idk why it annoys me lol it just does for some reason. Like, I get that it's just a variation of "bro" or whatever, but the people around me who uses that language are literally the most annoying people ever. It almost gives the same vibe as calling someone "buddy" when first meeting them. Like you would call your closest friends that but you would also call a random redditor that too. It's just very down putting imo.
Or constantly sharing gossip or drama that they know from their friends but they do not namedrop. Is that considered a red flag...? I'm not so sure.
Or constantly sharing gossip or drama that they know from their friends but they do not namedrop. Is that considered a red flag...? I'm not so sure. Imo if you have issues with one of your close friends, shouldn't that be private and you should work it out on your own to the best you can with them first?
I've just realized after two years (two years!!) that literally whenever I was around this one friend I always had a weird unsettling gut feeling around her. I mean, at first I thought it was normal since I didn't expect to feel comfortable to anyone, but it has gotten to a point. It's a very unpleasant and anxious feeling in my stomach. I have noticed weird behaviors around this friend, but nothing that can be logically explained. I also feel I guess, weirdly almost preyed upon (which is so hard to describe and I know it sounds crazy). It's really hard to pinpoint why, because this friend comes off as very "woke" and "emotionally intelligent" but something ticks me off about her. I am not trying to antagonize her or be mean for no reason, as I have pondered over this for so long and have thought it was a me issue. But as her true character is slowly been revealed (being flaky and showcasing almost jealousy and arrogant behavior), I'm not so sure about anything anymore. I don't know who to trust and talk about this either, so I would really appreciate some feedback on what to do or act in this scenario.
Outwardly hating or acting nasty towards those who we are jealous of are often heard of (celebrities and their haters, for example). But I noticed that sometimes jealousy can be in more discrete forms. I personally have noticed this in myself, as well as observing this in people who are close to me. It seems almost as if when people who are doing well, in their careers for example, such as posting on linkedin of their new job and their "friends" not wanting to mention it or even ignoring their posts and acting disinterested, those who are jealous tend to stay quiet rather than outwardly expressing themselves. Can somebody explain this to me?
Outwardly hating or acting nasty towards those who we are jealous of are often heard of (celebrities and their haters, for example). But I noticed that sometimes jealousy can be in more discrete forms. I personally have noticed this in myself, as well as observing this in people who are close to me. It seems almost as if when people who are doing well, in their careers for example, such as posting on linkedin of their new job and their "friends" not wanting to mention it or even ignoring their posts and acting disinterested, those who are jealous tend to stay quiet rather than outwardly expressing themselves. Can somebody explain this to me?
Outwardly hating or acting nasty towards those who we are jealous of are often heard of (celebrities and their haters, for example). But I noticed that sometimes jealousy can be in more discrete forms. I personally have noticed this in myself, as well as observing this in people who are close to me. It seems almost as if when people who are doing well, in their careers for example, such as posting on linkedin of their new job and their "friends" not wanting to mention it or even ignoring their posts and acting disinterested, those who are jealous tend to stay quiet rather than outwardly expressing themselves. Can somebody explain this to me?
I need some advice...personally I find it weird that whenever I post instagram stories, my friend never watches them, yet texts me daily on instagram. I mean, if you text someone when their pfp shows the pink outline highlighting how they posted a story once in a while, why do you purposely ignore that? It's odd, and it's not like I can bring it up with them because it's a weird topic. What do you guys think?
Edit: I know it seems like a small issue, but for some reason it doesn't really sit well with me. Especially since we are considered "close".