r/ForeverAloneDating

I think i kind of miss, the flirt that came with all those cute txt and I liked the idea of waiting for your txt just to gush over how cute they are. Purely lover girl but with comedy and always somthing to talk about. I think its awsome that I still carry that energy.

I enjoy video games and Xbox I aim to please im a really hard worker to make my self successful and have worked really hard. I just wish I had a really great guy to listen to me sometimes as if I was their. I'm looking for longterm relationship and distance is fine for a moment love travel and I like to talk about Just everything.

I've never had a longterm relationship. Some might call me a femcel, although I've been with men (not many). I'm tallish for a woman, I've never been thin , but I'm not what people would consider ugly. I'm trying to finish up a phd in the next year so I can pivot from filmmaking into academia. I've always struggled with self esteem, shyness and being a loner, but I yearn for a real relationship with someone who I can have a deep connection with. I don't want to use an app again, the situations I get into from there are uncomfortable and short lived. I don't know how it's possible to approach anyone in real life anymore either, and as a woman I don't feel comfortable making a move on men. I love films, filmmaking, stand up comedy, photography, dance, burlesque, classic rock/folk/blues music, and swimming. I love trying new things and exploring/wandering. I've done significant travels solo, and I would love to finally start traveling with a partner and lover. I don't care about getting engaged but I do want to have a child while I can. I'm a serious person and unserious at the same time, men have told me I'm strange but fun. I'm tired of being on my own. I am independent but life in this world alone is an intolerable concept for me. I'm ready to be serious with someone.

Hey! I’m 24F and I'm looking for a genuine connection and maybe eventually a long term partner/soulmate ❤️

About me:

-Gaming is my favourite pastime: I love playing a ton of different video games across various genres. Way too many to put in a list here

-I love art: I’m into all forms of art, whether it’s digital or traditional (painting, sculpting, sketching)

-Snuggle Connoisseur: I’m always down to snuggle up and watch you play a game or just get lost in a movie/game together

I would also love hearing about your day or what you are currently interested in whether it be a current book you're reading or what's going on at work

DM me if youd like to learn more about me! I'd also love to know what your favourite movie or videogame is as well ❤️

Thanks for reading my long post!

Im 38, in Canada near Ottawa. I'm seeking a real connection with someone. Great convo, attraction. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad. Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want, or superficial. I'm an attractive, smart woman. I like someone who can hold a conversation and be interested in a variety of topics. But I'm also silly, funny, playful and have a politically incorrect sense of humour 😆 But still mature when it comes to life and responsibilities. I'm self-sustaining and capable of learning any skill/task I put my mind to. I'm ambitious, but not to the point of emotionally closing myself off to my partner. My goals would include them every step of the way. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways. I don't have alterior motives and I'm loyal until the end. I feel like I have a lot to offer to someone. Just looking for my person! Please be between the ages of 30 - 45. Thanks for reading!

Okay, soooo this is my first time posting here, actually first time posting anything related to dating, so I'm not sure what to expect, but I hope it goes well! I don't know how to make a good post, so I'll try to keep my thoughts in order.

Have you ever thought that love would come naturally to you? That you don't have to worry about it because it'll find you? Yeah, I thought so too. I mean, I still kind of do lol. But then I thought, how is it going to happen if I never do anything about it? So I figured I'll put myself out there!

I want to meet someone I can talk to about anything, share random things like being obsessed with a song or seeing a cute cat during the day. To me, the ideal relationship starts as a friendship. I would like to really know someone before I take the next step, so I hope you have that in mind if you decide to text me. Also, I am looking for something serious and monogamous, just not rushing into it.

My age range is from 23 to 25, but I'm okay if you turn 26 this year. I'm going to put my deal breakers later, but I figured I'll say this now so I don't waste anyone's time.

Okay! Now I'm going to introduce myself, finally jeje. I'm Jo, I'm 23, I'm a uni student, I speak spanish and english (trying to learn more languages, but that's what I know for now), uhhh, I LOVE animals, especially cats, I actually have three!

As for my appearance, since I know this is important to some (which is completely valid), I'm 1.72 (5'8"), mixed, short brown hair, brown eyes, healthy weight. I'm left handed too! I know this doesn't really count as appearance, more like a fun fact? Who knows. Now, I don't mind sharing pics, but I think I'm okay doing that when I get comfortable.

Now, my interests. I like a lot of things, but because of time, I don't get to do as many as I'd like. I like to draw! Though I don't do it as much as I would like to. Actually, a few days ago I posted a drawing I made of my cat on my profile, so you can check that if you are curious.

I play videogames too, some examples: stardew valley, yakuza, final fantasy, fire emblem, honkai star rail, hades, cookie run kingdom, mortal kombat, etc. As you can see, a little bit of everything I guess? I like to play single player games more than coop to be honest, but recently I've been playing marvel rivals again. I suck at it though lol. So yeah! I'm willing to play coop games with you.

Oh, I listen to a lot of music, like all the time. On the bus? Yes. Breaks between classes? Definitely. Doing chores? Same thing. You get the idea. I mostly listen to rock, shoegaze, dreampop, noise rock, but I listen to alternative and indie stuff too, and of course videogame playlists. You know, those nintendo playlists? Or zelda or skyrim or whatever other cool background music.

I won't list everything here because then I'll have nothing to talk about later, but you can ask me anything if you want!

So yeah, I think that's it about me. Now let's go with the deal breakers:

- Age out of my range (23 to 25): I'm sorry, but I don't feel comfortable with the idea of dating anyone outside that range.

- Nsfw stuff: I won't do that. I'm not interested in any of that, so if that's what you are looking for, don't text me.

- Conservative views: I'm more liberal (pro choice, feminist, the whole shebang), so I would like to connect with someone with similar values.

- Someone too religious: I'm agnostic, and while I don't mind dating someone who's religious, I wouldn't be comfortable dating someone whose religion is a big part of their life. To each their own though!

- Kids: I like kids, but I don't see myself having them in the future.

- Drugs: I don't mind someone who drinks (as long as it's not an addiction) or smokes cigarettes once in a while, but drugs are a big deal breaker for me.

Sorry if that was a bit blunt, but I think it's better to know our deal breakers at the start instead of having misunderstandings later.

OKAY, SO THAT'S IT!! This was probably a bit long (the original version was even longer because I like to yap lol). If you read to the end, thank you!!! Even if you decide you don't want to text me, I appreciate the time you took to read my messy intro. If you do decide to text me, I would appreciate it if you send me an intro about yourself too! Not just a "hi", I'd like it to be reciprocated after typing all this lol.

Anyway, I hope you have a good day today and you eat something yummy! Bye, bye!!

I will preface my post with stating that I am at the age and stage of my life where all I want is a family of my own. I'm not interested in anyone who isn't similarly, for sure, at that point as well.

Some of the most helpful advice I was given is my post's title. Being able to see people as different, but all similar in two important aspects, helped me learn to empathize to the point it was my job to help others learn empathy.

I had debated on whether or not I would post here, since I have had several relationships, long and short, in the past. However, I seem to never be able to find my person. I'm forever alone in that regard.

I've never cared about money or status. I've lived a relatively simple life financially, but also a fulfilling one. I could tell many stories about all of my various careers, international travels, and personal achievements, but its nothing to me without someone to share it all with. I'm wise enough to know that I can't find happiness in a paycheck, with possessions, or at the end of a round trip journey to a new place. Without someone I love to share it all with, it's unfulfilling.

Physically, I've always been described as good looking or handsome. I used to model and could have probably made a career out of it, but I didn't like how soulless it felt and I'm not vain or narcissistic enough to keep up something like that. I'm White, tall, with a slim athletic build and maybe a touch of Dad bod, with a beard and some tattoos.

Family is everything to me and I'm very close with my siblings and parents. My mom is a phenomenal cook and baker, I don't think she has made a dish that I didn't love, and my dream would be to have a partner who loves to cook and would happily spend time in the kitchen with her bonding through food.

I'm very political but independent. I don't care if you are not political, I would probably prefer that, but at a minimum you need to be against abortion on a moral level.

When it comes to your appearance, I'm not that picky. My only real desire is that you have low body fat and take care of yourself. I'm in good shape and want to be with someone who is as well.

This seems like a good time to stop and say thank you for reading this and I hope to hear from you if you are interested.

Hiya reddit, I'm Grey, 27m from a very odd and strange place known as Florida! No, before you ask, I have never wrestled an alligator, but there is always still time!

Anyways, lately I've found my life to be on a bit of a repeating cycle of working and studying and taking care of responsibilities, which is always great, but I miss having someone to banter with during the in between. So, in the spirit of being a bit more social, I thought i'd try my luck here!

So a bit about me, I have quite a long list of hobbies that I enjoy. Anything and everything from gaming to juggling to skateboarding to going to the gym to putting ink in my skin, I always love a new experience! I've been thinking it might be fun to start a new Minecraft world if anyone would be down for that! Would also be happy to hand out some beatings in Mario Kart or Guitar Hero >:)

A little more on the responsible side, I currently work as a janitorial supervisor for a cleaning service that aims to offer work opportunities for folks with disabilities, I am very passionate about what I do and it makes me very happy that I am able to help give opportunities and support for those in need of it! I also work a retail side job that is not so glamorous but helps me keep the lights on lmao. Aside from work, I have been taking classes and learning how to code in Python as well as classes for an RBT certification. I absolutely love to learn and gain new skills, so you'd better believe i'd love to hear all about what makes you passionate as well!

Honestly, I'm not really looking for anything or anyone in particular here, just something that will last more than a day lmao. Always happy to chat and banter about anything and everything! If tattoos or piercings are up your alley, it would be fun to share designs and ideas as well!

I hope everyone has a fantastic day, and thank you so much for taking the time to read my ADHD-riddled wall of text!

Picture this, it's late October, you hear the howl of a strong wind outside, the old Victorian farmhouse creaks and groans with every gust, a slight draft flows through the window frame. The gentle rustle of the leaves can be heard as they blow about outside. The smell of freshly baked apple pie makes the home feel alive, the fire crackles in the hearth, the faint orange glow basks the walls. Steam rises from the old whistle kettle as your tea steeps, you hear a mysterious Great Horned Owl, it's call echoes in the distant forest. You prepare to nestle in close to the warm fire. Ahh. This is a home. Cozy season has arrived. 🍂 The best season for snuggling up and being cozy. Owls are my favorite bird. 🦉

Hi, nice to meet you! Hope my little intro took you into a cozy place. I'm pretty cozy as I write this, sipping on some hot tea as it rains outside, laying in my bed and listening to an album by a psych/folk rock band ILL Wind which is called "Flashes" from 1968, while my favorite candle burns slowly.

I thought I would be vulnerable for a change, put myself out there and hopefully meet someone to connect with! Finding an emotional and intimate/sexy connection online isn't something I've tried very much of, but I figured someone is out there looking for connection too. I just really want to form something meaningful!

I'm looking to get to know a woman around my age or older so 20s-30+ is fine because I am very mature for my age. Any ethnicity and POC are welcome as well as any body type as I am very non judgemental and open minded and I am a decent human being :) I don't really have specifics that I'm attracted or or prefer, because everyone is beautiful in their own ways. However, I find soft thighs and a few cute tattoos attractive haha. 🤭

Physically I'm 24, male, 6 feet tall, white pale skin, average healthy weight with a slight belly, dark brown hair, wears glasses, handsome with a beard that I keep neat and shave when it gets too long. I've lived a more rural lifestyle, living on a small farm surrounded by cornfields. I love the peaceful rural life and being one with nature.

I was born and raised in IL on a small one acre farm in a little farmhouse where I currently still live. I've had a quiet life. I'd love to hear about you as well! :) Lately I've been enjoying the simple things in life the most. It just gets a little lonesome at times.

I'm looking to form a genuine emotional connection, with also being able to connect sexually which means to tease and flirt and enjoy each other when we reach a point of feeling comfortable, which includes sharing intimate pictures when we become comfortable. I am looking for an eventual connection that moves off of Reddit, as well. I want to have a safe and healthy situation where we are open to exploring together when we feel comfortable. I love teases, soft thighs are my favorite... Communication is important to me and I'll always be mindful of your boundaries and feelings. I'm really hoping for that spark, where I leave you eager to hear from me and where we message each other often when we can. I am very loyal and honest and strive for something meaningful and real.

I guess I'm just at a point in my life where I really lack connection and really want someone to become close to, emotionally and sexually. It's been a rough patch for me the past few years since I'm working the afternoon shift and I don't get to meet women very easily, so it's been a few years for me since I've had any kind of intimate relationship. Please be open to long term and don't ghost me after a day, thanks. Sometimes you have to be blunt.

Now for some more about me.

I work full time during the week as a building maintenance tech at a fairly large corporation and I rather enjoy my job. I have weekends off. When I'm not at work, I'm typically relaxing at home.

My dream one day is to have a beautiful old farmhouse with a wrap around porch and an acre or two of farmland to really enjoy nature, and possibly have a small homestead and garden. The house must have a fireplace or wood burning stove installed. 😂

Some of my interests are photography, nature walks, bird photography and wildlife, camping, cooking and baking, listening to music, the outdoors, relaxing and being comfy, aviation and flight simulation, technical stuff, fixing things and being handy, candles and incense, and animals. My favorite season is the Autumn and I absolutely can't wait for it. I love being outside in Autumn, and my favorite place to go then is right outside of Peoria, IL called Wildlife Prairie Park. I like to stay in the cabin there and enjoy being in nature. I'm a very peaceful person and quite the homebody. Lately I've really been enjoying woodwick candles because of their crackle. If you like candles, tell me your favorite scent in your message!

When I'm not enjoying music or in nature, my biggest passion is probably photography. I have a couple of Nikon DSLRs and I really enjoy photographing so many things, especially birds and wildlife.

I love to listen to all types of music, well known and obscure. From the 60s, 70s, 80s, and present. There's a few albums on my profile. Right now the Cure is my favorite band but I like so much music. I've been into a lot of late 60s and early 70s bands, and even some folk rock with female singers. I love that kind of stuff.

If I seem like someone you'd like to connect with, then I'd love to hear from you!

Have a great week!

Hi there!

My name is Miguel, I'm portuguese and am 25! I'm 168 cm tall and kinda in shape, brown eyes and hair.

My main hobbies include but are not limited to gaming, anime, learning languages and learning the piano.

I am finishing my masters in Bioinformatics and applying for a new job right now.

Overall I'm a pretty chill guy, with class clown syndrome and can get along with anyone, anywhere. I'm a good listener and love yapping about my interests if the other person seems interested.

I don't really have much of a type, I've dated people with various personalities and backgrounds. As long as they make an effort and are not problematic I'm happy.

My favourite games include: FFXIV, Helldivers, Elden Ring, League of Legends, Slay the Spire and many more!

I could go on and on about myself but I want to know more about you too!

Hi. I’ve posted here many times before, but I’m still looking for my one and only. 

Why is it so hard to find someone nowadays? Is there someone out there who doesn’t just want NSFW things? Or someone who doesn’t judge a book by its cover? Idk…but, maybe you could change my mind?

So, a little about me:

• Nerdy, pan-romantic/demisexual, 25F from MA who has a rare, physical disability and uses a wheelchair full-time (yes, you can ask about my disability, but don’t be a d!ck about it). 
• Currently going for a master’s in Health Informatics and working for a disability tech startup. Because of these, I can be very busy and may take longer to respond.

 

If you want a more detailed description of me, don’t be afraid to reach out and ask! 

What I yearn for:

• Someone who wants a serious, long-term relationship (distance doesn’t matter to me as long as we both put in the effort to make it work)
• Someone between 19-35 y/o (willing to forgive a year or two)
• Someone who’s caring, affectionate, loving, understanding, and accepting.

 

Also, side rant: if you’re going to ghost me after I send you a picture of me, don’t bother reaching out. I’m tired of getting into a conversation with someone and then getting ghosted for something I can’t control. 

With all that said, don’t be afraid to message me! I don’t bite (well, not hard at least 😉). Also, if you’ve messaged me before and either I never responded (apologies 😅), or we stopped talking and want to message again, feel free!

About me: 5’7, average build. I, like everyone else on reddit, play video games (PC), not very picky when it comes to what exactly, usually open to trying most games. What I choose to play on my own differs from what I play with other people, usually up for anything, especially coop or survival.

When it comes to music, I mostly listen to electronic stuff (Madeon, Porter Pobinson, ODESZA, Flume, etc). But I do occasionally like a random song that isn’t what I usually listen to. I used to listen to Linkin Park alot as a kid and I am starting to get back into it a little bit. I have also started to listen to some Jrock as well.

Sci-Fi movies are always to the to-go for me, I am both a star wars fan and a trekkie. Other movies I love are Interstellar, Arrival and LOTR, Scott pilgrim vs the world and others. I also love a good mystery/thriller.

Have not always been the biggest anime fan but I decided that now is a good time to start getting into it so please hit me up with recs!

I am also a huge space nerd (super unique, right?) in general and know a lot of space facts that aren’t very helpful to anyone but are fun to know anyway.

I like to read sometimes but I tend to take long breaks in between books. I mostly read non-fiction books, (Carl Sagan, Neil deGrasse Tyson, etc) and also psychology books. But I have been looking for a good fiction book recently so hit me up with recs.

Thats it for all the surface level stuff, gonna keep some things about myself off the post so you can get to know me. :)

I have started traveling recently (so far I have visited Japan, Italy and Germany) so I am also looking for someone who would be willing to do that, looking to visit Japan (again because it was really fun) and/or South Korea this year.

Who I am looking for:

Just someone nice who would like to talk and actually give the conversation time to grow, I love when someone tells me about things they care about that no one else does. That kind of passion inspires me. Also please be someone who actively participates in the conversation and is inquisitive and asks questions, if you are going to just sit there and have me ask you everything, then it wont work out.

I would also prefer that you are comfortable in your own skin. I get that everyone can be a little shy, but…I am 29 and I am not getting any younger. So I would prefer if you are honest from the get go and don’t try to send fake pics or obfuscate what you look like, so we can both save time. I will always send up to date pics on my end of course.

Now a couple of things that kinda matter:

1. I don’t have a problem with religion but you should know that I am atheist and prefer someone who is the same or agnostic.

2. Please actually have something in common with me in terms of interests mentioned above. I have had way too many conversations with people here where it felt like I was pulling teeth because we did not actually have anything in common. Common interests are important for successful relationships!

3. I prefer someone local to southern california but i am also open to LDR.

4. I lean left politically and would appreciate someone along those lines.

Someone between the ages of 25-31 would be nice, but I might be ok with a year older or younger.

Its not a deal breaker for me but, I would prefer if you played video games, specifically on PC.

I wont be responding to accounts that are less then 4 months old, sorry :(

Again, please be prepared to exchange pics early on. I think it helps us both avoid the anxiety of wondering what the other person looks like over the long term :) (and no worries, ill go first)

So yeah, hit me up and if we hit it off and get to know each other, we can add eachother on discord (after i get comfortable with you) :)

Would be great if you message me with a small intro about yourself :)

Hey, I’m James from Scotland Thought I’d put myself out there and see who’s about 🙂

I’m around 6foot 83kgs and I’d say I’m pretty laid-back, loyal, and easy to get along with. I’m the kind of person who enjoys a laugh, good conversation, and just chilling without drama.

I’m really into gaming (big part of my free time), cars/racing, and anything competitive. I also enjoy just getting out when I can—whether that’s a drive, exploring, or just switching off from everything.

I’m not into mind games or fake people—I’d rather keep things real. Ideally looking for someone who’s kind, loyal, can have a laugh, and maybe even enjoys gaming too (bonus, not a must).

Age-wise, I’m open but preferably around my age. Doesn’t matter where you’re from as long as we get on.

If you’re someone who wants something genuine and chill, feel free to message me 🙂

Hi everyone, I’ve met some great people on here before so I thought why not give it another shot.

I’m from the UK but I hope to move abroad sometime in the near future. I love to travel and visit different countries.

I’d love to live in the US one day, I’ve spent a lot of time there in my life and I just think the vibes and culture is great. I really like American girls, yall got great accents and every US girl I’ve met has been super nice. I find I connect well with Americans more so than British girls.

I’m Christian but it doesn’t bother me if you aren’t yourself. I just hope we share similar values. I’d say I’m a very homely person, I’ve never had interest in the whole party lifestyle. I want to start a family in the future.

I love sports, music, animals, nature, exploring places, things like that. My music taste is pretty random. I love house music but I’m also kind of a Swiftie lol. I try to go to the gym as often as possible and eat healthy. I like to cook myself, I wouldn’t say I’m the best but I do enjoy cooking for someone else.

I like tattoos (got some I’m planning on getting at some point), if you have some that’s cool.

Physical attraction is obviously important, but I wouldn’t say I have a specific type, and it isn’t the most important thing. Personality is definitely just as if not more important. My only thing is I’d prefer if you were from an English speaking country since that just makes things easier. But I’m down to relocate.

Fwiw I’m a white guy and I’m 6’3. I kind of like short girls actually, idk why just think it’s cute even if there’s a big height difference!

If you’re interested send me a message, thanks for reading all this :)

Hi! I’m 31, based in the Philippines, and I figured I’d try my luck here because apps just aren’t it for me lately.

I work from home so my social life is basically me, my games, my dog, and whatever I’m currently burning in the kitchen while trying to learn how to cook. I play Dead by Daylight (I survive for about six seconds in a chase, it’s fine, I’m fine) and I’m getting into Minecraft survival mode. Yes I am a homebody. No I am not ashamed.

I do want to be upfront. I’m specifically looking for a serious committed relationship. Not talking to see where it goes, not casual. I want something real with an actual future. Not in a rush but that’s where I want this to go eventually.

I want someone to share the little things with. Watch movies, play games, laugh at dumb stuff, actually talk. Nothing performative, just two people who genuinely like each other and want to build something together.

Oh and please be a generally positive person. Not annoyingly optimistic, just not someone who’s bitter or given up on happiness. Let's try to be happy together!!

I’m open to long distance and serious about eventually meeting up, ideally somewhere in Asia.

If any of this sounds like your kind of person, say hi! Just maybe say more than “hey". 😅

Hi!

I’m here looking for my future favorite person.

I am a 42 year old single woman, no children, works full time, has a happy life but am looking for that missing piece. Someone amazing to share it with.

I am 5’11 and on the chubby side, I have long dark blonde hair, pretty brown eyes and a cute smile.

I enjoy reading a lot, seeing movies at the cinema, being outdoors and exploring scenic places, trying new restaurants and new food, spending time with friends, taking walks, board games and other nerdy hobbies.

I would describe myself as kind, compassionate, a sense of humor that maybe is somewhere between sarcastic and then laughing at corny dad jokes. I care about people in general and try to be a warm presence in the world.

I want someone to be affectionate and loving with. Spend time cuddling and chatting about anything.

I am seeking someone who is also a kind and a gentle soul, someone that shares the idea that pouring into each other is the key to a successful relationship. I am looking for someone between the ages of 37-50 — who is single!!!

Only Single people please.

I would like someone who is close to Buffalo— a few hours away is okay as long as it’s realistic to meet if we should get to that point. :)

Message me if this sounds like something you would be interested in. :)

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my name is Jose, I am from the New Jersey. I am 32 years old, i enjoy doing CrossFit, cycling on my bike on the more warmer months, i also enjoy cooking it could be from simple cold cuts to hot food even baking I enjoy cooking it. I love listening to music and like typical male video games and reading books as such, not much else I can write about myself unless you want to ask questions which I will answer, since I tend to be reserved and quiet, however once you know me I can talk up a storm, I am looking for someone who is active and enjoys works out in HIIT and enjoys gaming and enjoy different convos about things, enjoys trying new things. I hope we connect and vibe together. Hope to see you there thanks for reading :)

Hello I’m trying to make friends I can relate to a with interests or personality like mine, im a bit of weirdo and like collecting bones,crystals,antiques and just anything odd or old. I also have terrible anxiety so I only come online to try and make friends instead of in irl, I like anything to do with nature and animals I mostly spend time chilling with my cat watching YouTube or listening to music I also enjoy walking in old cemeteries and forests looking for mushrooms or cool bugs to take pics of. And bonus points if you are also from the uk but also understandable if you aren’t. Feel free to message me :)