u/Effective-Payment607

Just literally got a message from a guy advertising himself like its soke sort of dating profile. Honestly disgusting. Where do men find the audacity?

Just landed a job in pondy and joining date is 18th May. Though they are giving staff accommodation, I need a place to stay once i land up in pondy from 17th to 20th atleast. Budget is 2k for 3N max. Would appreciate any help. Need the room with airconditioner and spacious since my mom would also be coming with me and shes a bit picky to be honest. Need some quick recs. Ive already explored the stays marketed on instagram and not very happy with it.

21F here, is it just me or does everyone also get random ass messages from weird guys who claim to have found your acc in a suggestions for follow and immediately dm you as if they deserve attention?

Many of these random ass dms are honestly so irritating because they almost never have good intentions. All of them looking for OF accounts while I can't have a public account in peace.

Frequently used dialogue[execuses] from these men:

"Thought we could be friends"

"Saw your profile in my suggestions and thought you looked genuine" [happened a few minutes b4]

"You looked beautiful so I thought I can message you"

As someone who does not interact with new accounts unless I've met people on other social media platforms, this is weird ans creepy and makes me gag tbh. Its the audacity these men have to be messaging women.

Have blocked over 30+ accounts with the same idiocricy.

I get why customers have such a hesitation towards small buisnesses because of some idiots who thought scamming people was a good idea. But how do I prove to people that I do not fall into that category?

I get no joy or benefit from scamming anyone tbh, I work a good job that pays me well enough and neither do I have any intentions of scamming someone either. I even had a buisness in DXB myself which was shifted to india. Had an amazing family of customers that I can't ship to anymore because of customs and what not.

What does it take to convince people that me and many small shops like me DO NOT SCAM. I would like customers or future buyers to answer as to what kind of proof do yall want? What will convince you to buy?

If you guys visit my account on instagram, ive even put an "about me" in the highlights section to give customers a more comfortable and trusted feel.

Im looking for female roommates preferably 3-sharing[privacy matters]. Going to be starting work on may 18th. If anyone's intrested do ping me. Budget can be upto 10k since I've been to chennai before for my internship and was paying a ridiculous amount for pg.

Just need a very affordable place and I can help in cooking as well. Looking for people who are up to becoming great friends<3