I talked to my friends recently about this and they were quite shocked to hear that I poop 3 times a day almost everyday. I'm 18f, not sure if that matters. I know thats technically a healthy amount but it seems not many people actually poop 3 times a day every day. Also, I don't eat a crazy amount of food, 2 meals a day and thats it. Is this normal?
I've heard a lot of men say that 90% of the time if a women is attractive and willing to sleep with him he would. Regardless if they want a relationship or not, they'll sleep with her. Whats the reason you wouldn't want a relationship if she's attractive and lets say she has a good personality.
I'm asking because I have some great mutual guy friends who tell me what their other friends say about me, and I've heard a good amount say that they would sleep with me but don't want a relationship. Or that they don't like me like that but I'm hot so they would, something along the lines of that.
I don't think I have a bad personality, I've got lots of friends who I hangout with frequently and we always have a good time, and lots of people tell me I'm funny yada yada. So why not have a relationship with me? I'd really appreciate the advice especially if you've been in that kinda situation as the guy, and what was the reason for you feeling that way.
I (18f) went to costco yesterday to pick up a couple things for the weekend. I went right around dinner time, which is a terrible time to go if you know costco it gets crazy. It was super busy, and I'd been waiting in line for over 10 minutes and just wanted to go home after being at work all day.
Right when I was next in line a woman with a little boy (maybe 5 or 6) came up behind me with an almost full cart. The kid was being really whiny and yelling a little bit saying he wanted to go home, and I could tell some people around us were annoyed.
The mom tapped me on the shoulder and asked if they could go in front of me because she'd had a really long day and her son really wanted to go home. I really did feel bad for her, but at the same time I felt the same as them and just wanted to go home. I also only had maybe 8 things where she had basically a full cart of stuff.
I apologized but said no as I'd been waiting for a long time and there was a massive line behind me too. I told her maybe if she only had a few things, but it wasnt fair to everyone waiting patiently. She kinda scoffed at me and said, "seriously you dont have any compassion for a tired child". I told her I did but its not really my issue and I dont know her either. She wouldn't stop bugging me about it, and genuinely wouldn't leave me alone, so here's where I may have been a jerk. I told her she was acting entitled and that I didn't have to let her in front of me if I didn't want to.
A lot of people were looking since she'd caused a bit of a scene and I felt like people were looking at me like I should've just given in, and that I was being rude. I still don't think it would've been the right thing to do, even though I still felt bad for her son. What made me feel worse is this older lady a few spots behind me in line let her go in front of her, and she scowled at me.
I'm really not sure if I was a jerk so I'd appreciate the feedback, especially so I know what to do if something like this happens to me again.
I (18f) babysit for a family about once a month, and this just happened a few days ago. My mom used to read me the Robert Munsch book called, "I'll love you forever, I'll like you for always, as long as I'm living my baby you'll be". Now if you don't know this book you've gotta look it up, its a real tear jerker. I haven't read it since my mom used to read it to me and I forgot how nostaligic it is and how many memories it brings back.
Anyway, I was putting the kids to bed and I usually read them a story before bed. I saw that they had this book and asked if I could read it to them since I hadn't even seen it in years. They said yes and I started reading.
Once I got close to the end I started crying and I truly couldn't stop, this book brought out so many emotions in me. (I honestly rarely cry and I can't remember the last time I cried in front of someone else). I managed to get through the book but it genuinely tore my heart out reading it.
The next day I got a text from the kids dad and he basically told me his kids and himself were uncomfortable with me crying like that in front of them. He said he thought it was weird that I picked that book and then "caused a scene" while reading it. I was very surprised by this and I told him I had no intention of crying at all and I really couldn't help it but tried to get through it as best I could.
I do feel really bad because I never would've picked the book if I knew that was going to happen. I didn't expect to have that reaction and I was just flooded with memories of my mom reading that book to me so many times as a child. So AIO for being upset about this and thinking its kinda unreasonable?
The first time this happened I went to put my garbage in and realized it was already full, and I hadn't put any garbage in at all that week. So I went to both my neighbours and just asked if they had used my garbage. Both of them said no and I believed them as my neighbours are very nice and have never done anything weird before.
Next week, same thing. I decided to get a camera that has a view of my garbage bin because I was starting to get really pissed off that someone was doing this. I'd been keeping my garbage at my house and it was piling up, and I had no where to put it.
On the next week I saw on the camera a new lady that had moved in a few weeks ago bringing her garbage bags over and just dropping them in when I wasn't home. She moved to the house across the street from me with her husband, and mind you its pretty far from my house so I didn't even suspect she would be the one doing this. I really should've considered it since it basically started happening after they moved in.
That day I grabbed the garbage out of my bin and brought it back to her house. I asked her why she was using my garbage bin when she has her own. She basically told me they have so much extra garbage from just moving in and thought for a couple weeks she could use my bin, and also said she thought the bins were shared. Shared??? It's a bin on the side of my house, and its pretty clear everyone has one and you don't share those kinds of things.
I told her it was my bin and she wasn't allowed to use it anymore. She genuinely apologized and it made me wonder if she really didn't know, but I feel like its such basic common sense and she should have. I kept thinking this is a terrible start with the new neighbours, and now I am a bit worried about them causing problems in the future but oh well. Talking to her seemed to make her back off, and this week I was finally able to get rid of my garbage.
So I work a small partime job at a bakery while I'm in college, and I only have a couple shifts a week. I'm very good at my job, I've gotten lots of reviews online specifically about my service and I know my bosses really like me and always tell me of one of their best employees. (Both before and after I started getting high at work)
For about the last month I've started getting high maybe once a week and its been going even better. (Btw I live in Canada and weed is legal) I feel like I'm so productive and on top of everything even more. I can chat with customers for a long time and honestly give the best customer service possible.
No one can tell I'm high because it doesn't show on me, and I feel like its so worth it if I'm doing my job even better than normal. Anyways just wanted to get that off my chest because I enjoy how fast my shift always goes, but to clarify once I get out of college and get a real full time job it won't be happening anymore.