u/Dull-Chemistry-6167

28 [M4F] looking for new friends and good conversations

Trying to meet more people and have more genuine conversations outside of work and daily routines. I enjoy talking about music, hobbies, travel, random observations, life experiences, or even small everyday things people usually don’t get to share.

A little about me:

* 5'11"

* skinny/tall build

* introvert

* doesn’t drink or smoke

* into music, guitar, and traveling

Would be nice to have people to chat with from time to time over coffee, dinner, or just casual hangouts.

Icebreaker question:

What’s something you’ve been thinking about a lot lately?

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 17 hours ago

28 [M4F] let’s skip the small talk (or don’t)

Sometimes I just miss having genuine conversations with people. Not necessarily flirting, not necessarily deep life talks either — just talking. Could be about your day, your hobbies, weird thoughts at 2AM, relationships, music, life plans, heartbreaks, random observations, or even why you suddenly remembered an embarrassing moment from 8 years ago while showering.

A little about me:

* 5'11"

* skinny/tall build

* introvert

* doesn’t drink or smoke

* into music and guitar, traveling

* usually quiet at first but can talk a lot once comfortable

I think what I miss most is the feeling of slowly getting familiar with someone. The kind where conversations start simple then somehow end up becoming unexpectedly personal.

Icebreaker question:

What’s something you wish people asked you about more often?

Or honestly, just tell me something about yourself that you’ve been wanting to share lately.

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 1 day ago

Mental health centers recommendations around manila

any good centers around manila? and may HMOs ba na nagcocover ng consultations/sessions? maraming salamat.

it'll be my very first time to do this because I never really believed in this particular therapy. just wanted someone to talk to and actually listen

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 2 days ago

28 [M4F] Let's hang out! Coffee/Dinner/Whatever!

Hi! Balak kong pumunta ng Eastwood bukas. Wala akong agenda haha lumalabas labas lang talaga ako after work para di maburyo sa bahay. Actually very open ako sa suggestions on where to go preferably yung maganda sa gabi para di mainit. nakapunta na ako sa:

MOA, Venice Grand Canal, BGC

been to Eastwood once pero di ko nalibot.

maglalakad lakad lang ako but very open to getting to know new people over coffee, dinner, late night walks while kwentuhan, whatever! hit me up if you're interested.

about me:

28, skinny tall guy, working in tech, single, I don't smoke/drink, loves iced coffee

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 4 days ago

28 [M4F] maybe we’d get along maybe not who knows

Went to my very first concert a few days ago (Playback Music Festival) and now I kinda understand why people love live music so much. The atmosphere was crazy.

One thing I’ve been realizing lately is that I actually want to connect with people more. Sometimes I want to talk to the barista making my coffee or the person next to me at a concert, but I always end up holding back because I don’t want to seem weird or intrusive. I guess I’m still figuring that part out.

I travel from time to time whenever I feel like I have to get away. Japan is still my favorite place I’ve visited. Also been to Hong Kong, Thailand, and Cebu where I got to see Kawasan Falls, Moalboal, Oslob, and try whale diving.

I play guitar and spend a lot of time listening to music. Honestly, music says the things I can’t always explain properly.

When I’m stressed, I usually go for walks or jogs just to clear my mind.

I appreciate people who can keep conversations natural and easygoing. No pressure to impress each other.

Feel free to message me even if we’ve talked before and I wasn’t able to reply right away.

Quick description of me: skinny/tall guy (5’11), introverted, NGSB, employed, and I don’t drink or smoke. More of a quiet coffee shop or late night walk type of person.

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 5 days ago

28 [M4F] maybe we’d get along maybe not who knows

Hi! I am looking for new people to become friends with. I prefer hanging out to calls and chatting! I'm open to join groups as well. Travel, tambay, count me in!

about me:

28, 5'11, introvert, working, I don't drink, I don't smoke, single

I am very into music and guitar. Medyo LSS ako now sa Mahika ni TJ Monterde haha

I love traveling. I've been to Cebu, Bangkok, Hong Kong, and Japan. I enjoy outdoor and extreme activities sa Cebu pero more on chill, strolling and taking pictures of places talaga ako. Tikim tikim din ng food kung saan man mapunta. If you'll ask me kung anong favorite chinese food ko, sasagutin kita ng siomai.

I love movies about life, love, relationships, romcom, or anything I find interesting. Before trilogy, Her, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, 500 days of summer, 50 first dates, prisoners, dami pa.

I love romanticizing road trips, city lights. Usually hindi mo ako makakausap kasi naka-earphones ako. But don't get me wrong, I love having conversations lalo na kapag interested ako sa iyo. I ask a lot of questions pero minsan I just listen din. Depende talaga.

I try to push myself to run every now and then lalo na kapag may iniisip. Helps me clear my mind.

I'm not that maligalig type of person but I guess it depends on the chemistry. I almost forgot the most important thing, I love iced coffee.

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 6 days ago

28 [M4F] maybe we’d get along maybe not who knows

Went to my very first concert yesterday (Playback Music Festival) and now I kinda understand why people love live music so much. The atmosphere was crazy.

One thing I’ve been realizing lately is that I actually want to connect with people more. Sometimes I want to talk to the barista making my coffee or the person next to me at a concert, but I always end up holding back because I don’t want to seem weird or intrusive. I guess I’m still figuring that part out.

I travel from time to time whenever I feel like I have to get away. Japan is still my favorite place I’ve visited. Also been to Hong Kong, Thailand, and Cebu where I got to see Kawasan Falls, Moalboal, Oslob, and try whale diving.

I play guitar and spend a lot of time listening to music. Honestly, music says the things I can’t always explain properly.

When I’m stressed, I usually go for walks or jogs just to clear my mind.

I appreciate people who can keep conversations natural and easygoing. No pressure to impress each other.

Feel free to message me even if we’ve talked before and I wasn’t able to reply right away.

Quick description of me: skinny/tall guy (5’11), introverted, NGSB, employed, and I don’t drink or smoke. More of a quiet coffee shop or late night walk type of person.

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 6 days ago

Hi! I am looking for new people to become friends with. I prefer hanging out to calls and chatting! I'm open to join groups as well. Travel, tambay, count me in!

about me:

28, 5'11, introvert, working, I don't drink, I don't smoke, single

I am very into music and guitar.

I love traveling. I've been to Cebu, Bangkok, Hong Kong, and Japan. I enjoy outdoor and extreme activities sa Cebu pero more on chill, strolling and taking pictures of places talaga ako. Tikim tikim din ng food kung saan man mapunta. If you'll ask me kung anong favorite chinese food ko, sasagutin kita ng siomai.

I love movies about life, love, relationships, romcom, or anything I find interesting. Before trilogy, Her, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, 500 days of summer, 50 first dates, prisoners, dami pa.

I love romanticizing road trips, city lights. Usually hindi mo ako makakausap kasi naka-earphones ako. But don't get me wrong, I love having conversations lalo na kapag interested ako sa iyo. I ask a lot of questions pero minsan I just listen din. Depende talaga.

I try to push myself to run every now and then lalo na kapag may iniisip. Helps me clear my mind.

I'm not that maligalig type of person but I guess it depends on the chemistry. I almost forgot the most important thing, I love iced coffee.

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 8 days ago

Hi! Pupunta ako ng MOA tonight to buy some stuff and claim a concert ticket. Labas tayoooo! Let's have dinner, coffee, lakad, or whatever habang nag-uusap. I love hearing life stories from other people. I will share too of course! Samahan mo muna ako sa lakad ko hehe. Pwede din tayong tumambay sa MOA sky, kwentuhan all night. On my way na me doon so see you there!

about me:

28, 5'11", single, no vices at all, introvert, I love listening and talking (depends if interested/reciprocated)

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 9 days ago

Hi! I am looking for new people to become friends with. I prefer hanging out to calls and chatting! I'm open to join groups as well. Travel, tambay, count me in!

NASA VENICE GRAND CANAL MALL AKO RIGHT NOW. TARA KWENTUHAN PLS! T_T

about me:

28, 5'11, introvert, working, I don't drink, I don't smoke, single

I am very into music and guitar. Medyo LSS ako now sa Mahika ni TJ Monterde haha

I love traveling. I've been to Cebu, Bangkok, Hong Kong, and Japan. I enjoy outdoor and extreme activities sa Cebu pero more on chill, strolling and taking pictures of places talaga ako. Tikim tikim din ng food kung saan man mapunta. If you'll ask me kung anong favorite chinese food ko, sasagutin kita ng siomai.

I love movies about life, love, relationships, romcom, or anything I find interesting. Before trilogy, Her, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, 500 days of summer, 50 first dates, prisoners, dami pa.

I love romanticizing road trips, city lights. Usually hindi mo ako makakausap kasi naka-earphones ako. But don't get me wrong, I love having conversations lalo na kapag interested ako sa iyo. I ask a lot of questions pero minsan I just listen din. Depende talaga.

I try to push myself to run every now and then lalo na kapag may iniisip. Helps me clear my mind.

I'm not that maligalig type of person but I guess it depends on the chemistry. I almost forgot the most important thing, I love iced coffee.

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 11 days ago

I’m getting close to my 30s, and I’ve lived a life that, on paper, looks disciplined and steady. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke. I carry responsibility as a breadwinner. I’ve done what I needed to do, stayed focused, stayed grounded.

But there’s a quieter side to me that doesn’t show up in those descriptions.

I’ve tried dating before. It never really worked out—most of the time, it ended in experiences I’d rather not relive. And when I do find myself genuinely interested in someone, it’s almost like I already know how it ends. They don’t feel the same. They don’t have to say it—I can feel it in the space between conversations, in the lack of enthusiasm, in the way things don’t quite land the same.

So I learned to ignore it. That part of me that wants something more. I got good at pushing it down, convincing myself I don’t need it.

But the truth is, it’s still there.

There’s a part of me that wants to take care of someone. To show up for her. To play guitar and sing songs just because. To make sure her day starts and ends with a smile. To give, without holding back. I know I have that kind of love in me—I’ve always known.

It just feels strange sometimes, having all of that… and nowhere for it to go.

I thought I had already moved past wanting something like that. But lately, I’ve been reminded that I haven’t. And maybe I never really will.

It’s a quiet kind of ache. Not loud, not dramatic—just there. And sometimes, it sucks knowing you feel this deeply, but can’t really do much about it.

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 12 days ago

Hi! I am looking for new people to become friends with. I prefer hanging out to calls and chatting! I'm open to join groups as well. Travel, tambay, count me in!

about me:

28, 5'11, introvert, working, I don't drink, I don't smoke, single

I am very into music and guitar. Medyo LSS ako now sa Mahika ni TJ Monterde haha

I love traveling. I've been to Cebu, Bangkok, Hong Kong, and Japan. I enjoy outdoor and extreme activities sa Cebu pero more on chill, strolling and taking pictures of places talaga ako. Tikim tikim din ng food kung saan man mapunta. If you'll ask me kung anong favorite chinese food ko, sasagutin kita ng siomai.

I love movies about life, love, relationships, romcom, or anything I find interesting. Before trilogy, Her, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, 500 days of summer, 50 first dates, prisoners, dami pa.

I love romanticizing road trips, city lights. Usually hindi mo ako makakausap kasi naka-earphones ako. But don't get me wrong, I love having conversations lalo na kapag interested ako sa iyo. I ask a lot of questions pero minsan I just listen din. Depende talaga.

I try to push myself to run every now and then lalo na kapag may iniisip. Helps me clear my mind.

I'm not that maligalig type of person but I guess it depends on the chemistry. I almost forgot the most important thing, I love iced coffee.

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 12 days ago

Hi! I am looking for new people to become friends with. I prefer hanging out to calls and chatting! I'm open to join groups as well. Travel, tambay, count me in!

about me:

28, 5'11, introvert, working, I don't drink, I don't smoke, single

I am very into music and guitar. Medyo LSS ako now sa Mahika ni TJ Monterde haha

I love traveling. I've been to Cebu, Bangkok, Hong Kong, and Japan. I enjoy outdoor and extreme activities sa Cebu pero more on chill, strolling and taking pictures of places talaga ako. Tikim tikim din ng food kung saan man mapunta. If you'll ask me kung anong favorite chinese food ko, sasagutin kita ng siomai.

I love movies about life, love, relationships, romcom, or anything I find interesting. Before trilogy, Her, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, 500 days of summer, 50 first dates, prisoners, dami pa.

I love romanticizing road trips, city lights. Usually hindi mo ako makakausap kasi naka-earphones ako. But don't get me wrong, I love having conversations lalo na kapag interested ako sa iyo. I ask a lot of questions pero minsan I just listen din. Depende talaga.

I try to push myself to run every now and then lalo na kapag may iniisip. Helps me clear my mind.

I'm not that maligalig type of person but I guess it depends on the chemistry. I almost forgot the most important thing, I love iced coffee.

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 13 days ago

Good morning! Is there anyone here na pupunta sa PMF on May 8? This is my first time ever attending a concert kasi may Faber Drive haha. I can't wait to hear You and I Tonight nang live! Pupunta ako ng SM (probably MOA) bukas to claim my ticket, maybe you wanna hangout bago umuwi and then pumunta sa event together? Sa seated VIP ako but I don't mind if di tayo same ng area. We can chat naman if ever. I'm very open to meet new people din!

about me:

M, 28, skinny tall, into music (obviously) and guitar, traveling (Japan, China, Thailand, Cebu), not sure kung ano pa haha ask me na lang!

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 13 days ago

Hi! I am looking for new people to become friends with. I prefer hanging out to calls and chatting. It just feels more natural than talking over the phone. I'm open to join groups as well. Travel, tambay, count me in!

about me:

28, 5'11, introvert, working, I don't drink, I don't smoke, single

I am very into music and guitar.

I love traveling. I've been to Cebu, Bangkok, Hong Kong, and Japan. I enjoy outdoor and extreme activities sa Cebu pero more on chill, strolling and taking pictures of places talaga ako. Tikim tikim din ng food kung saan man mapunta. If you'll ask me kung anong favorite chinese food ko, sasagutin kita ng siomai.

I love movies about life, love, relationships, romcom, or anything I find interesting. Before trilogy, Her, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, 500 days of summer, 50 first dates, prisoners, dami pa.

I love romanticizing road trips, city lights. Usually hindi mo ako makakausap kasi naka-earphones ako. But don't get me wrong, I love having conversations lalo na kapag interested ako sa iyo. I ask a lot of questions pero minsan I just listen din. Depende talaga.

I try to push myself to run every now and then lalo na kapag may iniisip. Helps me clear my mind.

I'm not that maligalig type of person but I guess it depends on the chemistry. I almost forgot the most important thing, I love iced coffee.

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u/Dull-Chemistry-6167 — 17 days ago