r/PhR4Friends

Hey there! I've been going through really bad midlife crisis and these past few weeks, I've been in a really low phase in my life again. I'm having a hard time getting back on track so I'm just trying to look for friends or people who are older and have more life experiences. I'm just looking for someone who can inspire and mentor me in life who overcame messy life trials, not just TED Talk kind of lectures.

Not being micromanaged, but more like a guidance with empathy of knowing that being inexperienced in life plays a huge factor in staying stucked in a toxic cycle.

Growing up, I didn't really have good role models that I can easily set my mind into. I literally paved the way in our family to break generational toxicity and it's not an easy work. Sometimes the toxicity can get into me so I just wanna be reminded and be reassured by someone who's been through shit and survived it, that I'm still on the right path.

So yeah, if you don't mind experiencing life with me and learning a thing or two from each other, you can message me and let's grow from here. 😊

Nilagay ko na agad sa title kasi it turns out medyo hindi pala trip ng iba pag hindi taga Manila kausap nila. Haha. Baka sakali lang na may mga makaibigang malakas sa puyat tulad ko at mahilig sa kape. At bago tayo magkayayaan ng kape gusto ko munang malaman mo..

Tungkol sa akin:

- 5'9, mas matangkad pa tingnan pag tinayo ko buhok ko
- May tatts pero konti lang
- Fit (Normal BMI) awa ng Diyos
- Freelancer so hindi magiging sugar baby
- Willing dumayo kahit mahal ang gas kasi nakabike
- Sucker sa magagandang series/anime

Tungkol sayo:

- at sa ligayang
- iyong hatid
- sa aking buhay
- tuloy ang bida sa isipan ko'y ikaw~

Hey yooo! Just need a friend na pwede makausap lang :)) Im so bored and lonely. And sobrang dami rin iniisip. Feel ko sometimes pag lalong walang kinakausap naiipon lang yung thoughts! hahaha. Pero yun nga gusto ko lang rin ng kakwentuhan kahit ano. Open for any topics kahit pa pinaka grabeng topic pa yan hahaha. Hindi naman tayo magkakilala so sabihin mo na sakin yan. Gawin mo kong safe space at gagawin ko rin sayo. Maybe one time thing lang or malay mo maging constant haha. Tell me your darkest secret! Dm me.

about me:

-Cute naman

-Payat

-malabo mata kaya naka eyeglasses kahit di bagay

-Madaldal nagrereply agad di sayang yung dm mo

-Maraming minus points sa langit

-Magnet ng katangahan sa life

-Madaming kausap, yung mga boses sa utak ko

-Maraming kwentong kalokohan

-I'm afraid of pretty girls. shoo

about you:

-Kahit ano basta nagrereply.

i'm on a break right now, so i have a lot of free time and i am incredibly bored T..T so if you think you're pretty funny and can hold a conversation, hmu!

about me:

- i love reading books

- i like making trinkets out of air dry clay

- takes frequent walks sa greenfield

- fave anime is saiki

- fave movie is pride & prejudice

- loves horror tho

idk what else to write pa, so js hmuuuu!! ^^

Hello! I posted a week ago and while I’m still struggling, I’m hoping to find some new friends to help keep my social circle growing! I’m noticing the desire to isolate but I’m hoping to catch that and stay alive and kicking 🥺 Maybe introduce me to a new hobby, or share something about your life, an interest, etc.! Just about anything just please keep it sfw 😭 Here for friends 🥺

I’m also open to discord servers if you have any! Would love to get to know more people to hang out with too 😁

few things abt me

- 27yo (mali napindot sa keyboard rip)

- wfh (freelancing rn)

- learning to crochet (i do art in general, currently just trying to get into crafts)

- i like reading webtoons/manhwa/manga

- sometimes play games

- i enjoy reading books (still have to finish my backlog haha)

- introverted, rather quiet on call but i warm up eventually!

- infj? Haha!

- Christian (would love to make friends from different backgrounds ofc! But don’t be shy if you are 😭🥺)

- looking to start working out/going to gym. never gone but i feel like i’d like to make more of an effort at this stage of my life 😊

Just go ahead and dm me! Happy to talk to whoever would like to make friends as well! 😊

CLOSED. 10:22 PM. Thank you so much!

INSTRUCTIONS:

• 1 question per person only. (1 card pull) answerable by YES or NO.

• Question must be straight to the point ✨

•I do not entertain queations regarding health, legal matters, pets, dates, lottery numbers, third party and any other sensitive topics.

• Please send me a DM along with your question. I won't entertain questions that do not follow my instructions

•I'll be sending the reading tonight or tomorrow.

•Please tell me how it resonates with you too!

Hiii! Not into hook-ups HAHAHA. Looking for kausap here! Introduce yourself sa message pls (ASL, height, work, hobby/ies) THANK YOU! I’ll introduce after you :))

Currently tackling the chaos that is my room and I could really use some company while I do it. If you’re down for a call and just wanna talk about anything—random chika, life updates, nonsense, or even just background noise—hit me up.

I might be a bit distracted (obviously 😅) but I can multitask. Let’s keep each other entertained while I try to be productive for once.

Tell me a bit about you too so it’s not awkward lol.

I literally can't sleep right now. Hindi man lang ako dapuan ng antok. Kahit na pinagod ko na sarili ko kahapon sa paglalakad. So, if ikaw ay hindi rin makatulog. Wanna call?

This is prolly just hormones and cause I just got ghosted for the 5th time this year HAHAHA.

I need genuine people who’d yap about everything and anything. At this point, I badly need another person’s pov of life to help me get over the mess of my own.

Idk, about me:

- nurse

- 5’4 and on the chubby side (pcos gurly)

- southie but also visits the east side cause fam is there

pls, help this stranger!! thank you 😩

Thinking about so many stuff drives me nuts so chika with me?

About me:

• I’m very good with conversations

• Can literally talk about anything under the sun

• Working in healthcare field

• 📍US

• i play valo, ml, hok, heartopia (if u wanna teach me new games g rin)

• i spend most of my time watching movies, kdrama, anime, thai series, jdrama (kahit ano actually)

• rant, chika, tumunganga tgt g!

hmu with a small intro. see you!

Ang hirap gumawa ng mga assignments nang malungkot—samahan nyo ko pls para ma distract sa thoughts and mas matapos ng mabilis ang mga assignments haha

A little about me: open-minded, curious sa halos lahat ng bagay, madaldal if may substance ka kausap, palabiro, currently studying abroad (IT networking)—so kung nagwowork/aral ka rin sa tech field mas okay para marami tayong ma share sa isa't isa :)

Strictly SFW lang pls. Dm me your short intro then we can add each other on discord! See you!

hello, im not really expecting anything, just curious how this works. i like quiet things, coffee, animals, and simple conversations. i prefer when talking feels natural instead of forced. i prefer long term connection than a one night convo. : ))

say hi if you feel like it, state your age and where r u from, too!

I want someone to talk with. If I’m alone, I’ll just cry. So, please yap with me. I swear I’m fun to talk to! :D

About me:

- in college, 3rd yr BMLS

- i play ML (mm, roam, mid)

- currently watching: The Walking Dead S6E4

I just got back after disappearing for a while… went on a little existential crisis side quest. 0/10, would not recommend.

Anyway, I’m back and looking for someone to talk to. Preferably someone I can vibe with and exchange random thoughts, memes, or questionable life decisions or kahit hindi sige go lang! :D

If you’re also bored and mildly unhinged, hit me up.

I'm bored asf and I'm passing the time. I just finished making a cover with a shitty mix and I would like to hear some opinions. Be honest, be funny or even brutal if u have to be. I could prolly take it

Open to anyone, including people with questionable taste. Send help or insults🫠

IF WE VIBE, we could yap and exchange movie/song recommendations.

Shoot me a message, no intros required. Will probably use discord to send the covers. See ya!

Ganito na lang ba?

2,500 lang natira sa sahod ko pang gastos hanggang sa susunod na sahod.

Ang hirap hahaha

Sa mga ganitong dilemma noon, paano nyo nalagpasan?

hello guys, i need to take my mind off some things rn. i just recently seperated from a friend whom i really really really liked but i just now found out that he's seeing another girl :(

i would like to distract myself by at least doing something productive like studying instead of letting my sadness derail me. anyways we can talk about whatevers on your mind but im mainly looking for a study buddy

abt me

5'3

i play racquet sports like tennis and pickleball

fit

normal bmi

abt you

just be nice i guess

Me and my friend can't sleep yet and I wanna chika! I'm open to any topics so we can talk about anything! Just send me a short intro and see you in my dm!

ang hirap makahanap ng friends as an adult huhu.

i think a lot of people do things rin na i dont do (multiplayer games, running, tabletop games, etc.) but i also do have hobbies naman.

i play single player games (although my steam and nintendo library is not that extensive pa). i also like digital art and going to art markets, pero my wallet has been crying lately about it, lol. i'm also into the occult, yes, tarot, not soafer into astro, but wanting to read about the qabbalah (no di kita irread).

i'm from the south if that matters. pero i only meet with people i'm comfortable with so safe to say that this is more of an online friendship at first. let's just see if we vibe muna!

pls send an intro when u message me, and see u in my DMs!

(PS. to those who have messaged me before pero our conversation didn't push through, maybe we can try again? 🤍)