u/Apart-Leg-2094

Hey everyone, just wanted to put this out there, not really for my own notes, so feel free to skip if you want. It's been over a year now, and I'm just not myself. I'm totally emotionally drained, but that's something I mostly keep to myself. I still go to work, hit the gym, and watch football games, but honestly, I'm not really enjoying any of it. I just feel this huge emptiness, maybe sadness, just completely wiped out, you know? I even saw a psychologist about six months ago, but it didn't really help. I still feel pretty lost, but I'm trying my best to keep pushing forward and not give up

Hi everyone, I hope you’re doing well. As I mentioned in the title, I’ve always found it challenging to test real functionalities of cross-platform mobile apps when they don’t exist in iOS simulators. I’m looking for a free tool accessible from Tunisia that can be used for a few minutes to test an iOS app on a real device online. Do you know of any such tools?

Hi everyone, I hope you’re doing well. As I mentioned in the title, this is something that always bothers me when working on cross-platform mobile apps. When it’s time to test real functionalities that don’t exist in iOS simulators, I get stuck. Do you guys know or use any free tool that can be used for a few minutes to test an iOS app on a real device online?

Hi everyone, I hope you’re doing well. As I mentioned in the title, this is something that always bothers me when working on cross-platform mobile apps. When it’s time to test real functionalities that don’t exist in iOS simulators, I get stuck. Do you guys know or use any free tool that can be used for a few minutes to test an iOS app on a real device online?

Hey there! So, I'm a software engineer with two years of experience and thankfully, i'm employed right now. But here's the thing: a bunch of folks at my company have been sacked and replaced by AI subscriptions. Now, I'm bombarded with work and feel like I'm not picking up any new skills that would really boost my resume. Plus, I can't seem to land any interviews abroad, and I really don't want to work in Tunisia anymore. What do you think I should do?
Actually, the title was meant to grab attention. I’m not quitting my job, but I’m just looking for any other solution

Reddit is becoming an addiction for me 😅

Hey, Tunisian MMA fans, do you reckon that whole situation was staged? Or what do you think was really up with Khamzat? Seriously, that wasn't the Khamzat we're used to seeing fight that night.

Hello everyone, I’m a student in my National Identity Card, and I’d like to change my profession to software engineer. I received my admission letter from The Tunisian Order of Engineers, but I’m wondering if anyone has recently made a similar change. If so, I’d appreciate it if you could share the required documents for this transition. Thanks in advance for your help.

As an M28, currently in an 8-month relationship, I feel emotionally distressed due to my previous relationship. I acknowledge that I made a mistake by not allowing myself sufficient time to heal before entering into this new relationship. This decision was influenced by escalating events and my current partner, an F28, who expressed her desire to be with me despite my honesty about my emotional state. Now, after eight months, I find myself emotionally compromised. What advice do you offer? I must mention that this girl takes good care of me, and I also do; she's respectful and supportive and is invested in the relationship.

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**TL;DR;** : man in a new relationship thinking about his ex

Hello, I’m a 28-year-old male 'M/28'. This might be long, but I feel like I’m in a really bad place emotionally.

I was in a relationship for 5 years with my ex-girlfriend 'F 27'. She was the person I loved the most, but also the person who hurt me deeply. During the first year, I made a serious immature mistake: she caught me texting another girl on Facebook, making a sexual joke. I was 20 at the time and very childish. She got very upset, and things changed after that. I did grow and fix myself over time, but from that point on, she became less affectionate.

I understood that and tried to compensate by putting in more effort. After 3 years, she asked for a breakup, saying I was selfish and didn’t consider her emotions in the way I acted or spoke, even though I was trying. I begged her at the time, but she refused.

After some time of no contact, she came back and started texting me again. I was happy because she felt like the love of my life, so we got back together.

After graduation, we both started working. From then on, our relationship followed a pattern: we only saw each other on weekends since we work both in tunis but still far, and I'm renting an apartment but she was driving everyday from benzart. She rarely texted or called during the day. When I suggested meeting during the week, she would agree but it never really happened. Whenever I asked to meet, she would say we’ll see each other on the weekend anyway, so it’s fine.

Whenever we argued, I was always the one trying to fix things quickly because I couldn’t stand staying in conflict for more than a day. Over time, the lack of affection and emotional distance made me feel sad and frustrated. I started feeling a gap growing between us.

At work, I met a colleague. I started to secretly develop feelings for her, but I never acted on it or cheated in any way. I kept trying to fix things with my girlfriend, but I didn’t understand what was happening. When I asked her what was wrong, she would say nothing and then blame me for always making her feel bad in the relationship.

Eventually, I decided to break up about 9 months ago. She cried but accepted it.

A month later, I started getting closer to my colleague, and we eventually started dating. At first, everything felt good. We talked deeply about what we like, dislike, and so on.

The problem is that this month I started feeling less invested in my current relationship. I feel overwhelmed by texting and calls she seems to be codependent (i was the one codependent in my previosi relationship), which is ironic because that’s something I felt was missing with my ex.

And now my ex keeps coming into my mind every day. I keep asking myself questions: what really happened, why she became like that, whether she was struggling internally and didn’t express it, and I find myself missing moments with her.

It’s getting overwhelming and mentally exhausting. I don’t know what to do, and it feels like it’s affecting me a lot.

I don’t want to hurt anyone, but I’m really struggling with this situation. At this point, I can’t figure out who I should be with or what I’m supposed to do.

Can you help me?

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Hello, I’m a 28-year-old male 'M/28'. This might be long, but I feel like I’m in a really bad place emotionally.

I was in a relationship for 5 years with my ex-girlfriend 'F 27'. She was the person I loved the most, but also the person who hurt me deeply. During the first year, I made a serious immature mistake: she caught me texting another girl on Facebook, making a sexual joke. I was 20 at the time and very childish. She got very upset, and things changed after that. I did grow and fix myself over time, but from that point on, she became less affectionate.

I understood that and tried to compensate by putting in more effort. After 3 years, she asked for a breakup, saying I was selfish and didn’t consider her emotions in the way I acted or spoke, even though I was trying. I begged her at the time, but she refused.

After some time of no contact, she came back and started texting me again. I was happy because she felt like the love of my life, so we got back together.

After graduation, we both started working. From then on, our relationship followed a pattern: we only saw each other on weekends since we work both in tunis but still far, and I'm renting an apartment but she was driving everyday from benzart. She rarely texted or called during the day. When I suggested meeting during the week, she would agree but it never really happened. Whenever I asked to meet, she would say we’ll see each other on the weekend anyway, so it’s fine.

Whenever we argued, I was always the one trying to fix things quickly because I couldn’t stand staying in conflict for more than a day. Over time, the lack of affection and emotional distance made me feel sad and frustrated. I started feeling a gap growing between us.

At work, I met a colleague. I started to secretly develop feelings for her, but I never acted on it or cheated in any way. I kept trying to fix things with my girlfriend, but I didn’t understand what was happening. When I asked her what was wrong, she would say nothing and then blame me for always making her feel bad in the relationship.

Eventually, I decided to break up about 9 months ago. She cried but accepted it.

A month later, I started getting closer to my colleague, and we eventually started dating. At first, everything felt good. We talked deeply about what we like, dislike, and so on.

The problem is that this month I started feeling less invested in my current relationship. I feel overwhelmed by texting and calls she seems to be codependent (i was the one codependent in my previosi relationship), which is ironic because that’s something I felt was missing with my ex.

And now my ex keeps coming into my mind every day. I keep asking myself questions: what really happened, why she became like that, whether she was struggling internally and didn’t express it, and I find myself missing moments with her.

It’s getting overwhelming and mentally exhausting. I don’t know what to do, and it feels like it’s affecting me a lot.

I don’t want to hurt anyone, but I’m really struggling with this situation. At this point, I can’t figure out who I should be with or what I’m supposed to do.

Can you help me?

​

Hello, I’m a 28-year-old male 'M/28'. This might be long, but I feel like I’m in a really bad place emotionally.

I was in a relationship for 5 years with my ex-girlfriend 'F 27'. She was the person I loved the most, but also the person who hurt me deeply. During the first year, I made a serious immature mistake: she caught me texting another girl on Facebook, making a sexual joke. I was 20 at the time and very childish. She got very upset, and things changed after that. I did grow and fix myself over time, but from that point on, she became less affectionate.

I understood that and tried to compensate by putting in more effort. After 3 years, she asked for a breakup, saying I was selfish and didn’t consider her emotions in the way I acted or spoke, even though I was trying. I begged her at the time, but she refused.

After some time of no contact, she came back and started texting me again. I was happy because she felt like the love of my life, so we got back together.

After graduation, we both started working. From then on, our relationship followed a pattern: we only saw each other on weekends since we work both in tunis but still far, and I'm renting an apartment but she was driving everyday from benzart. She rarely texted or called during the day. When I suggested meeting during the week, she would agree but it never really happened. Whenever I asked to meet, she would say we’ll see each other on the weekend anyway, so it’s fine.

Whenever we argued, I was always the one trying to fix things quickly because I couldn’t stand staying in conflict for more than a day. Over time, the lack of affection and emotional distance made me feel sad and frustrated. I started feeling a gap growing between us.

At work, I met a colleague. I started to secretly develop feelings for her, but I never acted on it or cheated in any way. I kept trying to fix things with my girlfriend, but I didn’t understand what was happening. When I asked her what was wrong, she would say nothing and then blame me for always making her feel bad in the relationship.

Eventually, I decided to break up about 9 months ago. She cried but accepted it.

A month later, I started getting closer to my colleague, and we eventually started dating. At first, everything felt good. We talked deeply about what we like, dislike, and so on.

The problem is that this month I started feeling less invested in my current relationship. I feel overwhelmed by texting and calls she seems to be codependent (i was the one codependent in my previosi relationship), which is ironic because that’s something I felt was missing with my ex.

And now my ex keeps coming into my mind every day. I keep asking myself questions: what really happened, why she became like that, whether she was struggling internally and didn’t express it, and I find myself missing moments with her.

It’s getting overwhelming and mentally exhausting. I don’t know what to do, and it feels like it’s affecting me a lot.

I don’t want to hurt anyone, but I’m really struggling with this situation. At this point, I can’t figure out who I should be with or what I’m supposed to do.

Can you help me?

​

Hello, I’m a 28-year-old male 'M/28'. This might be long, but I feel like I’m in a really bad place emotionally.

I was in a relationship for 5 years with my ex-girlfriend 'F 27'. She was the person I loved the most, but also the person who hurt me deeply. During the first year, I made a serious immature mistake: she caught me texting another girl on Facebook, making a sexual joke. I was 20 at the time and very childish. She got very upset, and things changed after that. I did grow and fix myself over time, but from that point on, she became less affectionate.

I understood that and tried to compensate by putting in more effort. After 3 years, she asked for a breakup, saying I was selfish and didn’t consider her emotions in the way I acted or spoke, even though I was trying. I begged her at the time, but she refused.

After some time of no contact, she came back and started texting me again. I was happy because she felt like the love of my life, so we got back together.

After graduation, we both started working. From then on, our relationship followed a pattern: we only saw each other on weekends since we work both in tunis but still far, and I'm renting an apartment but she was driving everyday from benzart. She rarely texted or called during the day. When I suggested meeting during the week, she would agree but it never really happened. Whenever I asked to meet, she would say we’ll see each other on the weekend anyway, so it’s fine.

Whenever we argued, I was always the one trying to fix things quickly because I couldn’t stand staying in conflict for more than a day. Over time, the lack of affection and emotional distance made me feel sad and frustrated. I started feeling a gap growing between us.

At work, I met a colleague. I started to secretly develop feelings for her, but I never acted on it or cheated in any way. I kept trying to fix things with my girlfriend, but I didn’t understand what was happening. When I asked her what was wrong, she would say nothing and then blame me for always making her feel bad in the relationship.

Eventually, I decided to break up about 9 months ago. She cried but accepted it.

A month later, I started getting closer to my colleague, and we eventually started dating. At first, everything felt good. We talked deeply about what we like, dislike, and so on.

The problem is that this month I started feeling less invested in my current relationship. I feel overwhelmed by texting and calls she seems to be codependent (i was the one codependent in my previosi relationship), which is ironic because that’s something I felt was missing with my ex.

And now my ex keeps coming into my mind every day. I keep asking myself questions: what really happened, why she became like that, whether she was struggling internally and didn’t express it, and I find myself missing moments with her.

It’s getting overwhelming and mentally exhausting. I don’t know what to do, and it feels like it’s affecting me a lot.

I don’t want to hurt anyone, but I’m really struggling with this situation. At this point, I can’t figure out who I should be with or what I’m supposed to do.

Can you help me?

Hello, I’m a 28-year-old male. This might be long, but I feel like I’m in a really bad place emotionally.

I was in a relationship for 5 years with my ex-girlfriend. She was the person I loved the most, but also the person who hurt me deeply. During the first year, I made a serious immature mistake: she caught me texting another girl on Facebook, making a sexual joke. I was 20 at the time and very childish. She got very upset, and things changed after that. I did grow and fix myself over time, but from that point on, she became less affectionate.

I understood that and tried to compensate by putting in more effort. After 3 years, she asked for a breakup, saying I was selfish and didn’t consider her emotions in the way I acted or spoke, even though I was trying. I begged her at the time, but she refused.

After some time of no contact, she came back and started texting me again. I was happy because she felt like the love of my life, so we got back together.

After graduation, we both started working. From then on, our relationship followed a pattern: we only saw each other on weekends since we work both in tunis but still far, and I'm renting an apartment but she was driving everyday from benzart. She rarely texted or called during the day. When I suggested meeting during the week, she would agree but it never really happened. Whenever I asked to meet, she would say we’ll see each other on the weekend anyway, so it’s fine.

Whenever we argued, I was always the one trying to fix things quickly because I couldn’t stand staying in conflict for more than a day. Over time, the lack of affection and emotional distance made me feel sad and frustrated. I started feeling a gap growing between us.

At work, I met a colleague. I started to secretly develop feelings for her, but I never acted on it or cheated in any way. I kept trying to fix things with my girlfriend, but I didn’t understand what was happening. When I asked her what was wrong, she would say nothing and then blame me for always making her feel bad in the relationship.

Eventually, I decided to break up about 9 months ago. She cried but accepted it.

A month later, I started getting closer to my colleague, and we eventually started dating. At first, everything felt good. We talked deeply about what we like, dislike, and so on.

The problem is that this month I started feeling less invested in my current relationship. I feel overwhelmed by texting and calls she seems to be codependent (i was the one codependent in my previosi relationship), which is ironic because that’s something I felt was missing with my ex.

And now my ex keeps coming into my mind every day. I keep asking myself questions: what really happened, why she became like that, whether she was struggling internally and didn’t express it, and I find myself missing moments with her.

It’s getting overwhelming and mentally exhausting. I don’t know what to do, and it feels like it’s affecting me a lot.

I don’t want to hurt anyone, but I’m really struggling with this situation. At this point, I can’t figure out who I should be with or what I’m supposed to do.