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so ninna naku na friend ki oka godava la ayyindhi. start chesindi nene.

ninnane sorry cheppa. but aame chala feel ayyindhi.

if I send her flowers , would it come across as creepy? would it backfire in any way? no other intentions. i really feel bad. andhuke

Nenu em party ki support kaadhu and just have a question. Nenu oka YouTube podcast chusthu unna and oka army major chepthunnaru about Gandhi, Nehru and how Nehru got PM seat even without votes because of Gandhi. Ee podcast chusthunte doubt vachindhi what if Bose was our first PM. Naa opinion lo mana constitution chaala strict gaa undedhi and mana lives baagundevemo ani anipisthondhi. Meeru em antaru??

Request to mods: Can we have a flair to discuss about genuine politics without supporting any political party.

Or are you happy with your current lifestyle and would rather never drink/smoke?

I had requested to talk to the girl first before meeting but got a no saying that its better to meet in person along with the families. So we met and talked for over an hour (got privacy to talk to eachother). It was okay though I could sense some difference in opinions

1. Temple, I am not a spiritual person. I would like to question and try to see through things. Following things blindly is not my thing. But she is a deep spiritual person, she loves going to temple.
2. Bangalore, I stay in Bangalore and I work in a niche domain where other cities cant provide a job with good pay and work and I love to stay in Bangalore far from home city because of space. But she doesn't like Bangalore and prefers to stay in Hyderabad. (My parents told them before meeting that Bangalore is the only option)

The day we met, I felt from the conversations that she needed time. So thought to give some time before I contact again. Later parents contacted their parents and shared me her number.

I talked with her later and then the temple topic came up. She said that she expects me to take her to temple whenever she wants to go. I again told her I dont like to go to temples because I honestly dont feel anything going there and it is always crowded in cities and far from peaceful (She said she we will go on peak occasion days). I then said, Hey I will come with you sometimes and sometimes we can probably go outside city and go to a temple on a hill with less crowd and make it some fun ride trek/temple. She certainly didn't like this idea. She felt that it is too much work to go to a temple. I foolishly told this with my parents and they literally shunned me for not saying "I will take you always" 🙂 (All my family elders are spiritual). I let it slide, thinking I will adjust for her.

Next conversation, among other things I asked about her financial plans and what she thinks about sharing. She was okay with sharing which is good. Then I asked her about her future career plans and whether she wants to work. She said yes with a break when she has kids. This is what I am looking for too because I beleive in building a life together and both of us working is critical and I also want to share all of the house responsibilities. Like cute us two against the world sort of. Then I explained her that this is what I am looking for and how I hate people who sit at home idle making their life stagnant and honestly I think it will unground them from working life problems and create issues. I also told her that I cant be only one calling or texting each time and I perceive it as no interest in me then she responded with she is not the type that can call people up, not even her friends. Her friends call her and she talks nicely. I told her relationships needs effort from both ends and even her friends also feel happy when she calls them.

Fast forward later I got to know that (she --> her parents --> my parents --> me) bringing up financial views is a taboo. Like how I can ask about finance. (There is pressure from her father, he wants to get her married before June this year or something and I realized I may not get much time, so I asked these early). Then I also got to know that she got uncomfortable because I shared my opinion on how I hate idle sitting at home people. Poor me, here I thought I will share my opinions so that she could understand me better. (My parents are not happy with this again, that how I can talk about finanace and share how I feel about being unemployed 🙂).

Next call, she said that she likes shopping and doesn't look at price tags and gets whatever she likes and that she expects me to take her shopping whenever she likes and also to parlor/dermat for any skin treatment or something. (I do shopping only when needed and I definetely look at price tags, middle class genes). I said that I can do these sometimes, as I might be busy with some other work or some activity. She got disappointed and told me how her daddy always makes time for her to take her to dermat and shopping 🙂. I got irritated at this but I kept my calm and told her that I am different person than her father and the relationship will be different too. Later I remembered that how she was uncomfortable about my opinion on non working people and told her she can share If she is uncomfortable about something directly to me, she was like okay. Then she got on to ask a question "What will you do If I stop working after 5 years?" I am like what! Is there any reason that you would stop working, some health issues or not liking your work or something? She was like "nope, I just stop doing it and I might even learn a new hobby which may cost money"

I gave up at that point man. Here I am adjusting for her to go to temples and take her shopping and she isn't even acknowledging the efforts, hell even comparing with her father. She also said ki she has anger issues and I need to be patient (I was like okay lets see)

My cousin sister failed in her intermediate. She has passed in language subjects but failed in all 4 subjects (PCMB). We are prepping her up for supplementary exam.

I want to talk and understand what is she really interested to study. Due to parental force, she had chosen PCMB after her 10th.

Despite what happens after the supplementary, what can she do for her education and future? Any advice..Thank you.

PS:

- BiPC is PCMB in Karnataka

-Myself I am not educated. I am not much aware of current academics.

matter enti antey e august ki bike kondham ani plan cheysthunan na nak two bikes nachai na budget 2.4Lakhs roughly...

na requirements:

1.Moto vlogging cheydham anukuntuna for fun , entire south sea coast , ladakh , and northeast , e year end ki ayithey goa trip undhii currently so andhuku nen na friend nen koney bike midha veldham anii

2.Fuel efficiency and suspension bagundaliii

3.Easy maintaince and service centres undali

4.Na height 5.4 feet so easy handling kavaliii

so e two bikes lo em batter choice ? and any other bike e budget and e requirements lo plz tell Mee..???

anybody here got into a relationship because of reddit ? how's life going between the two of you ?

any successful stories ?pelli daka vellaya em aina?

cheppandi...........

A friend of mine said that he will only date someone from his caste. I got this thought in my mind after he said this.

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What are the best chicken wraps you've ever had? I liked the Exotic Shawarma and the other few. Please suggest must-try wraps you know. I want to try the best ones.

So I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a while now, and something has been bothering me recently.

She doesn’t usually go out much because her parents are strict, so whenever there are events or workshops in college, she mostly skips them. But recently there was a painting workshop after college hours, and she actually went—which surprised me.

The thing is, she didn’t even mention it to me or ask if I wanted to come. Later she told me she went and that one of her guy friends was there and they talked. I’m not really bothered about her having guy friends, that’s normal. What bothered me more was that I wasn’t even considered.

This also connects to something bigger. I’ve been asking her for almost a year to come on a trip with me. It never happened. But recently she went on a trip with her friends.

I’m trying to understand if I’m overreacting here, but it just makes me feel like she puts in effort for her friends in a way she doesn’t for me. Like I’m there, but not really a priority in her “outside life.”

I don’t want to be controlling or expect her to include me in everything, but at the same time, I can’t ignore how this feels.

Am I overthinking this, or is this actually something I should be concerned about?

Bondhas, oka meta post.

ee online brands lo evaina eppudaina order chesara? cheste, em order chesaru, alage mee experience ni kuda share cheyani. Meta kakapoyina wiki post avutundi ani naa abhipraayam.

Ivi kaakunda inka emaina brands meeru use chesi unte, vaati gurinchi kuda raayandi. Reliability veta lo okka chinna prayaanam.

Category: Leather goods

1. Godbole gear
2. Chisel & Mallet
3. TSVR leather goods
4. The Postbox
5. The Leather Chef
6. Theo & Ash
7. Tanwood Leather
8. Teakwood Leathers
9. James Aston
10. Cratly
11. Thread Crafts co.
12. India leather supply - leather DIY items
13. The Black Canvas
14. Tanstitch
15. Indie Leathers
16. Sneaky Leather

Category: Vegan leather goods

1. Kinnoti
2. Aulive

Category: Leather shoes

1. Fellmonger
2. The Dapper Man
3. Dapper Shoes
4. BLKBRD SHOEMAKER
5. KOZASKO
6. Saalvi

Category: Vegan leather shoes

1. Modello Domani
2. The brat army

Category: Other footwear

1. CTR shoes
2. Clan shoes
3. Decathlon

Category: Flashlights

1. Lightorati
2. Lightmen

Category: Watches, straps, and accessories

1. HMT
2. Sai Creations
3. Krishna Watch Company
4. Ethos
5. Chrono24 - watch market
6. Khisa
7. WAMD
8. Mooi Straps
9. Shaw watches
10. Suparv
11. Hello EDC

Category: Automobiles

1. boodmo - Amazon for car spares
2. oriparts - catalogue for car spares
3. Rynox - gloves, boots, jackets
4. Solace - gloves, boots, jackets
5. Maddog - Auxiliary lights
6. Vaishnu - Aftermarket headlights
7. Viaterra - gloves, luggage
8. Lluvia Turizmo - bike accessories
9. Bikers Billet - bike accessories
10. 3D Mats India - car mats
11. Autoform India - car seat covers
12. Roger car techssories - car coil spring buffers
13. Elegant - car seat covers
14. Carbon Racing - bike accessories

Category: Books

1. Gita Press
2. Navodaya
3. 99BooksStore

Category: Flora

1. All That Grows
2. NurseryLive
3. Flower Aura
4. fnp
5. Ugaoo
6. Chhajed Garden
7. India Gardening

Category: Miscellaneous

1. Helios - shoe care
2. William Penn - rich people's stationery shop
3. Daily Objects - Cases & accesories
4. Vistaprint - custom stamps, visiting cards, etc.
5. Sun Umbrellas
6. Shoe Mistri - shoe care
7. Pi Tshirts

Ninna ma anna vere city ki veltunnadu, mumbai lo layoff 20 hours , nenu inka ma anna ni na daggara ki ramanna , location petta vachesadu . ika Vadiki mumbai chupiddmani start ayyam. Siddi Vinayaka temple ki postam first darshnam time kanna laddu kosame ekkuva sepu ayyindhi. akkada nundi inka csmt(one of the last station in Mumbai) metro lo poyam. Taj hotel Ela untundhi experience cheddam ani poyam , chai time ki . Super undhi hotel. Enter ayyaka Lopala unna valla outfits chusi Naku oka feel type vachini like siggu , antey manchi costly area normal clothes set avvaledu ani pinchindi. but akkadiki poyi washroom lo mirror chusukuntu anukunna "you are always you your dress won't matter when u r rich". antey nenu rich ani kadu ,rich avvali ani. pizza order icham aa pizza vache gap lo nenu ma anna sollu vesukunnam.

Ika e gap lo ni mind alochanalu , family mottam okkasari ayina Ravali ikkadiki , ma parents vallaki nachindhi order ichi tinali. Idi avvali antey manam rich avvali/ manchi package Ravali ani. Really Naku oka type of motivation la anipinchindhi. Ela antey life ni nachinattu enjoy cheyali antey money ani . Money untey manaki nachinattu undachu. Ika night parties ,clubs ,races ,events vitiki eppudu poledu. povali anni experience cheyali . so I've motivation ayyayi . idi chusi kuda motivate avvakapothe waste ani(aa time ki ala anipinchidi).

pizza vachindhi ,but perfect cheyaledu anta chef , ma anna cheppadu .(ma anna foreign nundi vastunndu ,Vadu oka 3 countries tirigadu . so Vadiki Ela untayo telustai). ika ma anna serve chesina vadini pilichi ,base chala hard ga undi and salt ekkuva ayyindhi ani cheppadu, aa bearer ki ma anna ki oka 3 minute discussion,ma anna Ela undalo chepte vadu malli aa pizza tesukupoyi veredi tesuku vachadu.

E gap lo ma pakka table lo oka chinna papa(maybe 7 years undachu) aa papa inka ice creams em kavalo cheppindi valla ammaki. vallu English lone matladutunnaru (vallu Indians) but valla mother tongue use cheyadam chala takkuva. naku aa time ki chala alochanalu , what a difference ani ala.

Fun thing : ma opposite table lo iddaru foreign ammayilu kurchunnaru , fries ,coo cola , pizza order richaru. oka ammayi ayithe pizza spoke tho tintundhi ,knife tho cut CHESI spoke meeda petti. nenu navukunna 🤭🤭🤭 , tarvtha doubt vachi 'how to eat pizza ' ani youtube chesa.

ika taj hotel mottam ground floor tirigi vachi ika , boat ride etc etc etc.

monna only 4 hours Padukunna, ninna 3 hours Padukunna , Eroju pani undhi malli aa pani start ayya.tdlr pedadam anukunna but em pettalo teliyaka 🤔🤔🤔 vadilesa.

Inthaki Naku tag em pettalo and title em pettalo teliyale 😜😜 so tochindhi petti post sestunnam.

Hello

Can someone recommend cork sandals for men which are comfortable for wearing long hours.

How are happenstance or bata? Has anyone tried and liked them?

I’ve seen Birkenstocks but I’m not sure to spend 13k on them.

Hey everyone,

I recently went through a tough breakup and I’m trying to get back on track by exploring around Hyderabad and just spending some time outdoors.

I’m 25 (male), working remotely, so I’ve got some flexibility to travel. I have my own scooty and I’m planning a few solo rides for now — currently thinking of: • Golconda Fort

• Ananthagiri Hills

I’d really appreciate any recommendations for peaceful or interesting places nearby (especially scooty-friendly spots).

Also, if anyone feels like joining for a ride or exploring together, you’re more than welcome — could be nice to meet new people and just get out for a bit.

Thanks in advance 🙂