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Hey everyone!

In some times, I’ll be coming to Halifax, Canada for a little visit — and I honestly can’t wait. I’ve always had a big heart for Canada and Canadians (seriously, you people are awesome ❤️). This will actually be my fifth trip to Canada, and every time I come back, I leave with amazing memories and wonderful people in my life.

One thing that has kind of become “my thing” over the years is reaching out to Canadians and asking if anyone would like to hang out or do something together while I’m visiting. It’s actually one of the ways I’ve made friends across Canada haha.

I have a disability called Cerebral Palsy, but as you can probably tell, it has never really stopped me from doing awesome things and exploring the world 😊

I love good conversations, lovely food, meeting new people, and just enjoying life. So I thought I’d ask — would anyone maybe like to meet up while I’m in Halifax? We could figure something fun out together, maybe even a little trip to Peggy’s Cove or something like that!

Looking forward to being back in Canada again 🍁

Hey everyone!

Okay, I will give it a shot. In some time, I’ll be coming to Halifax, Canada for a little visit — and I honestly can’t wait. I’ve always had a big heart for Canada and Canadians (seriously, you people are awesome ❤️). This will actually be my fifth trip to Canada, and every time I come back, I leave with amazing memories and wonderful people in my life.

One thing that has kind of become “my thing” over the years is reaching out to Canadians and asking if anyone would like to hang out or do something together while I’m visiting. It’s actually one of the ways I’ve made friends across Canada haha.

I have a disability called Cerebral Palsy, but as you can probably tell, it has never really stopped me from doing awesome things and exploring the world 😊

I love good conversations, lovely food, meeting new people, and just enjoying life. So I thought I’d ask — would anyone maybe like to meet up while I’m in Halifax? We could figure something fun out together, maybe even a little trip to Peggy’s Cove or something like that!

Looking forward to being back in Canada again 🍁

Hey everyone!

In some times, I’ll be coming to Halifax, Canada for a little visit — and I honestly can’t wait. I’ve always had a big heart for Canada and Canadians (seriously, you people are awesome ❤️). This will actually be my fifth trip to Canada, and every time I come back, I leave with amazing memories and wonderful people in my life.

One thing that has kind of become “my thing” over the years is reaching out to Canadians and asking if anyone would like to hang out or do something together while I’m visiting. It’s actually one of the ways I’ve made friends across Canada haha.

I have a disability called Cerebral Palsy, but as you can probably tell, it has never really stopped me from doing awesome things and exploring the world 😊

I love good conversations, lovely food, meeting new people, and just enjoying life. So I thought I’d ask — would anyone maybe like to meet up while I’m in Halifax? We could figure something fun out together, maybe even a little trip to Peggy’s Cove or something like that!

Looking forward to being back in Canada again 🍁

Hey everyone!

In some times, I’ll be coming to Halifax, Canada for a little visit — and I honestly can’t wait. I’ve always had a big heart for Canada and Canadians (seriously, you people are awesome ❤️). This will actually be my fifth trip to Canada, and every time I come back, I leave with amazing memories and wonderful people in my life.

One thing that has kind of become “my thing” over the years is reaching out to Canadians and asking if anyone would like to hang out or do something together while I’m visiting. It’s actually one of the ways I’ve made friends across Canada haha.

I have a disability called Cerebral Palsy, but as you can probably tell, it has never really stopped me from doing awesome things and exploring the world 😊

I love good conversations, lovely food, meeting new people, and just enjoying life. So I thought I’d ask — would anyone maybe like to meet up while I’m in Halifax? We could figure something fun out together, maybe even a little trip to Peggy’s Cove or something like that!

Looking forward to being back in Canada again 🍁

I’ve been thinking about something for a long time and wanted to hear honest perspectives from Muslim sisters here.

Would you consider marrying a man who has a physical or mental disability? Why or why not?

I’m asking not just out of curiosity, but from personal experience. I’ve faced a lot of rejection, and often it doesn’t even get to the stage of a proper conversation—families don’t want to ask further once they hear about my situation. Over time, it starts to affect how you see things, and I’ve caught myself feeling like maybe I won’t be able to find a Muslima at all, especially with the way culture can be around these topics.

I understand everyone has their preferences and concerns, and I respect that. But I’d really appreciate hearing sincere thoughts—whether you would consider it or not, and what factors matter most to you (deen, character, independence, stability, support, etc.).

For those who would consider it, what would give you confidence in that decision? And for those who wouldn’t, what are your main concerns?

I’m a 27-year-old Muslim man living in Denmark. I have cerebral palsy, but I live independently, handle my responsibilities, and take care of my life. Still, when it comes to marriage, it feels like none of that matters.

Lately I’ve been overwhelmed — stressed, frustrated, angry, and honestly just really down.

We’re told to keep everything halal: no relationships, no intimacy before marriage, control your desires, etc. I get that, and I’ve been trying. But what’s really getting to me is this: there’s no real support for actually getting married.

My family doesn’t help me find someone. My mosque/community doesn’t either. Its because of my disability, people don’t see me as a serious option. No introductions, no suggestions — nothing. It’s like I’m invisible.

At the same time, I’m dealing with my desires like any normal person. I have never been in a relationship I’m not going to pretend otherwise. It’s difficult, and it’s exhausting trying to hold the line when there’s no realistic path forward.

I’ve tried apps, Facebook groups, even going through the mosque — and I’m just tired of it all. Either no responses or I get overlooked.

I’m honestly at a point where I feel stuck between what I believe is right and what feels possible in real life.

Has anyone been in a similar situation — especially dealing with disability and trying to get married? How did you handle it? What actually worked for you?

I just need something practical, or at least to know I’m not alone in feeling like this

Okay, det her er nok et long shot, men skal til Kemi C til sommer (HF) her og vil høre, om der andre, der skal det? Vi har fået udleveret eksamen spørgsmål - og vil gerne gå igennem/snakke om forsøgene og teorien - er der nogen der kunne være frisk :)

I’m a 27-year-old Muslim man with pakistani family roots living in Denmark(born and raised). I have cerebral palsy, but I live independently, handle my responsibilities, and take care of my life. Still, when it comes to marriage, it feels like none of that matters.

Lately I’ve been overwhelmed — stressed, frustrated, angry, and honestly just really down.

We’re told to keep everything halal: no relationships, no intimacy before marriage, control your desires, etc. I get that, and I’ve been trying. But what’s really getting to me is this: there’s no real support for actually getting married.

My family doesn’t help me find someone. My mosque/community doesn’t either. Itsbecause of my disability, people don’t see me as a serious option. No introductions, no suggestions — nothing. It’s like I’m invisible.

At the same time, I’m dealing with my desires like any normal person. I’m not going to pretend otherwise. It’s difficult, and it’s exhausting trying to hold the line when there’s no realistic path forward.

I’ve tried apps, Facebook groups, even going through the mosque — and I’m just tired of it all. Either no responses or I get overlooked.

And please — I’m not looking for the usual answers like “just make dua” or “marry from أهل الكتاب.” In Denmark, most people who identify as Christian are culturally Christian, not really practicing, so it’s not a simple or realistic solution for me.

I’m honestly at a point where I feel stuck between what I believe is right and what feels possible in real life.

Has anyone been in a similar situation — especially dealing with disability and trying to get married? How did you handle it? What actually worked for you?

I just need something practical, or at least to know I’m not alone in feeling like this.