u/ConclusionNo2453

My partner and I have been having a disagreement, and during that argument, he used AI to generate some responses via text.

When we met uo today to talk about things, it asked which Ai he used. He lied and said he didn't, when I pressed the question, he eventually told me that he used chat gpt to "filter his thoughts" because the situation was overwhelming to him.

I understand that part, but I am pissed he looked me in the eye and lied to me.

Am I overreacting about this?

My partner is being really weird.

Some context as I posted here not long ago and the situation has gotten weirder.

I need some guidance

My partner 27m, and I 31m are in a weird phase.

We recently celebrated our 6 month anniversary. My partner and I went out for a dinner and concert date to celebrate the time. The next morning had physical intimacy, and then shortly after, he tells me he isn't sure he wants to be in the relationship.

That was on Monday morning. Yesterday evening, he tells me he needs space and time to consider if he even wants to be in a relationship with me.

Some context, we dated during 2020, but because he stopped communicating, and I mean shelled up so bad that he wouldn't even tell me his uncle died, we broke up back then and I started seeing someone new.

That didn't work out and now we are trying again, but he is worried it will happen again. So he has shut down, again, and won't communicate with me what he needs to feel more secure in the relationship.

He stated he wants to be friends, but wouldn't state openly that the relationship is over and he still has us marked as in a relationship on Facebook.

I'm trying to be patient, but I also realize that I am not a toy yo be picked up when things are "good" and to be out back on a shelf when things are "stressful". You work through those moments as a partnership when things get stressful.

Should I even stay and wait for him? I'm at a point in my life where I don't want someone who isnt sure about me.

But I've been sure about this man ever since we met. At the same time, i deserve open and honest communication which i haven't been getting.

He stated he has been worrying about this for a while, and that whole time, was still talking about plans to move in together. Then switches the whole script this past Monday.

I'm confused and I have no idea if time will fix things, or if he will just go quiet again when things get stressful.

The update: he has been loosely texting me, but while he was responding these massive lengthy responses, I realized he is using Ai to generate his responses.

I feel betrayed because he 1. Was not honest about how he was feeling and actively planing our future while hiding doubts. 2. Now I feel like he is offloading the emotional work of formulating a real response to a computer.

Should I even give this dude a chance at this point? We are supposed to meet on sunday to talk about things. I feel the need to bring all the gifts/things he has left at my place because this all is just too weird.

Especially right before the weekend, I feel like he just wants distance so he can hang out with someone else.

My partner is being really weird.

Some context as I posted here not long ago and the situation has gotten weirder.

I need some guidance

My partner 27m, and I 31m are in a weird phase.

We recently celebrated our 6 month anniversary. My partner and I went out for a dinner and concert date to celebrate the time. The next morning had physical intimacy, and then shortly after, he tells me he isn't sure he wants to be in the relationship.

That was on Monday morning. Yesterday evening, he tells me he needs space and time to consider if he even wants to be in a relationship with me.

Some context, we dated during 2020, but because he stopped communicating, and I mean shelled up so bad that he wouldn't even tell me his uncle died, we broke up back then and I started seeing someone new.

That didn't work out and now we are trying again, but he is worried it will happen again. So he has shut down, again, and won't communicate with me what he needs to feel more secure in the relationship.

He stated he wants to be friends, but wouldn't state openly that the relationship is over and he still has us marked as in a relationship on Facebook.

I'm trying to be patient, but I also realize that I am not a toy yo be picked up when things are "good" and to be out back on a shelf when things are "stressful". You work through those moments as a partnership when things get stressful.

Should I even stay and wait for him? I'm at a point in my life where I don't want someone who isnt sure about me.

But I've been sure about this man ever since we met. At the same time, i deserve open and honest communication which i haven't been getting.

He stated he has been worrying about this for a while, and that whole time, was still talking about plans to move in together. Then switches the whole script this past Monday.

I'm confused and I have no idea if time will fix things, or if he will just go quiet again when things get stressful.

The update: he has been loosely texting me, but while he was responding these massive lengthy responses, I realized he is using Ai to generate his responses.

I feel betrayed because he 1. Was not honest about how he was feeling and actively planing our future while hiding doubts. 2. Now I feel like he is offloading the emotional work of formulating a real response to a computer.

Should I even give this dude a chance at this point? We are supposed to meet on sunday to talk about things. I feel the need to bring all the gifts/things he has left at my place because this all is just too weird.

Especially right before the weekend, I feel like he just wants distance so he can hang out with someone else.

I need some guidance

My partner 27m, and I 31m are in a weird phase.

We recently celebrated our 6 month anniversary. My partner and I went out for a dinner and concert date to celebrate the time. The next morning had physical intimacy, and then shortly after, he tells me he isn't sure he wants to be in the relationship.

That was on Monday morning. Yesterday evening, he tells me he needs space and time to consider if he even wants to be in a relationship with me.

Some context, we dated during 2020, but because he stopped communicating, and I mean shelled up so bad that he wouldn't even tell me his uncle died, we broke up back then and I started seeing someone new.

That didn't work out and now we are trying again, but he is worried it will happen again. So he has shut down, again, and won't communicate with me what he needs to feel more secure in the relationship.

He stated he wants to be friends, but wouldn't state openly that the relationship is over and he still has us marked as in a relationship on Facebook.

I'm trying to be patient, but I also realize that I am not a toy yo be picked up when things are "good" and to be out back on a shelf when things are "stressful". You work through those moments as a partnership when things get stressful.

Should I even stay and wait for him? I'm at a point in my life where I don't want someone who isnt sure about me.

But I've been sure about this man ever since we met. At the same time, i deserve open and honest communication which i haven't been getting.

He stated he has been worrying about this for a while, and that whole time, was still talking about plans to move in together. Then switches the whole script this past Monday.

I'm confused and I have no idea if time will fix things, or if he will just go quiet again when things get stressful.