u/WastelandEnjoyer

I've been trying to improve my social skills, and I'm just naturally a talker about literally anything. I've definitely noticed most dudes are stoic AF and most of my friends tell me the same thing , just keep it to a minimum, etc. Now they all get laid and I'm just sitting here with nuthin so I'm inclined to believe them.

I think a lot of women and even dudes tbh mark me as gay for it and combined with a softer voice I'm probably not doing myself any favors. Ofc I let the other person speak and have a proper back and forth, but I just like to talk and see whats up with people - I'll ask em about their whole lives

But like how sad is that, so basically I have to be a rock that just chimes in with one liners once in a while?

Even writing this much is apparently "an essay" - like god forbid I try to give someone the full picture, texting in 5 word blips is the move these days.

I've been trying to improve my social skills, and I'm just naturally a talker about literally anything. I've definitely noticed most dudes are stoic AF and most of my friends tell me the same thing , just keep it to a minimum, etc. Now they all get laid and I'm just sitting here with nuthin so I'm inclined to believe them.

I think a lot of women and even dudes tbh mark me as gay for it and combined with a softer voice I'm probably not doing myself any favors. Ofc I let the other person speak and have a proper back and forth, but I just like to talk and see whats up with people - I'll ask em about their whole lives

But like how sad is that, so basically I have to be a rock that just chimes in with one liners once in a while?

Even writing this much is apparently "an essay" - like god forbid I try to give someone the full picture

- Girl across the stretching area sees me doing some quad stretches

- moves over next to me for absolutely no reason, plenty of open spaces with good corners and views.
- starts doing these weird yoga stretches , including the arched back touching the toes thing

I just kept stretching and walked away. I stared at her once while I was cleaning up and she was doing her wild stretches. Or is this just attention seeking?

Ideally ladies who could offer any insight.

I'm a 4th year comp sci student so I don't really have a clear role or distinct title to my name yet , not sure how to sell myself tagline wise when I haven't really done all that much but still to

would appreciate some direction.

I was thinking something like

Developer.Writer. Builder.

but idk

title pretty much says it all , I know that getting on a waitlist , they'll update you if you get in. But I was wondering if anyone had a way to be notified if a class goes from closed to having even one spot open on the waitlist - would help a lot rather than checking every day

I’ve been on a spiritual journey and I’ve really been seeing the error of my past ways and how interconnected all this really is. Even if it doesn’t matter , I don’t want to contribute to it.

But I have no idea where to begin , I’m thinking declutterring my home and minimalism and only keeping what I absolutely need. But as far as actual environmentalism , idk. Join a club? Plant a tree?

Any help is appreciated!

I’ve been on a spiritual journey and I’ve really been seeing the error of my past ways and how interconnected all this really is

But I have no idea where to begin , I’m thinking declutterring my home and minimalism and only keeping what I absolutely need. But as far as actual environmentalism , idk. Join a club? Plant a tree?

Any help is appreciated!

This is a recent development and I can't believe how far I've come from my cookie cutter religious days

But I'm genuinely convinced that there is some kinda experiment being ran here. The goal of this existence seems to be raise your vibration positively as much as you possibly can, if you stay attached to the material, you reincarnate here - and I think this happens instantly too - you follow the light, and that light takes you to a literal birth of some new child and you are born again. That soul gets recycled for more purification until it eventually gets there.

This puts all of Jesus's turning the other cheek and meekness and love first into perfect context and why soooo many quotes and dialogues keep harping "if you have even an ounce of the material world in your heart , ur ngmi bro" , thats why being good matters so much or else u keep getting trapped here, the demons are already here - there isn't anywhere lower to go

Why would the monad/"the source" create all these seperate faces souls and spirits of god in the first place? Why create these filters and processes? What is THEIR angle in doing this?

title pretty much says it all , thinking of dropping an in person class for a virtual one , I know they're like 100 cheaper or something , if I paid the full fees for in person classes and get into a virtual one , will I get that money back?