Not asking to get back or try again, just a genuine message hoping that you are well and that they care about you as a person
From what I’ve observed in other relationships when the guy shows too much interest the girl loses interest
I’m not talking about anything extreme, not triple texting, not calling all the time, no desperate vibes.
I’ve always seen that it’s the girl has to really want the guy and make it seem like he’s worth something
Too many girls have guys that are chasing them, and when there’s a guy that she has to work for she values them more.
It’s just like anything else people don’t appreciate it when things come too easy for them, and they value things that they have to work for
I wish it weren’t this way and I could just tell someone I like them early on, but it’s almost always backfired in most cases that I’ve seen
I wonder if being an only child makes it so much harder when it comes to a breakup
Every girl that has broken up with me that I love results in me being so heart broken
My last one ended last summer. I’m going on 9 months of depression, missing her, being so attached to her
Every time I go through a breakup it takes me so long to get over the person and it consumes me and puts me in such a bad depression. I’ve gone through 5 heartbreaks in the past 8 years. I feel worthless sometimes and so undeserving of love.
I’ve been heartbroken so many times from a breakup I don’t know if I can do it anymore
In 36. The last heartbreak was a breakup from 8 months ago, and today was one of the worst days. I have been so depressed, laid in bed for almost 24 hours straight.
I absolutely hate how emotional and sad I get. All I ever wanted was my person and real love that lasts. I’m so tired and hopeless.
The only thing that helps me a bit is listening to sermons and praying
I need advice on how to get over heartbreak, I wish I could be like those people that can just detach completely
I am 8 months out of a breakup that was intense, full of love, connection and chemistry
We spoke about getting married and she called me her family. She had a lot of mental health issues and trauma that she never healed from. We’re both 35.
Sometimes I look back and think that life is too short to not tell someone that you care about that you still care for them and still want to be able to be on good terms just out of care. We were each others person for almost a year.
Would you guys recommend I reach out after 8 months?
Or do I just continue to be heartbroken and sad without reaching out to her.