u/Ambitious-Tax-6419

My friend who was going through tough times tried self harm. It's been few days. What to do now!?

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I recently posted in another sub about him and his situation. I'll add the original post in the comments.

Please check.

But he tried harming himself recently and I knew about it only today.

I am shivering rn i booked a flight back home and I'm going to visit him, he is not picking my calls and neither his family is.

Apparently he is feeling like a failure after his breakup - job loss and no achievements comparable..

And hes 24-25.

He is not doing well and I don't know what to do.

Please leave your advices or something here.

I can't handle this alone.

Im shaking rn...

As a girl I can't go beyond my limits to treat him but.. what can I do!?

I already informed his parents and they know and are taking care.. but he wouldn't let them help him or know much about him..

Please help me out

What can I do now?

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u/Ambitious-Tax-6419 — 1 day ago

My friend who was going through tough times tried self harm. It's been few days. What to do now!?

​

I recently posted in another sub about him and his situation. I'll add the original post in the comments.

Please check.

But he tried harming himself recently and I knew about it only today.

I am shivering rn i booked a flight back home and I'm going to visit him, he is not picking my calls and neither his family is.

Apparently he is feeling like a failure after his breakup - job loss and no achievements comparable..

And hes 24-25.

He is not doing well and I don't know what to do.

Please leave your advices or something here.

I can't handle this alone.

Im shaking rn...

As a girl I can't go beyond my limits to treat him but.. what can I do!?

I already informed his parents and they know and are taking care.. but he wouldn't let them help him or know much about him..

Please help me out

What can I do now?

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u/Ambitious-Tax-6419 — 1 day ago

My friend who was going through tough times tried self harm. It's been few days. What to do now!?

​

I recently posted here about him and his situation. I'll add the original post in the comments.

Please check.

But he tried harming himself recently and I knew about it only today.

I am shivering rn i booked a flight back home and I'm going to visit him, he is not picking my calls and neither his family is.

Apparently he is feeling like a failure after his breakup - job loss and no achievements comparable..

And hes 24-25.

He is not doing well and I don't know what to do.

Please leave your advices or something here.

I can't handle this alone.

Im shaking rn...

As a girl I can't go beyond my limits to treat him but.. what can I do!?

I already informed his parents and they know and are taking care.. but he wouldn't let them help him or know much about him..

Please help me out

What can I do now?

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u/Ambitious-Tax-6419 — 1 day ago

My friend who was going through tough times tried self harm. It's been few days. What to do now!?

I recently posted here about him and his situation. I'll add the original post in the comments.

Please check.

But he tried harming himself recently and I knew about it only today.

I am shivering rn i booked a flight back home and I'm going to visit him, he is not picking my calls and neither his family is.

Apparently he is feeling like a failure after his breakup - job loss and no achievements comparable..

And hes 24-25.

He is not doing well and I don't know what to do.

Please leave your advices or something here.

I can't handle this alone.

Im shaking rn..

As a girl I can't go beyond my limits to treat him but.. what can I do!?

Please help me out

What can I do now?

reddit.com
u/Ambitious-Tax-6419 — 1 day ago

My friend who was going through tough times tried self harm. It's been few days. What to do now!?

I recently posted here about him and his situation. I'll add the original post in the comments.

Please check.

But he tried harming himself recently and I knew about it only today.

I am shivering rn i booked a flight back home and I'm going to visit him, he is not picking my calls and neither his family is.

Apparently he is feeling like a failure after his breakup - job loss and no achievements comparable..

And hes 24-25.

He is not doing well and I don't know what to do.

Please leave your advices or something here.

I can't handle this alone.

As a girl I can't go beyond my limits to treat him but.. what can I do!?

Please help me out

What can I do now?

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u/Ambitious-Tax-6419 — 1 day ago

Vishayam enti ante I'm in my 20s,

recent ga I had to go to Delhi for work purposes i bought some good clothes from sarojini market and got them for my people as well.💖

Manchiga ne aindi shopping. But life eh enduko boring and dull ga undi.

Poddune levali, office ki povali, narakam bratuku bratakali then inka manager ni titukovali sayantram log out avvali, gym mood unte povali leda intiki ocheyali. Pandali.

Inthe aipoyindi.

Friends antara most of my friends are in usa or married. Some are even having kids.

I don't have much guy friends, unna vallalo

Okadu nakante ghoram ga unnadu, he recently quit his job and left banglore for his hometown, only to get depression and even more mental instability.

And he lost his friends and he recently broke up as well..

And most of the guys I meet are only for ONS and nothing else. Are genuine friendship's cheyadaniki evad ledra ani gattiga aravali anipistundi.

May be it's my fault to expect good ig..

Ante ee age lo inthe na? Like andariki inthe na leda na okka danike ila na ani..

Oka ammai ga expect cheyatam nade na tappu!?

Emo alochisthe tala noppi osthundi.

Anyways bye.

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u/Ambitious-Tax-6419 — 8 days ago

I work in a company . Let's say XYZ which is proficient in marketing and advertising.

As part of my role , I have to travel to Mumbai recently and i informed my superiors while traveling.

They said "why did you book flights differently than us? " I said because I have to meet another client and they have to meet another.

That guy argued a bit for me booking a different flight than him.

Because, I was assigned to another client on one day and he is assigned to another on different day.

Then he started saying - you can stay in Mumbai till I come so that we can return together.

And I was extremely uncomfortable.

Not only I have an entire trip planned to another city after coming to my own town, but also I do not like going out or meeting office colleges after working hours.

I alredy prepared a draft email to hr.

I will definitely quit this job if this turns messy.

Better be unemployed than to face these dramas daily.

But what can I do in this scenario!?

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u/Ambitious-Tax-6419 — 8 days ago

A lot of us has to go through shit we don't deserve. And we don't have anyone to share with. Even if we do, it won't go too well.

Well anyways. How are you doing?

Is everything okay?

Recently I am not well because of disturbances in my work life and my relationships with people as well.

I needed a ventin space and I bought a therapy session( it was expensive tho)

But still made it ! It's worth it.

But since most of us won't have that privilege , I'm trying to create a space.

(Not a professional one sorry)

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u/Ambitious-Tax-6419 — 11 days ago

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Yea same as the title.

She cheated on him with two or three guys from past couple of months and he didn't know and by the time he knew , she alredy broke up with him saying he treated he bad and shit.

Bro he's a gem in this generation okay I never seen any man like that putting efforts for his girl.

What's wrong with women these days!!

Being a woman I can't think of this bullshit.

That guy is shutting himself off from every single person. He recently quit his job, saying he wants to get better and he joined a course it's been three months and he still didn't get any job. And hes still at home.

Im not able to contact him, he seems to cut my calls and ignore my texts and reply to everything at once in one day out of 7 days.

He's saying everything is heavy and can't take it anymore.

Ive been asking him to take some time out for himself. I sent him money and goods.

He didn't even use them. I sent him money to get himself some good clothes for his birthday last month and he didn't even celebrate it properly.

He says he's 25 and he's a failure and gonna leave this world.

I tried therapy and contacting his parents, but they gave him councelling and situation even worsend.

Now he's not able to go anywhere and talk to me at all.. I made the situation worse!?

What should I do!?

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u/Ambitious-Tax-6419 — 13 days ago

​

Yea same as the title.

She cheated on him with two or three guys from past couple of months and he didn't know and by the time he knew , she alredy broke up with him saying he treated he bad and shit.

Bro he's a gem in this generation okay I never seen any man like that putting efforts for his girl.

What's wrong with women these days!!

Being a woman I can't think of this bullshit.

That guy is shutting himself off from every single person. He recently quit his job, saying he wants to get better and he joined a course it's been three months and he still didn't get any job. And hes still at home.

Im not able to contact him, he seems to cut my calls and ignore my texts and reply to everything at once in one day out of 7 days.

He's saying everything is heavy and can't take it anymore.

Ive been asking him to take some time out for himself. I sent him money and goods.

He didn't even use them. I sent him money to get himself some good clothes for his birthday last month and he didn't even celebrate it properly.

He says he's 25 and he's a failure and gonna leave this world.

I tried therapy and contacting his parents, but they gave him councelling and situation even worsend.

Now he's not able to go anywhere and talk to me at all.. I made the situation worse!?

What should I do!?

reddit.com
u/Ambitious-Tax-6419 — 13 days ago

Yea same as the title.

She cheated on him with two or three guys from past couple of months and he didn't know and by the time he knew , she alredy broke up with him saying he treated he bad and shit.

Bro he's a gem in this generation okay I never seen any man like that putting efforts for his girl.

What's wrong with women these days!!

Being a woman I can't think of this bullshit.

That guy is shutting himself off from every single person. He recently quit his job, saying he wants to get better and he joined a course it's been three months and he still didn't get any job. And hes still at home.

Im not able to contact him, he seems to cut my calls and ignore my texts and reply to everything at once in one day out of 7 days.

He's saying everything is heavy and can't take it anymore.

Ive been asking him to take some time out for himself. I sent him money and goods.

He didn't even use them. I sent him money to get himself some good clothes for his birthday last month and he didn't even celebrate it properly.

He says he's 25 and he's a failure and gonna leave this world.

I tried therapy and contacting his parents, but they gave him councelling and situation even worsend.

Now he's not able to go anywhere and talk to me at all.. I made the situation worse!?

What should I do!?

reddit.com
u/Ambitious-Tax-6419 — 13 days ago