I’m looking to chat with someone who can give me some thoughts on my unfortunately turbulent social life. I’ll discuss with any age and gender but please mention it for context if you DM. I’m extroverted but my friendships are often cliquish and it leaves me exhausted by the constant conflict. so I’d love to speak honestly with someone knowing they won’t weaponize it against me to my other friends.
I’m looking to chat with someone who can give me some thoughts on my unfortunately turbulent social life. I’ll discuss with any age and gender but please mention it for context if you DM. I’m extroverted but my friendships are often cliquish and it leaves me exhausted by the constant conflict. so I’d love to speak honestly with someone knowing they won’t weaponize it against me to my other friends.
In my mind there are 3 answers. 1, he’s rlly friendly. 2, he is interested in messing around but not serious. 3, he acc wants to be with me.
I am taken but this guy knows the relationship is unstable. However I am not Interested in the guy despite us having a great friendship. So I just am debating if it’s suspicious enough to justify asking him directly.
behaviorally he messages every day and throws out a lot of oddly specific compliments including how I deserve a better bf. and any time I mention something I want to go do he jumps to offer to do it with me.
so he has invited me to a gig in a couple months post exams. his justification is that he wants to teach me how to flirt better. which is about the most confusing thing I’ve heard because who would offer that out of the blue? And why do I need to flirt? why assume I’m bad enough to need lessons???
anyway I can’t tell if he’s a weirdo or has a crush. HELP.
my boyfriend has been friends with this boy who we will call J, for about as long as he has known me. as we all met at the same place. we met in November and started dating on New Year’s Day. J used to be good friends with me and we knew eachother for 5 years. Recently though, his behavior has changed. J makes crude comments about my appearance and insults my intelligence in the context of my gender. as well as making the more subtle digs that I’m too emotional and only care about makeup and gossiping. (pretty far from reality ofc). however J also is a bit more touchy than he used to be, resting his hand on my back and booping me all while calling me ”good girl” I have told him it makes me uncomfortable but he doesn’t stop. I avoid him and we are no longer friends, however any time i mention it to my boyfriend he jumps to Js defence immidiately and tells me im too sensitive. Is it weird i expected him to at least be a little annoyed at another man touching me and making me uncomfortable? And is this worth bringing up to my partner again? (I’ve had this conversation with him 4 times so far)