u/Erigey

TL;DR: Quiero saber si tengo que esperar 2 años después de mi anterior solicitud de grado de discapacidad para poder volver a enviar una nueva solicitud pasado el plazo de 30 días de reevaluación.

Buenas,

Recientemente recibí mi certificado de grado de discapacidad y no estoy conforme con el resultado, pues solo se me ha otorgado un 10% y realmente necesito de forma urgente acomodaciones en mi día a día para poder vivir con relativa normalidad, ya que ni siquiera soy capaz de hacer con frecuencia actividades cotidianas y realmente quería poder acceder a una plaza de discapacidad a la hora de estudiar.

En el papel oficial ponía que tenía 30 días para mandar una nueva solicitud si estaba en desacuerdo, pero eso era una tarea imposible para mí en ese momento. Actualmente estoy en una lista de espera para ir a un psicólogo y tuve que dejar recientemente la seguridad social porque me estaban tratando de una manera infrahumana, sin mencionar que estoy intentando conseguir un diagnóstico de una condición de salud mental y, también tendría que consultar con mi médico de cabecera para hacer el proceso.

Tengo 18 y no tengo ningún apoyo más que el de mi padre que tiene un 71% de discapacidad y al que tengo que cuidar yo. Esto ya es un papeleo difícil de gestionar por un adolescente de 18 años normal, así que siendo que me cuesta solo darme un ducha o salir a la calle no tenía manera de reclamar y conseguir nuevos documentos que pudieran darme más oportunidades.

Hoy mismo me puse a leer el documento más detalladamente y, si no he entendido mal, pone que 2 años después de la emisión de este documento tendré derecho a hacer una segunda solicitud pasados esos 30 días.

¿Eso significa que voy a tener que esperar 2 años para tener una segunda oportunidad en ser evaluado? Espero que no sea así porque he llegado a un punto en el que soy incapaz de hacer prácticamente nada y he tenido que dejar la escuela porque era tanto esfuerzo mental para mí que tuve que sacrificar comer, dormir y mi higiene personal a cambio de estudiar porque el momento en el que dejaba a mi mente descansar un solo minuto caía rendido y acababa faltando a la escuela o fallando en entregar proyectos. Apenas hace 3 días he podido empezar a dormir un poco bien, después de ya 2 años seguidos de imsomnio que ni siquiera las pastillas solucionaba.

Incluso fuera de eso, por culpa de mis problemas mentales soy una víctima muy fácil frente al acoso porque soy incapaz de reaccionar a tiempo para pararlo, al punto en el que tuve un profesor que me acosó a un nivel en el que todavía sigo teniendo pesadillas y llorando cada vez que un adulto me corrige algo por miedo. Las escuelas no hacen nada aunque les pida ayuda y niegan mi situación, así que estando en esta situación estoy viendo mi futuro muy negro porque parece que todos mis esfuerzos son en vano y al final acaban empeorando la situación.

I'm from Spain and I recently discovered the series and wanted to watch it but it turned out it wasn't available in my country. I tried searching up where it was available to watch out of curiosity and what I got were links to the series in my language, so it seems it used to be available here but for whatever reason it's no longer part of the catalog.

I'm not really sure how Crunchyroll works around these things, so is it possible it will be available in my country in the near future like is it used to be? And how can I know in which regions each anime is available? I don't really wish to use VPNs since I know they're against the TOS but I wonder what makes them pick and choose which animes are available in each region, since I feel like it would be best to just let anybody have the full catalog, but whatever.

I grew up in a pretty messy household, but my mom was always the bad one in my eyes because she never even seemed to bother bonding with me and just had me laying around as her little accessory.

Sure, my dad would rage over the most mundane mistakes and completely neglect my feelings as a toddler, but he at least was there to pick me up from school and make jokes. Plus, he stopped yelling and making me cry over completely normal behaviours when I got a bit older, so I thought he was ok. Turns out he just went from one unhealthy dynamic to other.

Since I was a kid I remember I always BEGGED for him to spend time with me. I talked about my interests to him non-stop, one of them lasted for years and to this day he can just barely remember the concept, I bought Wii games to try together and he would accept after so much begging only to immediately kill his character to not have to play, and, when I tried setting up funny ideas for christmas time and similar, he showed he didn't know me at all by getting me the most basic gift ever despite me being very vocal about what I liked and never wanting anything expensive.

Also, I've always struggled with making friends and he was completely fine with leaving me for 11 years in a school where I was completely ostracized to the point when I was 10 I sometimes cried because I thought I would be unable to ever form a genuine connection with a human being, and he also didn't care to try to make me have a fun time at home, at the very least.

The cherry on top of this is that he prematurely retired about 2 years before I was even born due to a disability he had his whole life, so he couldn't be possibly tired from work.

Inevitably, I gave up. I was the one trying to make fun family dynamics when I wasn't even of age and I had my dad act like a 15 year old teenager who says his mom is annoying him by making him a cozy handmade sweater for the winter. I never even had a rebellious phase myself, by the way.

Now he acts like I completely neglect and hate him and think he's useless. I've told him over and over again I don't think that way but he continues on denying any possible things he could have done wrong and says I don't want to do anything with him.

Sometimes I still try to find something we could bond over: maybe he could learn to draw to do it with me (which I've actually asked of him for a whole decade), or he could learn english like he's always wanted and I could help. He still says no.

I'm very conflicted by this, because I know this is clearly not normal, but at the same time I've had good moments with him and it's not like he genuinely hates me or something, so I always feel like I must be doing something wrong and that he's right because this whole situation seems so irrational to me.

I grew up in a pretty messy household, but my mom was always the bad one in my eyes because she never even seemed to bother bonding with me and just had me laying around as her little accessory.

Sure, my dad would rage over the most mundane mistakes and completely neglect my feelings as a toddler, but he at least was there to pick me up from school and make jokes. Plus, he stopped yelling and making me cry over completely normal behaviours when I got a bit older, so I thought he was ok. Turns out he just went from one unhealthy dynamic to other.

Since I was a kid I remember I always BEGGED for him to spend time with me. I talked about my interests to him non-stop, one of them lasted for years and to this day he can just barely remember the concept, I bought Wii games to try together and he would accept after so much begging only to immediately kill his character to not have to play, and, when I tried setting up funny ideas for christmas time and similar, he showed he didn't know me at all by getting me the most basic gift ever despite me being very vocal about what I liked and never wanting anything expensive.

Also, I've always struggled with making friends and he was completely fine with leaving me for 11 years in a school where I was completely ostracized to the point when I was 10 I sometimes cried because I thought I would be unable to ever form a genuine connection with a human being, and he also didn't care to try to make me have a fun time at home, at the very least.

The cherry on top of this is that he prematurely retired about 2 years before I was even born due to a disability he had his whole life, so he couldn't be possibly tired from work.

Inevitably, I gave up. I was the one trying to make fun family dynamics when I wasn't even of age and I had my dad act like a 15 year old teenager who says his mom is annoying him by making him a cozy handmade sweater for the winter. I never even had a rebellious phase myself, by the way.

Now he acts like I completely neglect and hate him and think he's useless. I've told him over and over again I don't think that way but he continues on denying any possible things he could have done wrong and says I don't want to do anything with him.

Sometimes I still try to find something we could bond over: maybe he could learn to draw to do it with me (which I've actually asked of him for a whole decade), or he could learn english like he's always wanted and I could help. He still says no.

I'm very conflicted by this, because I know this is clearly not normal, but at the same time I've had good moments with him and it's not like he genuinely hates me or something, so I always feel like I must be doing something wrong and that he's right because this whole situation seems so irrational to me.