single and had sent me intimate messages a few days ago.

She became belligerent and told me to “shut your fucking mouth” and to fuck off. I even showed her evidence of his adultery but she just completely dismissed it and told me to fuck off again and that she’s in a committed relationship. In her bio, she said she really loves blonds and that they “tempt her” (he was blond ofc). She even has his name in her bio. I just told her I wished her the best and it’s okay if she doesn’t believe me. Then she blocked me. I sent the Scandinavian guy a message saying that I was hurt by what he did, I really trusted him and that it doesn’t matter anymore right. Of course, he blocked me without replying. But not before going through and deleting the intimate photos of himself he had sent me. Im really hurt that I was deceived like this. And it hurts that I was trying to help the girlfriend but she just got mad at me and cursed me out.

They haven’t met each other IRL. He told me he has been in many long distance relationships (in various, diverse countries outside of Europe) but he never met any of them IRL. It just hurts me a lot because I thought that this guy was so similar to me. He even told me that he could see himself in me and at the time I truly thought I could see myself in him. But I would never do such a thing like this. I truly felt like I could just completely be myself around him…that’s why his betrayal hurts so bad. It’s not even about me not dating him it’s about the fact he lied to me even though he always claimed to “say what he means”. I just want to delete all social media and just dedicate my time to myself only. Good luck to the girlfriend I guess. I tried. I wish I just blocked her after I got confirmation it was him tbh. I didn’t deserve to get treated like that from her too.

I’m really hurt right now and confused. I’m trying to stay calm but I don’t know how long I can hold on like this. I haven’t confronted him yet. Or his gf. I’m really hurt and lost. I trusted him. I’ve been flirting with him, and he was flirting with me back, that is why I developed a crush.