r/TeenVent

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It's not "sibling" behavior please don't tell me it is.

But he keeps calling me slurs and hitting me on my head. He keeps lying and no one believes me, he finds a reason to tell on me, and he bosses me around and hold things against me.

He says sorry but he doesn't change and I feel bad for not accepting his apologies.

He's really rough with my puppy, I don't like it and it worries me a lot, the puppy is still only 5 months old, and my brother needs to be gentler with him.

And he acts nice when around my cousin, he always agrees with her even if she's wrong.

I feel bad for telling on him, so I rarely tell my mom and when I do we sometimes both get in trouble.

He hit and stepped on my head a bit ago, called me a bitch and a slur and later when I ignored him, he said he was going to khs.

I feel really alone and I don't know why he does this to me and he doesn't even feel bad.

Genuinely wtf are we doing in the big 26.. so yesterday I was on FaceTime with my gf as we were talking aboht uh.. NSFW jokes and planning our 1 year anniversary. One of my friends were spamming my name and was like “invite me in the call!” (We FaceTime on google meet coz we have 2 different phones and it doesn’t work on messages app).

I was like “no, we’re talking about stuff rn”. Which then he spams my phone with memes.. making my phone overheat. So I tell him to stop and he doesn’t stop. I said to stop again. And he says “then invite me in the call”. I was so close to cussing him out.

Then I finally said “me and [insert gfs name] are planning our date”. He then said “oh! Let me bring [insert ex best friend name] itll be a double date!”

My heart sinks to my toes. Because wdym he’s dating someone who has caused me emotional pain?? I legit start begging like “no. Don’t. PLEASE.”

He won’t get the hint. Because he KNOWS how she is. He KNOWS this. I make the mistake of saying “So if you bring [insert ex friend name] I'm gonna fight her. I mean it. I don't give a damn. “

For context if I feel threatened by someone I know, I will threaten them. It’s a reaction due to stuff I’ve been through with other people. He then said

“If you lay a finger on my girlfriend, I will seriously hurt you. It is not a threat, it's a promise”

.. I was laughing in disbelief. Because his relationships haven’t lasted long btw.

So I’m texting my gf at the same time. Shes getting mad at him and this goes on for an hour.. and then he stopped suddenly? He’s like

“Hey I’m sorry, I'm sorry if it felt like I threatened you. It's just that I'm very protective over the ones I love and I will never let you or anyone hurt anyone I love ok?”

I just don’t believe it anymore. He then says

“I couldn't say the rest because I'm crying my eyes out rn because I hurt you and I'm sorry!”

.. buddy you sound manipulative asf.

So should I stop being friends with him? I’m just scared and tired and I’ve been crying today so yeh..

Turning 21 female have no goals in life scared of what the future what i study is getting affected with AI so i have no more passion for studying i don’t know what i like and what i don’t currently kn relationship but i don’t wanna get married so i see no purpose of it

Been crying since last night and it already 11am. Usually when I wake up the wave of sadness would disappear. But today Idk. I don't want to share it to anyone near me since I'm not Expressive. I'm seen as the care free person. My head hearts, my throat hurts. My eyes hurt.

Suggest something to do because I don't want to be sad all day orelse my mom's gonna be mad at me for being moody and all 🙂

Typically, my moods are pretty stable. I get sad. I have gotten a bit depressed before, but right now, I’m going crazy. I’ll go from furious to normal to crying and sobbing, and it’s been this way for three days straight. Little small things make me really angry and then eventually end up sobbing. This has been happening every day for 3 straight days , and I feel like I need to escape. I feel claustrophobic, and I’m feeling like everything’s impossible. There are triggers that make sense, like me finishing my algebra class in AoPS but struggling and having to switch to Khan Academy so I have to take the algebra class, but I never, and I mean ever, have so many horrible breakdowns in 3 days, man.

im 16 and i have anxiety and possible autism, i find it very hard to go into school everyday as it’s really stressful for me. my mum tells me she understands but she screams at me and has actual tantrums whenever i can’t go in, which makes it even worse tbh. on the days i can go in she doesn’t say well done or make me feel proud of myself at all, even if i go in everyday for a couple weeks i don’t get an ounce of praise and it just makes me feel like my progress is being unappreciated. whenever i tell people about how i was able to do something that i find hard she always has to put me down and it makes me feel like i shouldn’t be proud because everyone else can do it. i have been in all week so far except yesterday, and instead of being proud of me she’s upset over the one day i didn’t go in. i just don’t understand why she’s just solely focused on my mistakes. i understand this could also be stressful for her in some ways too, but the main thing she shouts at me for is because my school calls her when i don’t go in, which could be easily fixed by her communicating with them and telling them i’m not going in so i feel like she’s just finding ways to shout at me (as usual). but even so could she not just think about how i feel for once? if she didn’t want to comfort her child why did she even have me? whenever i try tell her about how i feel she just shifts the conversation to her and how she has it worse. (i love my mum a lot, in no way have i wrote this to sound horrible at all, i just have no one to talk to about this.) i genuinely feel so alone right now and i feel like none of my friends like me and i don’t know how to fix it, if anyone has any advice please lmk!!