Told me that she never loved me and was only using me for attention... I need a really dark / messed up anime to get over this / distract myself.
Or any anime that you feel would help me get over it like cheaters getting karma etc.
Or any other suggestions.. just anything..
Like everyone just doesn't like me as much as I would if I was handsome.. on top of that I'm autistic.... I feel so hated and miserable and lonely
I date her for two years and she ended up cheating on me and having a whole nother boyfriend for three months and she introduced him to all her friends when she never even introduced me to any of her friends. And she was much closer to him than she was to me, always talking to him when she barely ever talked to me... And much closer than she ever was to me if you know what I mean ... I can't get the image of them doing you know what out of my head. After three months they were already doing that when she didn't even like me enough after two years..
Mine left me and cheated on me during an unspeakably low time. Curious for those who want to share their experiences
Edit: for those of you considering going back, keep reading this thread
Without you and your posts and comments I could never be this strong to stay firm in not going back... Even now it's really hard.. thank you.....
Somehow talking to someone one message every two weeks is such a massive hinderance and totally interfering with career and independence and GROWTH (YEAH TOTALLY INTERFERING WITH GROWTH AND FINDING OUT WHO THEY ARE AND EXPLORING AND GROWING) and their career and friendships...... Yet they will be around their friends constantly and do everything and drop everything for them......
You especially don't owe them any fixing them or any ruminating on them or the relationship. You owe yourself your respect and dignity and someone who ACTUALLY loves you and treats you right.
Like I have a regular switch and a switch lite and I was wondering any ideas for my switch lite. Anything interesting or good ideas for it? I also am going to Japan this summer if that helps with unique ideas. :)
Like it just messes with my mind so much. How can you just cheat after everything we been through. And it was another boyfriend not just physical cheating so I am just imagining the affection and the holding hands and the I love you's and she would talk to him and go on dates with him while ignoring me all the time and never going on dates with me.....
My ex did this always commenting on hot guy's posts and following guys who post abs pictures all the time and being flirtatious with them in their posts. Remember that you deserve someone who doesn't follow and ESPECIALLY doesn't flirt with other people on social media....
It doesn't matter what or how or why they act the way they do because their behavior is inherently incredibly abusive and not right to treat someone like that and selfish and they are terrible lovers who only care about LITERALLY ANYTHING AND ANYONE BUT YOU FOR THE SOLE REASON BEING THAT YOU LOVE THEM AND ARE KIND TO THEM.
Edit: To the avoidants in the chat. Your behavior is abusive. Don't date anyone and get therapy before you do. People don't deserve to be abused. And to the people gaslighting their partners... Seriously? What is wrong with you
Edit 2: to the angry avoidants in the chat, can you explain how your behavior isn't horribly abusive? The behavior itself, not that it has a cause. Having a cause doesn't not make something abusive
Edit 3: avoidants seriously need to go to therapy before dating people