Hi! Any recommendations ng derma clinic (w/ legit doctors) within Kapitolyo, ortigas or shaw area? Kamusta naman po experience nyo sa kanila? Btw, i have combination type of skin and concern ko is gusto ko mawala yung redness and acne scars ko sana and plan ko na rin mag pa warts removal. Thanks po sa mga sasagot 🙏
Dati nung bata ako, pag kasama ko yung parents ko sa grocery, naiinip na ako, gusto ko ng umuwi or mag video games o kaya gawin yung personal stuff ko.
Pero ngayong nasa trentahin na ko, gets ko na yung pakiramdam ng nanay ko na kahit pabalik balik sa isang aisle, at mabagal mag lakad habang tulak tulak yung cart o bitbit lang yung basket. Ang fulfilling lang sa pakiramdam na nag bubudget ka tapos may niloolook forward ka na i uunbox paguwi or lulutuin kinabukasan, regardless pecha de peligro or not.😌
May factor ba na weekends kasi kaya nag papause si Wise ng transaction to gcash/bank? First time ko rin kasi mag transfer amounting 40k. May factor ba kaya yun? Any experience sa mga ka reddit dito kung san better mag transfer and marereceive instantly? Thank you
First time ko mag work ng fulltime sa au client and remote setup so ang dami kong realizations na sana ginawa ko prior mag sign ng contract.
1st attempt paypal sila nagbayad until hinold ni paypal yung salary ko for 21 days. So i suggested na idirect na lang and refund and they asked for my Swift code which I gave my Wise. Akala ko din mabilis pero sabi it will take 1-2 days pa.
Yung JO ko editor w/ minimal admin, pero nagkabaliktad ata, admin w/ minimal editing naging work ko. Mas confident ako sa editing side pero mas sinusubok ako ng admin work to the point na madalas na ako napapagalitan and na mimicromanage kasi gusto nila makita paano ko ginagawa and oorasan which I understand kasi nga bago pa lang ako (1 month) pero something feels off kahit naiintidihan ko.
Nakaka stress na ang dami mong mali sa work tapos yung sahod di ko pa nakukuha. Nag ka delay delay na ako sa bills ko and even sa rent kasi i assumed my pera akong makukuha agad. isa pa yang backpay ko from previous company ko, sabi 30 days daw naka 1 month and 2 weeks na wala pa ring update. Yung savings ko paubos na rin. Gusto kong mag resign pero at the same time i understand my short comings.. nakakapagod lang yung ganito na wala ka man lang pang huhugutan ng lakas para maka recover. I walk every morning and exercise tsaka nag papaaraw for my sanity pero di enough.
Napapanaginipan ko na din yung work ko lately, tapos everytime tumatawag si boss napansin lo biglang nanginginig na yung kamay ko out of pressure..everyday na rin ako umiiyak. Di lang ako maka resign kasi wala pang kapalit and malaki naman sana makukuha ko dito tsaka iniisip ko na bago pa lang naman ako so nag aadjust pa ako.. kaya lang this is stressing me out.
I was reading the book "Yearning for Home While I’m at Home",and there was a part about breakups that hit me hard. It triggered a relapse, and I started thinking that maybe I’m the one to blame.
I met this girl on a dating app back in 2019. At first, I didn’t plan on going out on dates. I had been single for 3 years, and my friends encouraged me to start dating again since I was already in my early 30s. So I gave it a try and met her.
We went out a few times and often met at my place. We made out on our second date, and I think that changed everything. She had just come out of a 10-year relationship, and after 2 months of dating, she told me she loved me. I was hesitant because I was afraid she might be using me as a rebound (she's been single for 1yr by that time) and I noticed signs that she still had anger and unresolved emotions toward her ex.
I remember that on our first date, she suggested going to a place she used to visit with her ex. I didn’t feel comfortable going, especially since it was our first meeting, and I wasn’t ready for a staycation. For safety reasons (since i don't know her yet personally), I preferred to meet at a coffee shop instead, and she agreed.
Before I realized it, we had been together for 4 years. However, I still didn’t feel secure because of her past relationship. They worked at the same company, although they didn’t directly work together, and they lived in the same town, while I lived far from her.
Over time, I became obsessed with her ex and constantly feared that she was just using me. During our first and second years, we often fought about her ex. I developed trust issues, especially after I caught her updating her dating app profile back when we weren’t official yet. What hurt me the most was that she lied to my face about it, even though I saw that she had updated her profile with a new photo that I had taken of her.
In 3-4 years of our relationship, we still fought a lot because of our pasts. She was also upset about my ex, whom I remained on good terms with. Eventually, I had to block my ex to give her peace of mind. But looking back, I realize that I still didn’t have peace of mind because of everything that had happened before.
Now I’m starting to wonder if I was the one at fault. Over time, I failed to see and fully appreciate her efforts. She would come to my place even though she worked night shifts, sometimes visiting me in the morning despite being tired. I would plan trips, and she would still go with me even when she hadn’t had enough sleep. She never complained, even when she was exhausted, just so we could spend time together.
She even biked to my place, despite the distance and unsafe roads, just to see me. Looking back now, it all hits me so hard.
We’ve been broken up for 3 years, yet I still think about her. I want to take accountability for my mistakes and finally let her go, because I feel like I didn’t deserve her. But it’s hard.
As the book says, “You only learn so much after you’ve lost something—but how many precious things do you have to lose first?”
Maybe the hardest truth is this: I didn’t lose her in a single moment—I lost her slowly, in all the times I chose fear over trust, doubt over appreciation. And now, the only thing I can do is make sure that this loss becomes the last lesson I have to learn the hard way.