u/K_Tronica

What’s the best Sushi place preferably in NE.

I’m guilty of doing this as well. If I’m exhausted from life, work. But I try to communicate I need space/ quiet time. Which I feel is healthy, and welcome it back. But, the amount of men in my age group that just do not communicate it. Like hot and constant, then disappear. Is annoying. I just had someone get annoyed at me, because I wasn’t responding after I told them (and others), I was on a work trip this week and would be off apps for the week. Like we haven’t met! I’m not going to keep messaging you, when I’m in back to back intense meetings. Plus hanging with coworkers. That being said. Don’t message me for a week with no plan to meet, then pop up a week later? Communicate! You’re into someone else, busy. I’ll get back to you or not. Is totally fine. Truthfully dating is exhausting. Just make it easier by having a brain and a mouth? I’m coming back home to too many “likes” I’m not sitting around waiting for anyone. Mostly women, how you deal with this shit? I’m just unmatching a lot.

In town for work this week. I have this evening and most of tomorrow free before my work events start. Any recommendations on downtown things to do, that aren’t sitting at bars? Already looking at the Opry gardens for tomorrow.

I have made every excuse in the book to not make this work. I told him to not be exclusive. I go on dates pretty regularly . I dual date, until I sleep with someone. I’ve met some great men. But, this one s not leaving my head. He told me tonight… you do what you want. But I can no longer focus on anyone but you. I think I’m ready to ditch it all for what we got going on. It’s nothing like I’ve ever had. So emotionally open. Deep conversations, I mean the sight of him and his voice. It’s only 3 hours away. And I’m petty independent I don’t need a partner. But I want one. I’m headed out of state for a work trip. And I’m meeting someone I used to hook up with out there. But honestly not sure I can follow through. No one has won my heart like this since i was young. So… after that long rant. How has long distance worked or not worked ?

I’ve been honestly half ass dating for the last month and a half. Was in sort of an “almost” relationship for a year and a half before that. Not looking for inconsistency, or someone who is not emotionally available again. But honestly, I am picky. Not looks, but interesting and curious. Especially with music. Every date I’ve been on, and I’ll be honest.. I can’t count. Has been so boring. Until now a few at once that all seem rad, I don’t really like “dual’ dating” after a month or two. I can’t connect easily. So I’m trying it. Ugh… now I’m in this conundrum. Because I will not sleep with more than one person at a time. So I guess time to make some decisions? Hoe ya’ll 40 plus do this?