u/Obvious-Board-7677

19 M, I am a loner person with no genuine connections, with average at everything. I used to think that someone would come or there would be a magic wand which would fix my life instantly. I wasted my time in the hope that someone perfect will come and fix my internal problems and guide me. Now after all that waiting for eternity, I just realised that no one will be coming to save you. Not today, not tomorrow, not in this life. I am the driver of my life and I will have to fix my problems. There is no meaning in being a victim of your own circumstances as everyone is going though their own circumstances.so instead of wasting my time in waiting for eternity, I should spend that time in introspecting , fixing and spending with making connections and people who matters.

As title suggest, I want to ask the people who consulted a therapist for depression what kind of advice the therapist gives like is it generic or specific to your condition and does it help you or you have to just fix yourself.

19M, in college I am a kind of silent person who doesn't talk much and whenever I am sitting with batchmates I sit in awkward silence. I don't have any sense of humour and any topics to talk to rather than computer or some niche topics like games etc which people around me don't take interest in I don't have anything special going on with my life and neither do I know much people for gossips. For instance, today I sat with one girl in my class for 2 hours as there was a break in between lecture and we just sat in awkward silence. She said that this is the first time she has been sitting quietly for long time. I am awkward between people and when I speak I fumble while speaking or the other person don't understand my words. I am in 2nd semester and the friend groups have become rigid and no one wants to invite me. I genuinely want to change and be more social but I don't know what to do.

19M, i have been a kind of person who isn't able to keep friends like for example, my school classmates talk to each other, hang out etc but on the contrary i have cut all connection with classmates. I have been a bad friends who just leaves people in time of trouble and sometimes isn't able to return them favour or help them. I have let down even my closest friends and now they have moved on and replaced me with new friends.

as the title suggests any mobile games who tried the new division mobile. is it worth playing or not?