Would men stay fully faithful if they were in 1 relationship with their first everything, not even watching porn, not emotionally cheating, is that possible?
Okay I know I am very very young I am (17F) and my bf is (17M) and I’m aware we can break up anytime. But my bf is about to go into uni and he’s gotta decide on what he’s going to do for his future. And he’s considering doing something I won’t say what but it could possibly most likely be him working abroad for a long period of time.
I don’t expect me to be with him till marriage cuz we are still young , but I do not want a life where my husband is abroad for a long period of time per year at all. that’s not something I’ve ever wanted. I know this isn’t serious at all and no I’m not trying to stop him from choosing what he wants to do. I’m just wondering when I should tell him about this? He keeps making like jokes about marrying me but for me it’s like we’re young and we all know kids fall in love and expect it to last forever so I try to brush it off but how should I let him know that’s not a life I want? And how should I bring it up like in a good way ? please don’t judge
“If you found a wallet with cash in it and genuinely knew nobody could trace it back to you, what would you do?”
“Would you ever lie to protect someone’s feelings if they’d never find out?”
“Do you think people are only loyal because of morals, or because they fear consequences?”
“What’s something society says is wrong that you secretly think is understandable?”
“If someone treats you perfectly but you lose feelings, do you stay or leave?”
“Do you think emotional cheating counts the same as physical cheating?”
“Would you cover for your best friend if they cheated?”
“Do you think most people would cheat if they were guaranteed no consequences?”
“What stops people from cheating more — morality or fear?”
i want to see what he’d say , but i also think he could just answer what he knows id want to hear
I cannot stop thinking and stressing. I have been thinking and stressing about the same thing for days and it is actually slowly killing me.
I have completely ruined my brain and I feel like I can cry any second, I feel that right now me and my bf let’s call him (Rick) are in a good place right now, been together very healthy relationship.
But I am already worried about the future of soemthing happening when I should be detached and and focused on myself,
But right now we are only 17, Rick isn’t fully developed yet. Right now he is exactly what I want in a guy, kinda nerdy, has a small good group of friends, healthy family, just great overall.
But I can’t stop thinking about when he goes to uni and grows apart from his friends now and makes new maybe worse friends.
When I say worse friends I mean as in just those like early 20s life experiences party guys, and I don’t want him to be easily influenced and maybe start getting curious himself
And yes I am aware there is nothing I can do to stop it.
But like he’s told me before he doesn’t understand sleeping with someone you’ve just met or people who just fuck without any kind of relationship but then I also think maybe he’s not felt curious about that yet or maybe he’s not temped to sleep around yet, but then also he’s only 17.
Genuinely I hate myself right now and I wish I didn’t think about this stuff because he’s done nothing for me to even suspect it.
Well , maybe one little thing. Nothing crazy just made me think if he still does it then what more would he do in the future.
Me and rick have a mutual friend we are both extremely close with let’s call him Arlo
Arlo has a friend named Nathan
And Nathan is quite nice to everyone, friendly and Nathan has a girlfriend.
Arlo introduced Nathan to Arlos group which includes Rick,
And then later on they had a house party at William’s house , Nathan had a girlfriend back in another country, Nathan and his girlfriend were doing Long distance aswell.
Later on that night, Nathan was sober didn’t drink but he had kissed another girl at this party basically cheated on his girlfriend.
Nathan had texted everyone at the party after saying sorry for what he did, but that’s not the point.
Rick knows that I hate Nathan I’ve always hated Nathan since me and Nathan have been childhood friends but never close, since I’ve never gotten along with him.
And I told Rick before that Nathan once tried to make up with me and say sorry for everything he’s done and then I kinda forgave him and gave him another chance of being my friend but Nathan took that as something else, when I got out of my room after having a talk with Nathan he tried to hug me around my neck from behind, and I turned around to push him off me.
I told that to Rick that that’s kinda why I’ve also always hated Nathan , Rick finds it weird aswell , but Rick is aware Nathan cheated on his girlfriend and is aware of what happened between me and Nathan,
But he still continues to be friends with him on Snapchat and snaps him like nothings wrong? And like they rarely talk or anything like barely it’s not a best friends thing but I feel abit weird that he still is basically friends with Nathan.
That’s the only thing that’s made me think that Rick could possibly be easily influenced by his future friends especially guys like Nathan , and I don’t know but that’s kinda what’s happening.
What should I do?
I’d like to know everyone’s thoughts on this because my boyfriend is thinking of becoming a private yacht captain so he’ll be in the Caribbean 6 months then 6 months with me every year…
he’s raised by a healthy family household, very respectful and emotionally intelligent. Still he is a male
I can’t help but think if he does end up doing this job will he eventually cheat on me ? Banging stews? He will be away 6 months every year. I don’t know what to think.
I’ve seen alot of people say they will eventually and these captains bang stews or sleep around since they are in another country or whatever but yea please let me know. I’ve never seen him as someone who would do that but I feel like these rich people he would work for could possibly influence him , kinda like wolf in Wall Street. When the main guy changes and turns to a complete A-Hole