Had a tough breakup, was rekindling relationship with ex on December 2025, she went for a family vacation. On New Years she bombards me with texts breaking up with me at 4:00 am telling me she has to prioritize herself or shes gonna lose it and wants to study abroad and do her thing. We try in the period of 3 months to rekindle that relationship which always ends in ghosting and mixed signals saying shes not ready and is scared of having a relationship with me even though she doesnt wsnt to lose me and misses me.
After no contact for like a Month she calls me at the Middle of the Night on a Sunday, I dont pick up but text next morning what’s up. She asks me for bank advice, I answer politely but thats it. This threw me off a lot, why she is always victimizing herself after seeing reposts of her but looks for me anyways.
Shes called me three times late at night drunk but instantly regrets it. First time I picked up she was horny and regretted the call I told her my real feelings and that I wanted to share my changes with her she avoided that and said sorry for the drunk call. She did that two more times I ignored her and she blocked my artistic accounts on instagram .Last week we had a conversation and she asked me if i was dating anyone, and told me jokingly that someone else-broke her heart again and said jk.
Im so confused finally I unblocked her to show peace she blocked me back and word around the grapevine is she is having a long distance relationship with a foreigner. No contact since and I feel as there is no hope jn the future because of her distractions, people, studying abroad for six months.
Yesterday she blocked my number I thought it was because of the long distance guy but unblocked me and added me back.
She was so special to me and I feel she cheated a trying man. Ive had a lot of breakups but this one is eating me alive, please help.