u/Outrageous_Crow1693

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Pata hai aaj kya hua. So meri bestie ko 3 saal se ek ladka psnd hai but woh usko mixed signals deta hai like kabhi dikhayega he likes her and kabhi ekdam humiliation show kr dega kuch bhi bolke that you are fat ya you are short.kabhi bahar jayega toh uske kandhe par hath rkh ke ghumega aur kabhi kissi bhi cheez ke liye kharcha nhi Kiya my bestfriend is giving every penny from her side for food, for movie everytime .

He always talks to her only to share his Rona dhona aur ask her ki apni mahila dosto se meri dosti krwado. my friend is madly in love with him still he shows the society that he is very dharmic very religious but only we know he is a pervert. He texted me 2 months ago saying meri dost baan jaaye And told him mera bf hai and all to mere ko bola tum kitni gawar ho yeh woh itni backward mindset ki ho .guys tell me a plan so I can expose this man pata hai aaj kya hua

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My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship and we haven’t met in real life yet. He is highly attracted to my body and always wants to be with me 24/7 he randomly calls or messages me just to hear my voice, and when I seem less loving, he acts like a little baby and seeks attention. At the same time, he can act like a strict parent or “daddy” figure when I don’t study or focus on my work because he constantly wants me to study for my better future. Most of our arguments become harsh only around studies, where his tone on text feels rude or harsh, but on calls he sounds calm and reasonable. He told me I shouldn’t judge him based on his texting tone during arguments until we actually meet in real life. He says he loves me a lot and wants the best for me, but sometimes I feel confused about whether this behavior and dynamic is healthy in a long-distance relationship. Is this normal or something I should be concerned about?he told me he is only harsh after telling me 1000 times calmly to study and when I don't he becomes rude and harsh .

My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship and we haven’t met in real life yet. He is highly attracted to my body and always wants to be with me 24/7—he randomly calls or messages me just to hear my voice, and when I seem less loving, he acts like a little baby and seeks attention. At the same time, he can act like a strict parent or “daddy” figure when I don’t study or focus on my work because he constantly wants me to study for my better future. Most of our arguments become harsh only around studies, where his tone on text feels rude or harsh, but on calls he sounds calm and reasonable. He told me I shouldn’t judge him based on his texting tone during arguments until we actually meet in real life. He says he loves me a lot and wants the best for me, but sometimes I feel confused about whether this behavior and dynamic is healthy in a long-distance relationship. Is this normal or something I should be concerned about?he told me he is only harsh after telling me 1000 times calmly to study and when I don't he becomes rude and harsh .

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Today something happened that left me feeling really confused and uncomfortable, and I’m wondering if I’m overreacting.

I told my boyfriend that I might not want to do MBBS and was considering BSc Nursing instead. The truth is, I still want to pursue MBBS, but I mentioned BSc Nursing partly to see how he would react and to explore my options.

His reaction shocked me. He said he doesn’t like that field at all and that if I didn’t want to do MBBS, I should have told him earlier. He literally said that by thinking about BSc Nursing at the last moment, I “betrayed” him. He also told me that I used to be very passionate about MBBS and talked about how we would go to medical school together, so now saying something different felt wrong to him.we already imagined our life in medical field how we will go to medical school and then get married and all that practice together. He told me I should have told him before now it's 15 days left for exams and now I'm telling him this

What hurt me the most was when he said his standards aren’t so low that he would accept that course, and that if I had studied properly, I wouldn’t be thinking about these kinds of options. That felt very disrespectful to me.and when I asked him he told me that he didn't said it to me he said it because he is fed of me being not studying properly to get in mbbs and then changing the stream out of nowhere. He told me he wants best for me he sees that capabilities that's why he told me this in harsh tone because he was telling me in calm tone since 1 year and I didn't studied much for mbbs and being lazy also he was having anxiety already for exams and im giving him extra stress

Another factor is that he is 2 years younger than me and is planning to go abroad to study MBBS. He believes it will take him around 8 years to start earning money, and he expects that during that time I would be working and able to support him financially a little while he prepares for exams and settles into his career. He says he doesn’t want me to fully fund his studies, but he still expects some financial help.

Now I’m confused. Part of me wonders if I was wrong to “test” his reaction instead of communicating directly. But another part of me feels uneasy about how strongly he reacted and the expectation that my career should help support him financially.

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Today something happened that left me feeling really confused and uncomfortable, and I’m wondering if I’m overreacting.

I told my boyfriend that I might not want to do MBBS and was considering BSc Nursing instead. The truth is, I still want to pursue MBBS, but I mentioned BSc Nursing partly to see how he would react and to explore my options.

His reaction shocked me. He said he doesn’t like that field at all and that if I didn’t want to do MBBS, I should have told him earlier. He literally said that by thinking about BSc Nursing at the last moment, I “betrayed” him. He also told me that I used to be very passionate about MBBS and talked about how we would go to medical school together, so now saying something different felt wrong to him.we already imagined our life in medical field how we will go to medical school and then get married and all that practice together. He told me I should have told him before now it's 15 days left for exams and now I'm telling him this

What hurt me the most was when he said his standards aren’t so low that he would accept that course, and that if I had studied properly, I wouldn’t be thinking about these kinds of options. That felt very disrespectful to me.and when I asked him he told me that he didn't said it to me he said it because he is fed of me being not studying properly to get in mbbs and then changing the stream out of nowhere. He told me he wants best for me he sees that capabilities that's why he told me this in harsh tone because he was telling me in calm tone since 1 year and I didn't studied much for mbbs and being lazy also he was having anxiety already for exams and im giving him extra stress

Another factor is that he is 2 years younger than me and is planning to go abroad to study MBBS. He believes it will take him around 8 years to start earning money, and he expects that during that time I would be working and able to support him financially a little while he prepares for exams and settles into his career. He says he doesn’t want me to fully fund his studies, but he still expects some financial help in future if needed and same thing he will do btw he never asked for money in any form like even if I try to gift him anything he would say no he always had this provider mindset he said he only wants my help in his worst phase he was the one who gifts me things in this relationship idk I can't say he is for my money

Now I’m confused. Part of me wonders if I was wrong to “test” his reaction instead of communicating directly. But another part of me feels uneasy about how strongly he reacted and the expectation that my career should help support him financially.

Today something happened that left me feeling really confused and uncomfortable, and I’m wondering if I’m overreacting.

I told my boyfriend that I might not want to do MBBS and was considering BSc Nursing instead. The truth is, I still want to pursue MBBS, but I mentioned BSc Nursing partly to see how he would react and to explore my options.

His reaction shocked me. He said he doesn’t like that field at all and that if I didn’t want to do MBBS, I should have told him earlier. He literally said that by thinking about BSc Nursing at the last moment, I “betrayed” him. He also told me that I used to be very passionate about MBBS and talked about how we would go to medical school together, so now saying something different felt wrong to him.we already imagined our life in medical field how we will go to medical school and then get married and all that practice together. He told me I should have told him before now it's 15 days left for exams and now I'm telling him this

What hurt me the most was when he said his standards aren’t so low that he would accept that course, and that if I had studied properly, I wouldn’t be thinking about these kinds of options. That felt very disrespectful to me.and when I asked him he told me that he didn't said it to me he said it because he is fed of me being not studying properly to get in mbbs and then changing the stream out of nowhere. He told me he wants best for me he sees that capabilities that's why he told me this in harsh tone because he was telling me in calm tone since 1 year and I didn't studied much for mbbs and being lazy also he was having anxiety already for exams and im giving him extra stress

Another factor is that he is 2 years younger than me and is planning to go abroad to study MBBS. He believes it will take him around 8 years to start earning money, and he expects that during that time I would be working and able to support him financially a little while he prepares for exams and settles into his career. He says he doesn’t want me to fully fund his studies, but he still expects some financial help in future if needed and same thing he will do btw he never asked for money in any form like even if I try to gift him anything he would say no he always had this provider mindset he said he only wants my help in his worst phase he was the one who gifts me things in this relationship idk I can't say he is for my money

Now I’m confused. Part of me wonders if I was wrong to “test” his reaction instead of communicating directly. But another part of me feels uneasy about how strongly he reacted and the expectation that my career should help support him financially.

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Today something happened that left me feeling really confused and uncomfortable, and I’m wondering if I’m overreacting.

I told my boyfriend that I might not want to do MBBS and was considering BSc Nursing instead. The truth is, I still want to pursue MBBS, but I mentioned BSc Nursing partly to see how he would react and to explore my options.

His reaction shocked me. He said he doesn’t like that field at all and that if I didn’t want to do MBBS, I should have told him earlier. He literally said that by thinking about BSc Nursing at the last moment, I “betrayed” him. He also told me that I used to be very passionate about MBBS and talked about how we would go to medical school together, so now saying something different felt wrong to him.

What hurt me the most was when he said his standards aren’t so low that he would accept that course, and that if I had studied properly, I wouldn’t be thinking about these kinds of options. That felt very disrespectful to me.

Another factor is that he is 2 years younger than me and is planning to go abroad to study MBBS. He believes it will take him around 8 years to start earning money, and he expects that during that time I would be working and able to support him financially a little while he prepares for exams and settles into his career. He says he doesn’t want me to fully fund his studies, but he still expects some financial help.

Now I’m confused. Part of me wonders if I was wrong to “test” his reaction instead of communicating directly. But another part of me feels uneasy about how strongly he reacted and the expectation that my career should help support him financially.

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Today something happened that left me feeling really confused and uncomfortable, and I’m wondering if I’m overreacting.

I told my boyfriend that I might not want to do MBBS and was considering BSc Nursing instead. The truth is, I still want to pursue MBBS, but I mentioned BSc Nursing partly to see how he would react and to explore my options.

His reaction shocked me. He said he doesn’t like that field at all and that if I didn’t want to do MBBS, I should have told him earlier. He literally said that by thinking about BSc Nursing at the last moment, I “betrayed” him. He also told me that I used to be very passionate about MBBS and talked about how we would go to medical school together, so now saying something different felt wrong to him.

What hurt me the most was when he said his standards aren’t so low that he would accept that course, and that if I had studied properly, I wouldn’t be thinking about these kinds of options. That felt very disrespectful to me.

Another factor is that he is 2 years younger than me and is planning to go abroad to study MBBS. He believes it will take him around 8 years to start earning money, and he expects that during that time I would be working and able to support him financially a little while he prepares for exams and settles into his career. He says he doesn’t want me to fully fund his studies, but he still expects some financial help.

Now I’m confused. Part of me wonders if I was wrong to “test” his reaction instead of communicating directly. But another part of me feels uneasy about how strongly he reacted and the expectation that my career should help support him financially.

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Today something happened that left me feeling really confused and uncomfortable.

I told my boyfriend that I might not want to do MBBS and was considering BSc Nursing instead. His reaction shocked me. He said he doesn’t like that field at all and that if I didn’t want to do MBBS, I should have told him earlier. He literally said that by thinking about BSc Nursing at the last moment, I “betrayed” him. He told me what happened to me as I was crazy about mbbs everytime that we will go to medical school together everything .he told me I should I have told him before of this that I don't wanted to do mbbs and shouldn't act so crazy for mbbs and last time im like I don't want to do it

He also said that his standards aren’t so low that he would accept that course, and that if I had studied properly, I wouldn’t be thinking about these kinds of options. That comment hurt me a lot because it felt disrespectful.

Another thing is that he is 2 years younger than me and is planning to go abroad to study MBBS. He believes it will take him around 8 years to start earning money, and he wants me to do MBBS as well so that I can support him financially during that time.he told me he doesn't want me to fund for his studies or anything after he came back he has to give the exam in that phase he will do job also he wants me to support him Little bit financially

For context, I actually do want to pursue MBBS, but I mentioned BSc Nursing partly to see how he would react. His response gave me serious red flag vibes, especially the way he talked about “standards” and financial expectations. He told me I can do any other course instead of bsc nursing

I’m confused now. Is his reaction understandable because he has future plans, or is it wrong for him to expect me to choose a career based on supporting him financially?

Am I overthinking this, or does this sound controlling?I am the ass hole reddit post

Today something happened that left me feeling really confused and uncomfortable.

I told my boyfriend that I might not want to do MBBS and was considering BSc Nursing instead. His reaction shocked me. He said he doesn’t like that field at all and that if I didn’t want to do MBBS, I should have told him earlier. He literally said that by thinking about BSc Nursing at the last moment, I “betrayed” him.

He also said that his standards aren’t so low that he would accept that course, and that if I had studied properly, I wouldn’t be thinking about these kinds of options. That comment hurt me a lot because it felt disrespectful.

Another thing is that he is 2 years younger than me and is planning to go abroad to study MBBS. He believes it will take him around 8 years to start earning money, and he wants me to do MBBS as well so that I can support him financially during that time.

For context, I actually do want to pursue MBBS, but I mentioned BSc Nursing partly to see how he would react. His response gave me serious red flag vibes, especially the way he talked about “standards” and financial expectations. He told me I can do any other course instead of bsc nursing

I’m confused now. Is his reaction understandable because he has future plans, or is it wrong for him to expect me to choose a career based on supporting him financially?

Am I overthinking this, or does this sound controlling?

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Pata hai aaj kya hua . I told my bf that I don't want to do mbbs I want to do bsc nursing to keh rha hai he don't like this field at all 🙂usne bola ki agar nhi Krna tha toh phele batati mein usko 😭abb last moment par i kinda betrayed him he told me ki mein ya toh mbbs krun ya toh koi aur course lekin bsc nursing nhi kyuki uske standards itne gire hue nhi hai yeh woh 🙃btw I wanted to mbbs I just test him and this was his reaction it is valid or not .it gave me a red flags vibes . He told me mene agar padhai ki hoti toh aise courses ka nhi soch rhi hoti .idk muje uski yeh standards wali baat bhout ajeeb lagi and he told me woh chahta hai mein koi acha reputation wala course krun 🙏