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I want to get a fun flash tattoo before leaving! What are your favorite places to go?

We are here today-wednesday! What are some honeymoon type things to do while we have a few extra days of nothing before going home? We did Din Tai Fung yesterday and have Motherwolf Tuesday! I’d love other ideas for us!

As the title says we get married today!! I could reserve us an uber from our venue back to the hotel for $35 or an SUV or Limo from Bell Trans for around $95ish! Which would you recommend?

I get married in 3 days. From the start we were only paying for blowouts for the girls and moms and they are doing their own makeup! Everyone at the start was 100% okay with it and just was grateful we were paying for a nice blowout. I’m getting my hair and makeup done because i’m naturally anxious and just know i’ll mess my makeup up on that day LOL.

A month ago my FMIL asked me who was doing her makeup and hair, i told her again the plan and she was upset. She asked me who else could do her and her family’s makeup and hair. I told her I could find out but i don’t know anyone else as we don’t live where we are getting married. This has been explained multiple times at this point between the start to just the other weekend. Yesterday she calls to ask what salon it is and who is doing her makeup. We again tell her it’s not a salon, no makeup, and just a blowout. She got upset again because no one is styling her hair(even though she was aware of this) and told us she would let me know the day of my wedding if she will be attending the hair service.

I’m at a loss here, what else can I do? Should i just forget it and let her act however she does and ignore it? I just want to enjoy my wedding day.

Okay i’m starting to feel entirely overwhelmed, irritable, and just emotional LOL. We are both so excited to get married to each other but omg everyone else is starting to get on my nerves!! Is this normal???

Hi! I just had someone Venmo me from Zola through our cash fund, but I don't see it in my Venmo account. Has anyone else experienced this?

My wedding is next week, and one of my bridesmaids (a friend of about 5 years) has been pretty unresponsive lately. I haven’t been able to confirm whether she has her dress ready or if it fits, and her travel plans seem up in the air. She originally had everything booked, but mentioned possibly changing things and I haven’t gotten an update since. We were also trying to plan something fun for the night after the wedding, but I’m not sure if she’ll even be available anymore.

For context, her wedding celebration was this past weekend (she’s been legally married for a year, but this was the big event). My fiancé and I drove 4 hours to be there and stayed for about 5 hours before heading out a bit early because we still had a 1.5-hour drive to where we could afford to stay and it was getting late.

I completely understand she may still be coming down from her wedding weekend, but I’ve reached out a couple of times (before and after her wedding), and she hasn’t responded. She also hasn’t replied in our bridesmaid group chat or the larger wedding party chat about important schedule details.
I’m starting to feel a bit stressed with the wedding being so close and not having clear communication. I don’t want to assume the worst or come off the wrong way, but I’m not sure how to handle it from here.

Would you reach out again directly, give it more time, or start making backup plans just in case?

My wedding is officially 11 days away, we get married May 8th! We leave in 9 days! I’m starting to panic lol. I’m finalizing a bunch of things at the moment and hoping i can finish everything by wednesday of this week! What was everyone doing at this point?