u/NoTrifle4478

Why does dating feel so doomed now?

I’m 24F and been single for almost 3 years now 😭 had 2 relationships before (high school + uni) but ever since then dating has felt impossible.

I don’t really go out drinking/clubbing anymore so I genuinely don’t know how people meet these days unless it’s through uni, work, mutual friends etc. Tinder has been awful and most guys only want something casual.

I do go to the gym and sometimes think maybe I should try talking to someone there?? but everyone looks locked in doing their own thing and I’d feel so awkward bothering someone 😭 also imagine getting rejected or finding out they have a gf and then having to see them every week after lmao

moving to London in a month too so maybe fresh start idk

tl;dr: dating apps suck, i don’t party anymore, scared to approach people at the gym, where do people actually find relationships nowadays??

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u/NoTrifle4478 — 9 hours ago

Anyone hiring for sales roles in Brighton or remote UK?

Is anyone hiring for sales roles in the UK right now, ideally Brighton/remote?

I have a Bachelor’s and Master’s degree from UK universities plus experience in B2B sales and inbound + outbound calling. I’ve been applying heavily but the market feels really competitive lately. Would appreciate any advice, referrals, or company recommendations 🙏

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u/NoTrifle4478 — 3 days ago

why do people like ket?

I remember doing it once and I couldn’t really move, and felt claustrophobic. I’m sure if I did it more I would’ve probably liked it more, but never really got the chance to again.

recently, I felt curious again, what is it supposed to feel like?

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u/NoTrifle4478 — 5 days ago

I’m 5 days binge-free after a week of extreme binging due to weed relapse and dieting (legit gained like 4kg and ruined my month long progress) and honestly I feel like I’m losing my mind right now.

Today is my brother’s birthday and there’s cake, sweets, everything around me. This could 100% turn into a binge for me, and I can already feel that urge building so strong.

I’ve been trying really hard to stay in control, but I’m also super hungry, depressed, bored and emotional, and it feels like one bite will just flip a switch and I won’t be able to stop.

I don’t even know what the right move is anymore. I just don’t want to ruin the progress I’ve made these past 5 days.

Has anyone dealt with this kind of situation? What actually helps in moments like this when everything feels like a trigger?

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u/NoTrifle4478 — 13 days ago