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Weird behavior after bath?

Today I gave my cockatiel a mist bath (with an aloe vera spray my avian vet recommended).

She doesn’t bathe daily, only when she wants to, and today she was clearly in the mood for it because it was warm and sunny both outside and inside (24°C in my house).

Shhe was absolutely loving the bath but right after she started acting really weird and it scared me so badly.

She was just sitting still, slightly spreading her flight feathers/wings, squinting her eyes, and she looked content but also somehow unwell at the same time?? Like sleepy but off. I genuinely thought something was wrong.

She stayed like that for maybe an hour, took a nap, and now she’s completely normal again and eating fine???

What also worried me is her poop seemed a bit looser today, but I recently got her back onto pellets after she refused them for a while, so her droppings have already been changing a bit because of that.

What’s making me panic more is that she had a fungal respiratory infection about a year ago.
She’s been healthy and stable for a long time now, but because of that history every little thing scares me.

There were no drafts or cold air btw, the house stayed warm the whole time.

I already booked a vet appointment for tomorrow just in case, but does this sound like normal post-bath bird behavior?? Like drying off/resting after enjoying the mist? Or does this sound concerning?

The fact she’s acting completely normal now is what’s confusing me the most. I’ll attach a photo with how she looked after the bath and some with her current droppings(lol) !!!

u/DearCryptographer679 — 2 days ago
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Just left therapy one hour ago and I am spiraling really bad.

My therapist sometimes brings her dog to sessions.
I recently lost my own two dogs (same breed as hers) a few months ago, so I’m very attached to him and pet him a lot during sessions because it comforts me and reminds me of my dogs.

He rolled over for belly rubs and I was petting him while talking without thinking too much about it.
My dogs were female and used to love lower belly rubs, so I think I was just on autopilot petting him like I used with them.
Then I suddenly realized I had accidentally touched/rubbed his groin/penis area TWICE (I didn’t process it the first time) and immediately internally freaked out.

I froze and didn’t say anything because I got so embarrassed and ashamed. My therapist maybe noticed and looked slightly confused/concerned for a second like wtf did I just do. She didn’t say anything though. I think it would’ve been awkward for both of us if she did.

I already struggle with intrusive thoughts about me being a zoophile and this is just my last straw.
I feel like I’m the worst human being ever and am disgusted with myself and this action.

I know, logically, it was a mistake, but I just can’t seem to stop replying it.
Now I have the intense urge to apologize to my therapist next session and confess everything.

Even the thought of saying this out loud makes me want to crawl inside a huge hole and die.
But I know that not saying anything also feels wrong and like I can’t get over it until I address it with her.

I genuinely don’t know if I should tell her or not.

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u/DearCryptographer679 — 6 days ago

I went on a trip and brought my therapist a small gift (some sweets from there)
She thanked me and all was sweet but then she casually said “I want to start losing weight”, aka no more sweets for her

Thing is she knows I’ve struggled a lot with an ED and severe body image issues (and still do).
and she’s like… very much the beauty standard (tall, skinny etc) and I’m visibly way bigger.
She is genuinely my “body goals” and the body I deeply crave for.
So just hearing that from her, especially right after I gave her sweets, just felt like real fucking shit and inconsiderate.

it made me wonder… if she needs to lose weight then what does that make me?? I know logically it’s not about me and she can have her own issues and it’s not my place to question that. But it was really triggering.

She says that she doesn’t think I’m disgusting or ugly (even subconsciously/ internalized fatphobia) yet she would probably hate herself deeply if she woke up next day with the same body as mine.

Now I’m stuck here wondering if I’m just being too sensitive or am overreacting. Part of me feels like I should bring it up in therapy but the other part of me feels like it’s too silly or exposing.

am I overreacting?

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u/DearCryptographer679 — 8 days ago

I went on a trip and brought my therapist a small gift (some sweets from there)
She thanked me and all was sweet but then she casually said “I want to start losing weight”, aka no more sweets for her

Thing is she knows I’ve struggled a lot with an ED and severe body image issues (and still do).
and she’s like… very much the beauty standard (tall, skinny etc) and I’m visibly way bigger.
She is genuinely my “body goals” and the body I deeply crave for.
So just hearing that from her, especially right after I gave her sweets, just felt like real fucking shit and inconsiderate.

it made me wonder… if she needs to lose weight then what does that make me?? I know logically it’s not about me and she can have her own issues and it’s not my place to question that. But it was really triggering.

She says that she doesn’t think I’m disgusting or ugly (even subconsciously/ internalized fatphobia) yet she would probably hate herself deeply if she woke up next day with the same body as mine.

Now I’m stuck here wondering if I’m just being too sensitive or am overreacting. Part of me feels like I should bring it up in therapy but the other part of me feels like it’s too silly or exposing.

has anyone else had something like this happen? am I overreacting?

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u/DearCryptographer679 — 8 days ago