u/Athmi97

2 failed long-term relationships in, and I think it's time for me to wave the white flag na lol. Don't get me wrong, though; it's been 6 months na and I'm putting myself out there naman na ulet, pero kasi pag napapaisip ako ng malalalim tf you mean I need to start from scratch ulet with someone else? Back to square one na naman tapos kikilalanin niyo isa't isa ng maigi and all? Can we skip to the good part na lang agad kasi wala na talaga akong energy magpursue ng matagalan tapos walang kasiguruhan kung may mapapala ba or wala 🙂‍↕️

"Marami ka pang babaeng makikilala dyan" oo nga pero ano ganyan na lang ba palagi mindset whenever it fails? 28 na ko uy. Pano pag 40 na ako tas galing breakup ganyan pa rin? Unli character development ko ah tangina gusto ko lang naman ng peace of mind tsaka taong pipiliin ako palagi kahit anong mangyari. Is that too much to ask for AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.

Kung may exemption lang kami sana na skip na sa talking stage pag galing ka sa breakup na yung partner mo naman ung may kasalanan or nagloko eh no? Yung tipong di mo na need ipakita or i-prove sa kanya na matino kang lalaki and whatnot but alas, that's not how dating works. We guys will always shoulder the burden of showing intent tsaka commitment; first move nga kumbaga, and it's up to you gals to decide if i-eentertain niyo kami or hindi, pero kasi on my end I've done it twice na. Ingat na ingat ako palagi sa relationships ko to a point na I never put myself rin in situations or scenarios na alanganin or ikakasira ng trust niya saken, and yet di talaga ako pinagpapala sa aspect na to hays. Sana naman ako ung receiving end sa ganito no? Tipong babae ung magfifirst move saken tas genuine talaga. Di naman na siguro ako entitled hilingin to after all the traumas and bullshits I've been through, pero wala eh maski ito perks lang ng mga pogi and magaganda HAHAHAHA.

Ayun lang naman hehe. I hope y'all are having a great day! And sa mga nasa happy and healthy relationship dyan, tangina niyo eh di sanaol.

Cheers and stay blessed,
- iii

Jgh from the Play Back Music Festival kanina. Anyone else in here who also attended? Let's talk about it and whatnot since di pa ako antok hahaha. Paos na naman ako neto pagkagising 😌

For now, I mean. Pero sige, pwede na ring FOB reference yan haha. As to why, I guess I’m in this endless cycle of wanting to pursue a relationship again, but also not wanting to commit anymore due to the inevitable risks of another heartbreak. Ano to character development na lang palagi? I'm only getting older by the day and gusto ko lang ng peace of mind. All I ever wanted is a go-to person na pipillin ako through the ups and downs and through thick and thin without me second-guessing, but it seems na I'm not fortunate enough despite always being passionate when it comes to this aspect. Totoo talaga na hindi porke gusto mo makukuha mo.

So here I am, impulsively posting this lol. Who knows, there might be someone out here who can prove me wrong hehe.

Just to be clear from the get-go and for context, my ex had silently quit and she broke up with me half a year ago. We’d been living in for 3 years already; I guess that’s also the reason as to why there are days na I’m yearning to have a partner or companion that I can shower all my love with (because I’ve TONS of it to give, as always). So yeah, please don’t bother DMing me about this kesyo magheal muna ako and shit kasi I’m both very self and well aware naman of everything that I'm doing. If I'm still not over it or whatnot then I wouldn't bother posting this so if you’re not interested or this specific info grinds your gears, then just kindly scroll down, move along, and mind your own damn business haha.

Anyway, papunta na tayo sa exciting(?) part:

About Me:

• 5’4” and not from the big 4 (wala na finish na)
• from NCR
• inked
• normal BMI (EDIT: yes po I workout and no, wala po akong six pack; toned lang katawan ko 🙂‍↕️)
• clean record (no cheating and utang history)
• unhinged humor
• minsan introvert, madalas inverter
• neither smokes nor drinks (bc asthma)
• academic achiever nung elem and HS, tapos nagpabaya na nung college (villain arc yarn)
• 3/10 most of the time, pero pag nag-ayos 2/10 na (EDIT: may itsura naman raw ako and I look young daw for my age so gawin na nating 5/10 lmao)
• avid gamer
• plays drums
• nagsheshave regularly (ikaw na bahala mag-isip alin)
• inggit sa mga patay
• swipe right to unlock the entirety hehezzz

My Red Flags (according to Reddit peeps):

• 5’4” and not from the big 4 (wala na finish na [2])
• single 😌
• has no car (*cue sadboi sounds)
• (still) no plans of having kids (in this economy?)
• walang Tiktok
• “ayaw mo naman ipakita tite mo eh hays”
• [deleted]

About You:

• preferably +/- 4 of my age
• within NCR rin
• at least 7/10 (makapal kasi mukha ko sorry)
• hopefully into video games rin so we can play (+ if you also play HSR kasi I need trailblazing friends hahaha)
• normal BMI
• non-smoker
• I can't think of anything else for now, but please be genuinely interested to get to know each other better

Bonus Points:

• fucked up in the head rin para twinning tayo
• ung kayang sirain buhay ko sana
• if you’re taller than me oks lang eh di ikaw na lang mag forehead kiss saken :3
• will call me "good boy"

Ayun lang naman! Again, I'd like to reiterate that I did this on a whim. In no event shall both parties be liable for any special, incidental, indirect, or consequential damages (mentally and/or psychologically) arising out of our connection via Reddit and beyond.

If this caught your attention and you're interested (obviously), feel free to DM me. I won't entertain low to no effort chats like simple hi's and hello's.

Cheers and stay blessed,

-iii

EDIT: Please do send me na rin a photo of yourself pala since I'm filtering na (as much as I don't want to yet, kaso andami niyo na rin mga nagchachat so I can't entertain y'all at once anymore haha I sincerely apologize 🫠) kasi let's be honest, physical attraction matters rin naman when it comes to pursuing a serious relationship. Thank youuu 💖

*Reposting this here kasi nawala na lahat ng mga nakakausap ko as usual sksksksks*

For now, I mean. Pero sige, pwede na ring FOB reference yan haha. As to why, I guess I’m in this endless cycle of wanting to pursue a relationship again, but also not wanting to commit anymore due to the inevitable risks of another heartbreak. Ano to character development na lang palagi? I'm only getting older by the day and gusto ko lang ng peace of mind. All I ever wanted is a go-to person na pipillin ako through the ups and downs and through thick and thin without me second-guessing, but it seems na I'm not fortunate enough despite always being passionate when it comes to this aspect. Totoo talaga na hindi porke gusto mo makukuha mo.

So here I am, impulsively posting this (again) lol. Who knows, there might be someone out here who can prove me wrong hehe.

Just to be clear from the get-go and for context, my ex had silently quit and she broke up with me half a year ago. We’d been living in for 3 years already; I guess that’s also the reason as to why there are days na I’m yearning to have a partner or companion that I can shower all my love with (because I’ve TONS of it to give, as always). So yeah, please don’t bother DMing me about this kesyo magheal muna ako and shit kasi I’m both very self and well aware naman of everything that I'm doing. If I'm still not over it or whatnot then I wouldn't bother posting this so if you’re not interested or this specific info grinds your gears, then just kindly scroll down, move along, and mind your own damn business haha.

Anyway, papunta na tayo sa exciting(?) part:

About Me:

• 5’4” and not from the big 4 (wala na finish na)
• from NCR
• inked
• normal BMI
• clean record (no cheating and utang history)
• unhinged humor
• minsan introvert, madalas inverter
• neither smokes nor drinks (bc asthma)
• academic achiever nung elem and HS, tapos nagpabaya na nung college (villain arc yarn)
• 3/10 most of the time, pero pag nag-ayos 2/10 na (EDIT: may itsura naman raw ako and I look young daw for my age so gawin na nating 5/10 lmao)
• avid gamer
• plays drums
• nagsheshave regularly (ikaw na bahala mag-isip alin)
• inggit sa mga patay
• swipe right to unlock the entirety hehezzz

My Red Flags (according to Reddit peeps):

• 5’4” and not from the big 4 (wala na finish na [2])
• single 😌
• has no car (*cue sadboi sounds)
• (still) no plans of having kids (in this economy?)
• walang Tiktok
• “ayaw mo naman ipakita tite mo eh hays”
• [deleted]

About You:

• preferably +/- 4 of my age
• within NCR rin
• at least 7/10 (makapal kasi mukha ko sorry)
• hopefully into video games rin so we can play (+ if you also play HSR kasi I need trailblazing friends hahaha)
• normal BMI
• non-smoker
• I can't think of anything else for now, but please be genuinely interested to get to know each other better

Bonus Points:

• fucked up in the head rin para twinning tayo
• ung kayang sirain buhay ko sana
• if you’re taller than me oks lang eh di ikaw na lang mag forehead kiss saken :3
• will call me "good boy"

Ayun lang naman! Again, I'd like to reiterate that I did this on a whim. In no event shall both parties be liable for any special, incidental, indirect, or consequential damages (mentally and/or psychologically) arising out of our connection via Reddit and beyond.

If this caught your attention and you're interested (obviously), feel free to DM me. I won't entertain low to no effort chats like simple hi's and hello's.

Cheers and stay blessed,

-iii