u/CardiologistFew2264

Looking for female-friendly room/roommate ASAP (UK)

Hi, I’m currently looking for a room or female roommate situation ASAP after unexpectedly losing my housing tonight.

I’m quiet, clean, respectful, and urgently trying to find somewhere safe to stay while I sort things out. Ideally looking for a women-only or female-friendly environment.

Please message me if you know of any available rooms/resources. Thank you.

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u/CardiologistFew2264 — 3 days ago

My roommate didn’t believe me when her boyfriend tried to touch me

I’m honestly overwhelmed right now and just need somewhere to vent and maybe get advice from other women.

My roommate’s boyfriend tried to touch me inappropriately while we were alone. When I told her what happened, she immediately defended him and accused me of lying. The whole situation escalated badly and I ended up getting thrown out.

I have a hotel for tonight, but after that I genuinely don’t know where I’m going to go.

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u/CardiologistFew2264 — 3 days ago

Homeless after Tomorrow.

Hi, I’m in the UK and suddenly lost my housing tonight after an incident involving my roommate’s boyfriend trying to touch me inappropriately.

I have a hotel for tonight but nowhere after that, and most of my belongings are still at the flat. I’d really appreciate any advice, resources, or help. If anyone can help with temporary accommodation,

I’d only feel comfortable staying with another woman.

Thanks any help is appreciated

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u/CardiologistFew2264 — 3 days ago

roommate threw me out after her boyfriend tried to touch me inappropriately and I tried to call police — what are my rights?

I live in England and was staying with a roommate. Recently her boyfriend tried to touch me inappropriately while we were alone in the flat. I told my roommate what happened, but she didn’t believe me and an argument started.

During the argument I panicked because I felt unsafe and wanted to call the police. My phone wasn’t nearby, so I took my roommate’s phone to try and call. She threw me out of the flat, and in the chaos I left with her phone still in my possession. I still currently have it.

I’ve booked a hotel for tonight but I don’t currently have anywhere else lined up after that, so I’m trying to understand my rights and what I should do next.

Some questions:

If my name is/isn’t on the tenancy agreement, can she legally force me to leave immediately?

What’s the safest/legal way to return the phone and collect my belongings?

If I feel unsafe around her boyfriend, is there a way to have police or someone accompany me while getting my things?

Could I realistically face legal trouble for taking the phone in this situation even though I intended to call for help?

Should I formally report the incident even if there were no witnesses?

Any advice appreciated.

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u/CardiologistFew2264 — 3 days ago

I’m Temporary Homeless UK F19

been kicked out of my roommates place currently on the street in Wolverhampton UK can anyone come get me? Preferably a female please

If anyone can help please dm me.

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u/CardiologistFew2264 — 3 days ago

I’ve watched enough romance anime at this point to feel pretty confident saying this: the genre already peaked, and we’re not hitting those highs anymore.

Yeah, modern shows like Kaguya-sama: Love Is War, Horimiya, and My Dress-Up Darling are fun—but they’re carried by production quality, not emotional weight.

Compare that to stuff like Clannad: After Story or even Toradora!—those actually *commit*. Relationships move, consequences hit, and the payoff feels earned instead of dragged out or neatly packaged.

A lot of newer romance feels like:
stretched-out will-they-won’t-they bait
safe, marketable characters instead of messy ones

or just straight-up wish fulfillment with good animation

It’s not that modern romance is bad—it’s just not hitting the same level, and I don’t think that’s a hot take if you’ve watched enough of the genre.

Who knows tho maybe it’s just me😂

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u/CardiologistFew2264 — 9 days ago

I don’t know if this is the right place to post this but I think I’m the reason I can’t get over my ex

I’m 19 and my ex is 30, and I don’t know if that makes a difference but sometimes I feel like it does. Like they’ve probably moved on way easier than I have, and I’m just stuck here overthinking everything.

It’s been a while since we broke up, and I’ll be okay for a few days, sometimes even a week, and then I end up checking their socials again. I don’t even know what I’m expecting to see, but every time I do it just resets everything. If they look happy or like they’re doing fine, it weirdly makes it worse.

I think part of it is that I don’t really have closure, so checking feels like the only way I still feel connected to them somehow. But at the same time, I know I’m just hurting myself over and over again.

I’ve tried telling myself to stop, deleting apps for a bit, distracting myself, but I always end up going back and looking again. It’s like a habit at this point.

Has anyone else dealt with this? How do you actually break that cycle instead of just telling yourself to stop and then not being able to?

TL;DR: I keep checking my ex’s socials and it’s stopping me from moving on. How do I actually stop?

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u/CardiologistFew2264 — 9 days ago

Heya — money’s been really tight lately and I’m struggling a bit.

I only need an extra £10 a week to cover my dog’s treats

Does anyone know any simple side hustles or easy ways to make a bit extra?

Only stuff that actually worked for you please😂

u/CardiologistFew2264 — 10 days ago