u/Alert_Grass_395

Hi guys,
Been keeping up with the comments here. Another redditor commented this new link and just wanted to share around.

Looks like they are creating a new website since the other one got seized by the FBI.

Please report:

https://bg6988.com

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u/Alert_Grass_395 — 10 days ago
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I have a question that might sound a bit blunt, but I’m trying to wrap my head around a recent experience. I was with my ex for four years; we had even discussed marriage, but he eventually ended things because he struggled to balance "blood family" priorities with our future. Initially, we stayed friendly because neither of us was ready to let go.

However, only one week after the breakup, a friend found his profile on a dating app. When I confronted him, he apologized and claimed he was just trying to "fill the void" left by my absence. I told him he should move on however he wants, but using people to fill a void is a pretty poor way to do it.

Fast forward to week four (about a month after): he’s already posting a new girl on his socials. At that point, I cut all contact. I was exhausted by his actions and frankly, it felt embarrassing to watch.

I want to ask the men here:

• What creates that urgency to "fill the void" immediately after a long-term relationship?

• What does that "void" actually feel like for you?

• Why the need to show off a new relationship when the breakup is still so fresh?

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u/Alert_Grass_395 — 17 days ago

Hi,

I had broken up with my ex of 4 years (with talks of marriage) about 7 months ago.

Long story short, he moved on to someone in a couple months, and I was devastated by how I was replaced so quickly.

Cut off contact so I don’t hurt myself more. I’ve tried my hardest to work on my self, start new hobbies I love, a new job that feels more aligned with my career goals and a new place that feels like home.

I’m so so so proud of how far I’ve come and using the pain of the break-up to lock tf in.

But the thought of relationships started coming up in my head. I’m scared because of the past relationship and how that ended… but I also want to not be alone my whole life lol.

When do you know you’re ready to meet someone new? Any experience would greatly be appreciated

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u/Alert_Grass_395 — 17 days ago

Hi,

I had broken up with my ex of 4 years (with talks of marriage) about 7 months ago.

Long story short, he moved on to someone in a couple months, and I was devastated by how I was replaced so quickly.

Cut off contact so I don’t hurt myself more. I’ve tried my hardest to work on my self, start new hobbies I love, a new job that feels more aligned with my career goals and a new place that feels like home.

I’m so so so proud of how far I’ve come and using the pain of the break-up to lock tf in.

But the thought of relationships started coming up in my head. I’m scared because of the past relationship and how that ended… but I also want to not be alone my whole life lol.

When do you know you’re ready to meet someone new? Any experience would greatly be appreciated

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u/Alert_Grass_395 — 17 days ago

Hi,

I had broken up with my ex of 4 years (with talks of marriage) about 7 months ago.

Long story short, he moved on to someone in a couple months, and I was devastated by how I was replaced so quickly.

Cut off contact so I don’t hurt myself more. I’ve tried my hardest to work on my self, start new hobbies I love, a new job that feels more aligned with my career goals and a new place that feels like home.

I’m so so so proud of how far I’ve come and using the pain of the break-up to lock tf in.

But the thought of relationships started coming up in my head. I’m scared because of the past relationship and how that ended… but I also want to not be alone my whole life lol.

When do you know you’re ready to meet someone new? Any experience would greatly be appreciated

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u/Alert_Grass_395 — 17 days ago

My ex and I haven’t been in contact for 7 months now.

Our story is that we were together for around 4 years, but ended due to him not getting his priorities straight between his family and I, so he ended it with me. He asked to be friends still, I was hesitant at first but said fuck it, why not lol.

He eventually started dating another girl about a couple months after which hurt like hell. And I knew it was time to cut off contact, mainly because I knew I was gonna hurt more seeing how fast I was replaced.

Dramatic exit from me that same day…and haven’t been in contact since.

My birthday came and went without a word from him. Now that his is coming up, I’m debating whether to send a simple birthday wish. I have no intention of reconnecting or getting a reply (would prefer if I don’t get one lol) It would just be a genuine gesture for the occasion to someone who once mattered.

But I guess it’s a dilemma of If I should just leave it be and let it go or if it’s no harm to send a birthday wish.

How would you go about it?

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u/Alert_Grass_395 — 18 days ago

Hi!

I just paid someone to break a soul tie/ cutting cords ritual with an ex.

I was almost going insane by how much I thought about him everyday, day and night, even the times in between. We were together for 3 years, talking about marriage too, maybe that added it. We haven’t been in contact for almost 7 months now and I felt like I just needed an outside support to help me.

I immediately felt so much lighter when I got told that my cord cutting was done. It felt weird, almost like I don’t feel the heaviness of the feelings anymore (if that makes sense) Is this normal?

And a few more questions,

1: How does it feel on his end? Will he also feel the cord cutting? Is it also a lighter feeling for him or would that depend

2: Could cords be reattached? I want to prevent that from happening

3: Is there a possibility that the other party could refuse the cord cutting?

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u/Alert_Grass_395 — 18 days ago