u/Kwkeleum

TL;DR: Hung out with an older guy, had my first sexual experience with him, it went well, but now I’m thinking about everything and don’t know how to act or if we’re on the same page.

I’m 18F and he’s 21M. We first met because I’d seen him at my friend’s job a few times and thought he was interesting. I ended up calling him once but nothing really happened after that. Then like two days later we talked again and I told him I was the girl who called him.

Honestly I didn’t expect much, but that night I decided to hang out with him. Everything was going good and I offered to kiss him first. I kinda already knew something was probably gonna happen and that’s what I wanted too.

Keep in mind I had never given oral before, but for some reason that day I just decided to do it and also receive. I was honestly really touch-starved and horny, not gonna lie.

The thing is, now I don’t really know how to talk to him even though everything went well and I initiated basically everything. I haven’t talked to him in like 24 hours because I never responded to his “hey.” Part of me wishes he’d reach out more, but I’m also literally finishing high school in two weeks while he basically does nothing right now.

\+ I want to keep him around but me not reaching out might be a problem I think but who knows …..

I do wanna hang out with him again, but I don’t even know if we’re on the same page. At the same time he seemed pretty into it and comfortable the whole time.

I also keep thinking about how maybe that shouldn’t have been my first sexual experience, but honestly I don’t even regret it because it went really well

Is this weird? Also I haven’t told my friend yet and she works with him… however I think my friend would be very upset at me .

haven’t responded to him in 2 days but I plan to soon I’m sure he probably wants to hang.

TL;DR: Hung out with an older guy, had my first sexual experience with him, it went well, but now I’m thinking about everything and don’t know how to act or if we’re on the same page.

I’m 18F and he’s 21M. We first met because I’d seen him at my friend’s job a few times and thought he was interesting. I ended up calling him once but nothing really happened after that. Then like two days later we talked again and I told him I was the girl who called him.

Honestly I didn’t expect much, but that night I decided to hang out with him. Everything was going good and I offered to kiss him first. I kinda already knew something was probably gonna happen and that’s what I wanted too.

Keep in mind I had never given oral before, but for some reason that day I just decided to do it and also receive. I was honestly really touch-starved and horny, not gonna lie.

The thing is, now I don’t really know how to talk to him even though everything went well and I initiated basically everything. I haven’t talked to him in like 24 hours because I never responded to his “hey.” Part of me wishes he’d reach out more, but I’m also literally finishing high school in two weeks while he basically does nothing right now.

+ I want to keep him around but me not reaching out might be a problem I think but who knows …..

I do wanna hang out with him again, but I don’t even know if we’re on the same page. At the same time he seemed pretty into it and comfortable the whole time.

I also keep thinking about how maybe that shouldn’t have been my first sexual experience, but honestly I don’t even regret it because it went really well

Is this weird? Also I haven’t told my friend yet and she works with him… however I think my friend would be very upset at me

TL;DR: Hung out with an older guy, had my first sexual experience with him, it went well, but now I’m thinking about everything and don’t know how to act or if we’re on the same page.

I’m 18F and he’s 21M. We first met because I’d seen him at my friend’s job a few times and thought he was interesting. I ended up calling him once but nothing really happened after that. Then like two days later we talked again and I told him I was the girl who called him.

Honestly I didn’t expect much, but that night I decided to hang out with him. Everything was going good and I offered to kiss him first. I kinda already knew something was probably gonna happen and that’s what I wanted too.

Keep in mind I had never given oral before, but for some reason that day I just decided to do it and also receive. I was honestly really touch-starved and horny, not gonna lie.

The thing is, now I don’t really know how to talk to him even though everything went well and I initiated basically everything. I haven’t talked to him in like 24 hours because I never responded to his “hey.” Part of me wishes he’d reach out more, but I’m also literally finishing high school in two weeks while he basically does nothing right now.

+ I want to keep him around but me not reaching out might be a problem I think but who knows …..

I do wanna hang out with him again, but I don’t even know if we’re on the same page. At the same time he seemed pretty into it and comfortable the whole time.

I also keep thinking about how maybe that shouldn’t have been my first sexual experience, but honestly I don’t even regret it because it went really well

Is this weird? Also I haven’t told my friend yet and she works with him… however I think my friend would be very upset at me

My friend told my crush I like her, and apparently her response was that she’d be open to texting me. So I texted her and at first she was replying pretty well. Then I sent a message and she just hearted it, and we didn’t talk for a day after that .

We also kind of made plans to hang out, but they fell through because she forgot to do something. My friend asked her questions and she told my friend she’s okay with me texting her and that she “doesn’t know how she feels” about me but is “open.”

+ she brushes it off when I’m bought up or kinda acts non chalant.

The thing is, I feel like she’s not really putting in effort. Also, she’s never really talked to anyone before or dated anyone keep in mind I’m 18, so I don’t know if she’s just inexperienced or not that interested

Do you think she’s could be into me and just unsure, or should I stop talking to her ??

Most of my friends say that they genuinely can’t tell.