u/OptimalStatement5799

Staying the victim keeps me in the past.

I've noticed that most of my circular thoughts about her affair is centered around other people and her acknowledging that I was the one who was wronged.

I want her to come clean and stop coming up with the absolute worst lies to cover up her affair.

I want others to know what she put me through.

Lately I keep asking myself why do I need the above? Why do I need people to know what I've been through? What she did? And why do I need her to admit to it even when it's obvious.

Certainly there's a rug pull effect. I'm still surprised she was capable of the gaslighting, deceit and cruelty.

All these thoughts do is keep me in the past though.

I'm not a victim of my ex wife. I had my part to play in why our marriage ended so badly. I don't take ownership of her poor decisions though.

And when I feel that deeply I feel so empowered. Like I have agency again instead of being stuck in a circle with my ex wife and the nasty stuff she continues to put me through.

I wish I knew how to stay in this place though because I know tomorrow I'll be back to square one maybe. Maybe the progress is that I don't stay stuck in step one as long as I used to...

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u/OptimalStatement5799 — 14 hours ago

Movies where the comic relief becomes a villain or one of the villains?

Just as the title suggests, I'm looking for this type of movie. I don't see it much but recently watched Companion where this happened with two of the goofy characters and really enjoyed it.

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Are traffic ads best for Amazon sellers?

I sell on Amazon and have only done traffic ads to my Amazon page. Whenever I've tested ads where it goes to my site with a pixel, where they can than click on my Amazon selling page, sales drop. The best ads tens to go straight to my Amazon page for that product. I tend to just do open targeting without any restrictions. I'll give a few different sales copy on the same as and FB figures out which to use.

But, I haven't tested anything new in a while and haven't been keeping up with Facebook marketing for some time.

What currently is the best strategy for Facebook marketing for sellers on Amazon? I'd appreciate any advice.

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u/OptimalStatement5799 — 2 days ago
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Why do second marriages have such a high divorce rate?

I keep seeing this but don't understand. Going through a terrible 1st one, how can we go through it all again so easily? Plus, how do so many of them not have a prenuptial agreement. I'm not even dating someone who wouldn't sign one. Even if I'm broke as hell, I'd get one knowing how stressful this is.

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u/OptimalStatement5799 — 4 days ago