r/PhR4Dating

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To all blessed lovers in ph 💞

Where did you find your partner in ph? Do dating apps work here? If yes, which ones have the highest legit users? I’m new to ph and is very excited about the life and the lovely people of ph.

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u/Ok-Wrangler9545 — 3 days ago

Where do people meet decent, attractive guys on Reddit?

Hi! Looking for subreddit recommendations where I can meet gwapo/good-looking guys who are into serious dating or genuine connections, but okay din with some NSFW/flirty vibes. Preferably active communities with people looking for real conversations and possible relationships. Thanks!

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u/Super_Nectarine_3714 — 2 days ago

27 [M4F]

I'm turning 28 in a few days and I am hoping to be able to meet new people whom I can explore new things with. Let's talk with intention pero with no pressure.

About me:

  • 5'11''
  • Moreno
  • Normal BMI (hiatus on gym and running)
  • INTP Taurus
  • Currently in grad school (engineering undergraduate degree)
  • From cavite but working in metro manila

About you:

  • Between 24-28 years old
  • Working professional
  • Intellectually stimulating
  • Strong personality/Knows what she wants
  • Kind
  • Cute (sana) na nakasalamin (sana)

Send a DM. We can exchange photos to check if there is physical attraction and open to exchanging socials naman once we get comfortable with each other. Ayun lang, you can ask questions naman if curious. Thank youuu

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u/Sad_Sentence_229 — 10 hours ago

23 [F4M] Searching for my savior or prince charming

Idk where to start, but here it goes...I honestly have been romanticizing on the idea of a man saving me. Maybe it's because of the fact that I had no one to lean on my whole life. I have strict parents and I'm not close with anyone in college, since I'm just a quiet loner most of the time. Lately, I feel trapped and lost. I don't wanna end up alone because it's scary, you know? I only have myself to protect and to rely on. It would be so nice if a guy shows up in my life unexpectedly and can help me attain freedom in the future. How I wish love would find me soon...

here's a little info about me:

- 5'2 (157 cm)

- chinita

- long hair

- fair skin

- wears glasses

- cute

Others:

- gemini

- INFP (formerly INFJ)

- love languages: Quality time and Words of Affirmation

- cat owner/ fur parent

- from QC

Note: please be 21-26 sana. I don't want anyone older than that cuz it'd make my daddy issues more evident LMFAO

Hobbies:

- singing

- drawing

- painting

- reading

- working out

- rollerskating

- listening to music

- watching movies

- anything DIY

- playing board games

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u/anonymiss_stoiclady — 19 hours ago

28 [M4F] missing the feeling

Nakakamiss din pala mainlove e no? haha looking for someone that can be my Player 2 :)

About me:

28

5'7, medyo may laman ang tiyan

Singkit (typical na Chinese/Japanese ang look) but not half

Marikina-based

Licensed Professional Teacher (I teach Math! if that matters)

Likes: CATS, Gaming, walks/jogs regularly, KPOP

About you:

No preference honestly as long as WAG MINOR pls lang haha

Please send an intro if magdDM :) see you!

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u/reese_ditto — 14 hours ago

30 [F4M] only have a couple minutes and it feels like

Hi my deaaaar! I’m back again! Hahahaha. Walang susuko sa pamilyang ito.

This girly is still looking for a wholesome connection that may lead to long term. No love bombing, kayo bombahin ko jan.

I just want consistency and love.

About me:

- chubby girl from Makati and working in Makati (puro usok na lungs ko)

- Wednesday Thursday ang off ko kaya I’m out lamyerda. Hahaha. Sama ka? Tara coffee.

- physical looks, I’d rate it a 4/10 and maybe 5/10 on a good day.

- I’m clingy and malambing 🥰

- nag ML pero bobo.

- I love music 🎶. It helps me with everything. Mood, focus or emotions.

- kanal and aircon humor and I love dark memes

About you:

- I only have 1 physical preference. Please be taller than 5’5”.

- sana clingy ka din para di ka naooverwhelm.

- ekis sa in-heat. Pag nagsend ka ng unsolicited dick pic, this is the agreement na pumapayag kang ikalat ko yun, hala ka.

So yun. Send me something weird or amazing trivia about yourself.

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u/gymnopedie13 — 1 day ago
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31 [F4M] Looking for a lifetime partner… and a lifetime rave partner 💍— someone who’ll stay up with me until the sun comes out. 🌅🎶

About Me
• Single, never married, no kids (fur-mom 🐾)
• Lowkey — not loud on social media
• 163 cm / 5’4
• Into adventures and spontaneous plans
• From Rodriguez–San Mateo, Rizal
• Independent with flexible contractual work
• Drinks occasionally / smokes sometimes
• I make time when I want to — simple as that

About You
• Single, never married, no kids
• Maybe doesn’t want kids either — just you and me against the world
• 24–42 years old
• Can handle a woman who likes taking the lead
• Chill, relaxed, not overly talkative
• Emotionally & financially stable
• Bonus if you can handle my clingy/needy side 😌
• Drinks responsibly — knows how to take care of himself
• Not a heavy smoker
• Taller than me
• Masculine/bulky build
• Decent looks, but personality matters more
• Knows how to enjoy life
• Can travel — no “ang layo” excuses
• Has drive and knows how to earn well
• Makes time, not excuses

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u/Mari202012 — 1 day ago

28 [M4F] Well, Hello there. Who are you?

I'm looking for some real and fun interaction here. Let's take it slow. Real slow. I dont like being pressured bec seriously, I am not convinced that someone can really fall inlove with people they just met online. Let's spend time getting to know each other and if it is meant to be, then let me be your white knight or prince charming, perhaps? :)

If you are at the phase of your life trying to reconnect with yourself, wanting to meet new people, and enjoying life as simple as it is, maybe we can get along. 🤝

Get to know me:

28 years old

Grew up living with mom & grandma.

Currently in Baguio for a project based work.

Civil Engineering Graduate

Past relationship: 1 ex gf (almost 8 years)

5'9 height

Moreno

Physically Fit

Wear eyeglasses (Some people say I look suplado & not approachable)

Non smoker. I drink sometimes.

Hindi mapili sa pagkain, really started from humble beginnings.

Hobbies: Basketball, Biking, I custom build bikes. I run regularly but when I feel lazy to do so, I go drive late nights alone.

I also like reading. My favorite book is from Jennifer niven, Its ALL THE BRIGHT PLACES. (At some point in my life, I thought I was Theodore Finch in this lifetime)

About you:

Any age will do as long as you are a real "girl" (Please do not catfish me. I really have trust issues ATM.)

Physically Fit/Slim

Morena or Mestiza

I like decent & intelligent women. Let's talk about anything under the sun.

Nice personality, someone that radiates kindness and passionate about Life

Just hit my inbox with your intro, and let's swap pic right away. See you there, YOU. :)

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u/Unusual_Stay3167 — 7 days ago

26[F4M] Let's reallyyy get to know each other

I've successfully found a match for a friend, so manifesting its my turn HAHAHA looking for something serious and intentional!!

About me:

• ⁠caring, kind, easy going
• ⁠ambitious, goal-driven
• ⁠designer by day, yapper by night
• ⁠loves cafes, traveling, good food, design!!
• ⁠soft facial features, dark hair, smiles alot, often called cute and approachable
• tiny girl with big dreams (i'm 4'10 haha)
• average body type, active lifestyle, ⁠i'm not chinita/morena/mestiza haha
• ⁠loves going on side quests! from hiking, running, yoga, concerts etc!!

You:

• great at keeping up with conversations
• around the same age 26-31!!
• ⁠funny and easy-going
• ⁠patient & kind
• ⁠financially stable/responsible
• ⁠adventurous!
• ⁠has no problems with being vulnerable & loves sharing stories!
• ⁠intelligent!!
• ⁠emotionally available, has moved on from their ex pls!!!
• ⁠consistent
• ⁠preferably not a smoker/heavy drinker sorry!
• ⁠bonus points if you’re into business since i also run a business on the side!
• ⁠bonus points if you're passionate abt what you do and you want to share more about it!!

would appreciate it if you can introduce yourself and what caught your attention so I know you read it all the way through!! will pass if its just a generic or low effort hi or hello!

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u/Full_Examination_370 — 2 days ago

I have been banned sa Tinder and Bumble, halos majority kase ng naiiswipe ko - oo, mostly gwapo (but wala naman silang tag na for short-term/only for fun/only for hook-ups) eh pag nakakausap ko, after day 1 ng medyo okay na topic, bigla na lang magja-jump sa ka-hornyhan. Inaaway ko :D (before i unmatch/block) kase nga syempre sana naman nilagay na nila sa bio nila or tags/preference kung yun lang hanap nila.

God forbids a pretty girl na naghahanap ng cute guy na kakikiligan at hindi lang gugustuhin kausapin dahil in-heat.

And please, wag nyo naman sana akong pangaralan na, "gwapo kase lagi hanap nyo kaya kayo naloloko" ay no po, kahit mukhang sigbin nagloloko na rin at mas malala pa maging ma-L.

So dahil di ko pa rin sinusukuan mga lalake, baka naman meron dyan na matinong kausap, kahit man lang after 6 months bago nyo pakita ang kulay green nyong mind, yung nakakasabay sa sarcasm, may substance kausap, pwede na rin nonchalant basta soft-spoken. Bonus na lang if gwapo kayo.

About me:

26F
Metro Manila
Working
Strong independent woman (financially, emotionally, and physically)
Maganda (istg, source: trust me bro)
Chinita w eyeglasses (fr)
5'2 petite (if thicc thighs gusto nyo, sorry not me)
ISTJ + Virgo + AB+
Red flag
Sa una lang magaling

About you:
Dahil subjective ang overall physical appearance, rate yourself (1 lowest, 10 ofc highest)

EDIT
Please dont ask me for telegram, i tried to create one before but for some reason, i am unable to receive the otp for account registration. And i only have 1 phone number to use.

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u/No_Call8052 — 9 days ago

30 [M4F] "Hay, mabuti pa sila..."

Guess the title of the song from the post title 🤣

Sabi ko tigil muna ako sa paghahanap dito sa reddit, pero wala eh. Bored and desperate trentahin (recently turned 30) that's never been in a relationship.

Honestly, I really don't know what I want right now; so far I'm doing good naman in life (I think?) but noticing how my friends and co-workers around me are already in their respective relationships makes me think why didn't I try being in one during my teens and 20s.

About me:

- Single since birth (But I've had a few casual encounters)

- 5'5" (It is what it is)

- 6-7/10 on the looks (Be the judge)

- Stocky built (BMI says I'm obese but I'm not morbidly obese, just a belly and a bit of love handles)

- Physically active (not fit/aesthetic, can do a SUB30 run, though)

- Into hiking (nakapag-Pulag ako 2 months back)

- Engineering grad (non Big 4, if this even matters)

- Licensed

- Working Pro

- Lame at communicating (Maybe you can help me improve my conversational skills)

- From South Luzon

- Catholic

- Outright honest

About you:

- About my height or shorter

- 20s to 33 y/o

- Physically attractive (Looks matter)

- Slim to slightly chubby

- Any profession (basta legit)

- Catholic too

- Outright honest too

Maybe we can exchange pics agad just to clear the air. See you in my dms if my post piqued your interest.

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u/FreedomBurstMode06 — 4 days ago

[29F4M] Date this tita 👽

It’s been so long since the last time I dated someone and felt kilig huhu so I’m hoping to be back in the dating scene this year and before I turn 30 😭 (beke nemen). maybe we can try different cafes as our date. Who knows our cute little date can turn into something more.

About me:

- 5’1 (yes i’m smol) & petite

- corporate girlie

- chinita

- looks younger than my age

- wears eyeglasses

- fair skin

- coffee and matcha lover

- have lots of pets

- homebody but adventurous as well

- funny

About you:

- 27-32 yrs old

- at least 5’7

- no vices

- physically attractive (i want to feel kilig)

- emotionally available

- financially stable

- likes animals as well

- has sense of humor. pass sa boring kausap hehe

- consistent

- may sense kausap

If you’re interested, dm me with your age and height. please send your pic din :)

see yah!

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u/matchaaaaa_latte — 2 days ago
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Hi peeps has anyone here married and separated na sa wife/husband nila? I am married but separated na sa wife ko for almost 2 years my wife already had her own partner. As of now I am focused on my corporate career. When I am alone I miss being on someone and hoping na magkaroon din ako ng partner or someone to lean on. Is there anyone here na may situation as me na bumalik sa pag kikipag date? And how do you do it? Need your advice thanks!

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u/Low-Significance6838 — 13 days ago

27 [M4F] Build a life?

Looking for someone na may sariling mundo, that values their own freedom, which I could collide with :)

About me:

  • 27/M
  • 5'9, 78kg, pretty good build
  • Confident with my looks, npc clean fashion, mabango,
  • Manila
  • Health care field
  • Likes: Cats, Hiking, Cycling, Football, Cooking, Reading, Art
  • Recently watched: Project Hail Mary, Cyberpunk 2077, KOTSK, Arrival, Frieren

Would Prefer:

  • +/- 2 years/F
  • Not NBSB
  • Slim - average
  • I have a type daw but you can broaden my horizons hahaha
  • Manila
  • Any field basta know that there will be HUGE compromises from mine pero + kung dentista (?) HAHAHA
  • May sariling buhay, may hobbies/causes na real and passionate about
  • Financially sound and responsible
  • Good values and principles pero may humor parin
  • +++ kung soft spoken

Yan nalang muna tapos chat nalang yun iba hahaha See u soon :)

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u/BlackCatBlessingLuck — 3 days ago

36 [F4M] Are you down to dating someone my age?

I talked to a friend today and something just dawned on me. I am not getting any younger! Late na ako sa lovelife game! hahaha!

I am working from home and have few friends, so hindi ako nakakakilala ng mga bagong tao. I rarely go out lately kasi nagiging comfortable na akong mag-isa, which is not good kasi I don't want to end up alone when I get old. I want to share things in life with someone. I want to share my life with someone. Are you down to dating someone my age?

About me:
I am sweet, clingy, a little sarcastic, and absolutely the type to steal your fries. Makulit at madaming kwento, madaldal in short. I have a soft spot for nerds and gamers, I’ll happily sit beside you and watch you play like you're my favorite streamer or my favorite tv show. I can also play games with you if you’re patient enough. I can be your player 2. I like watching movies, and trying a lot of new things. Make me laugh and we’re already halfway compatible… just don’t be weird in a weird way.

Edit:
I am from Alabang

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u/phoenixmallow — 5 days ago

26 [F4M] Crazy dates with a crazy date (pls call i’m bored)

DATE IDEAS
- IKEA. Hide and seek or Bahay-bahayan.
- OCEAN PARK. Magtitinda ng isda sa tapat ng park. Magbboneless na rin ng shark and whale.
Sashimi dinner.
- CHECK-IN. Sa mental hospital. One day lang.
- MAGSUSUGAL. Sa maling tao.
- COFFEE SHOP. Option 1 - Magtitimpla ng 3-in-1 tapos paghihiwalayin. Option 2- Tatambay sa coffee shop tapos pag chichismisan mga kawork.
- FANCY DATE. Tatambay sa gas station.
- BICUTAN. Ako magdrive, ikaw hahablot.
- FARM DATE. Yuyugyugin mangga ng kapitbahay.
- BEACH TRIP. Mang beach tapos magbibang ng buhangin.

ABOUT YOUR DATE.
- Paurong mag birthday. Turning 25 soon.
- Big 4 grad kahit 4 years ago na yun. Pang 4th sa big 4. Kung big 3, edi yung pang 4th.
- 5’2 to 5’3 basta nakatayo.
- Curvy in the right places naman, looking to lose weight. Need a cute-handsome partner in crime.
- Often stays in Parañaque. (Sucat or Bicutan)
- Witty pero antukin.

More of me kasi yiee interested na siya.
🚩
- Hindi naman toyoin pero medjo baliwin.
- Black short hair (nabroken hearted tapos nagpagupit. Mali pala choice ko…. sa lalaki)
- Mainitin ulo dami problems sa work. Call me baby, magiging baby din.

🏳️ (suko na ko)
- Charming! Looks decent and has a nice voice. (husky voice, kung gusto mo pomeranian okay lang din)
- Has dimples.

WHAT I’M LOOKING FOR
- Daddy vibes pero di daddy. (26 to 35 max na yan wala na tawad)
- 5’7 above. (Wala na tatawad. Prio 6’0 above)
- Maganda katawan (para pag nag riding in tandem tayo di maagaw back yung hinablot natin)
- MUST BE a Filipino in the Philippines. Pwedeng may half pero di pwedeng half Pinoy, half German Shepherd. In english: NO FOREIGNERS
- Will be asked to present: Cenomar, Valid govt ID. Bawal may sabit, bawal underage. (trust issues yan)
- Moreno or chinito. Filipinong hinog or sunog doesn’t matter.
- No preference naman sa mata, pwedeng singkit, pwedeng malaki. Wag lang namumula iba na yon.
- Knows how to dress up, malinis, mabango. Geng geng not allowed.
- Payat to may konting belly. Di pwedeng nadadaan lang sa angle. Ekis pag ang angle from above, alam na matic.
- Working professional. Hahati sa bills and chores. Di ko kaya bumuhay ng manchild.
- Di jejemon magtype, pwede naman yung occasional abbreviations (sumtyms, wru) pero no to d (hindi) , nmn (naman), tayo (tau). If di na ko nagreply, jejemon ka siguro mag type ng good morning.

PERSONALITY.
- Funny. Pag saktong funny lang, laugh lang. Pag sobrang funny, laughlaughan na to.
- Hindi sadboi. “ako lang to shit” or “try ko lang kahit panget”. Kung panget ka lagyan mo naman konting conviction.
- Reasonnably seloso.
- bawal yung binoto si Sarah Duterte tapos nagrereklamo bakit walang usad pinas.

NEGOTIABLES
- Idc if walang car, we can use mine pero ikaw mag ddrive.
- Pwedeng may bisyo, bawal lang pangbababae baka putulan kita.

FAQu:
- Cute ka ba? Siguro.
- Pasok ka ba? Kung 5’2 ka, pasok ka naman siguro sa rides ng Enchanted Kingdom.
- Bakit boring ka sa chat? ALANGAN NAMAN SUMISIGAW SIGAW PA KO NG 11PM DI NAMAN AKO BALIW minsan.
- Di ka nagrereply. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

If you finished reading this. Drop an eggplant emoji and intro. No intro, no erasures.

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u/Ok-College-775 — 1 day ago

26[M4F] Let's settle down

We're only getting older so I'm really looking for something stable. I miss the feeling of loving and updating someone, so if you're on the same boat keep reading

About me:
- 5’7 Chinito, Filchi but no great wall
- knows how to yap and listen
- cute (allegedly)
- runs a business in the manufacturing industry with my brothers
- middle child
- values honesty
- play games during my free time such as valo, codm, etc
- used to play football competitively
- LOVES the beach and just chilling

About you
- preferably around 5’ft (or min. 4’10)
- cute, petite, chinita/mestiza
- hopefully a fellow yapper
- someone stable, knows what she wants and is looking for something serious also
- loyal, sweet, family-oriented!!
- someone with depth and substance

send a proper intro, and IG/photo so i know you read it til the end! i'm down to meet and get to know you more irl if we pass each other's vibe check

[posting for a friend since his karma isn’t enough yet!!]

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u/eggspressozzzz — 3 days ago

28 [F4M] intentional dating

Hello!

EDIT: By "FUN", I didn't mean it in sexual context 🥲 grabe naman may friendship with benefits pa talagang DMs lols.

I want something intentional.

I want to meet someone who also wants something serious. Ofc we're also gonna have fun pero hindi fun lang, hindi casual lang ang intention talaga. Hindi intimacy without commitment. But also wants it to be a committed relationship in the future if magkasundo tayo ofc and mag-align on what matters for both of us. 😄 We're just gonna have fun getting to know each other pero both of us must have intention to see if we're gonna be fit for a relationship.

Being intentional for me means having consistent communication, making time and effort to really get to know one another. Ayoko nung dynamics na kung kailan lang matripan mag-usap or magkita, if we don't workout, at least we tried genuinely di ba? 🙂

So I think before that happens, apparently it's necessary for us to have mutual attraction towards each other para genuine talaga na gusto nating mas makilala pa ang isa't isa. 😅 I guess that's where physical attraction enters the picture. So hopefully I meet someone I'll feel attracted with and ofc you too to me. 😄 Physically, personal preference I don't really get attracted with chubby guys.

Here are some details about me:

  • 4'10 slim, average looks, cute type (i feel kinda shy to include that 😆)

  • people usually say I sound and look younger than my age

  • financially responsible (I spend within my means, I don't like being in debt)

  • I have goals and working on it even though progress might be slow, I will always try and do my best. So I want someone supportive and I'll be the same to yours.

  • from Cavite (I want someone whom I can meet in person regularly like weekly or few times a month, I feel like we'll get to know each other better in person so I don't prefer online comms lang but I want someone I can also talk with regularly online)

  • my hobbies are mostly indoors (moreon watching, listening to music and YouTube). I'd say I'm a homebody but I do like going out, making new experiences time to time. I go on hikes 2-3x a year. I like walking too especially around nature, that's why I enjoy hiking! It'll be nice if you have other hobbies that I'll be interested to try too! Maybe you can teach me haha

  • I just started going to the gym, medj inconsistent lately but I wanna do better and consistently for my fitness goals 😄 (I want someone na may fitness goals din and also working on it!)

  • no vices (I don't smoke. I don't gamble. And I don't drink. So I want someone without vices too. If you drink occasionally, that's fine for me.)

  • believes in God (I'm not perfect, actually a sinner but I want someone I can grow with in faith too)

I feel like it's hard to meet someone I'd want here but just also wanna give it a try maybe one last time.

Btw, just to add and reiterate something important, am not looking to connect with someone who:

  • only wants casual

  • just came from a breakup, in the process of moving on (i think you need friends, not landi)

  • taken, committed (this must be obvious pero reminder na lang din 😆)

Aside from those I mentioned above, I want to connect with someone around my age, +3 or -2.

Hope to meet someone interesting, on the same wavelength and looking for the same thing here!

See yah!

Will wait for your message. :)

When you do, tell me what you want and what made you reach out. Haha

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u/Such_Complex_3527 — 4 days ago