u/Aj100rise

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I’ve never understood why people created these toxic labels that society forces onto everyone.

So what if you don't pass a class, or if you struggle to overcome a difficult obstacle? Society immediately labels you as either a "winner" or a "loser." They judge people entirely on their looks, throwing around labels like "ugly" or "good-looking." They judge your worth based on whether you are "poor" or "rich."

It feels like there is no room for nuance or empathy. These toxic labels ignore the fact that we are all human beings going through different struggles. Instead, they just create total havoc in people's lives and ruin their self-esteem. I’m just so tired of everyone being reduced to a simple, superficial category.

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I’ve never understood why people created these toxic labels that society forces onto everyone.

So what if you don't pass a class, or if you struggle to overcome a difficult obstacle? Society immediately labels you as either a "winner" or a "loser." They judge people entirely on their looks, throwing around labels like "ugly" or "good-looking." They judge your worth based on whether you are "poor" or "rich."

It feels like there is no room for nuance or empathy. These toxic labels ignore the fact that we are all human beings going through different struggles. Instead, they just create total havoc in people's lives and ruin their self-esteem. I’m just so tired of everyone being reduced to a simple, superficial category.

Lot of people keep saying I'm very weak and slow and dumb.. because I guess I'm overthinking a lot and barley seem to be putting any effort in my life. It's like I'm letting everyone run over me. I don't know how to do simple things like accept myself or love myself or taking care such as building life goals and stuff.

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I felt so bad my family member wanted some help moving some items and they were so heavy furniture. I just couldn't lift nor push anything. And I felt more bad when they pointed my weakness ohh he can't lift. It's challenging for him. Bro like that shit made me feel weak. Like I don't lift weights but I'm doing like low impact cardio everyday. Like I don't much about fitness and stuff. But I definitely realized damn I gotta work on building strength and getting stronger.

I felt so bad my family member wanted some help moving some items and they were so heavy furniture. I just couldn't lift nor push anything. And I felt more bad when they pointed my weakness ohh he can't lift. It's challenging for him. Bro like that shit made me feel weak. Like I don't lift weights but I'm doing like low impact cardio everyday. Like I don't much about fitness and stuff. But I definitely realized damn I gotta work on building strength and getting stronger.

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I don't know how I feel and what I should do. It's like everything just happened yesterday. Time has gone by so much and already one year has completed. But I still feel like it just happened few days ago. Sometimes I miss her. Sometimes I feel guilt because I don't miss her. But I guess reason I'm trying not miss her is because I don't want to like become soft and quiet.

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I don't know how I feel and what I should do. It's like everything just happened yesterday. Time has gone by so much and already one year has completed. But I still feel like it just happened few days ago. Sometimes I miss her. Sometimes I feel guilt because I don't miss her. But I guess reason I'm trying not miss her is because I don't want to like become soft and quiet.

I don't know how I feel and what I should do. It's like everything just happened yesterday. Time has gone by so much and already one year has completed. But I still feel like it just happened few days ago. Sometimes I miss her. Sometimes I feel guilt because I don't miss her. But I guess reason I'm trying not miss her is because I don't want to like become soft and quiet.

I went to my friend auto mechanic guy. This guy is actually a aeroplane mechanic but on free time he likes to work on cars. He basically fixes them and also does reselling. He says I make more money doing this than my actual job. Because he's been aeroplane mechanic for 19 years and says I only work 2 days there. And so for rest of the days I just work on cars. Like he says I buy cars on Facebook marketplace or auctions for under $10k and fixes them then sells it. And he likes the fact that he is only dealing with cash not having to worry about taxes. It almost feels like a side hustle/hobby turned into a profitable business or full time job replacement. He said I still have few years left for retirement and doesn't want to lose flight benefits and pension.

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My friend took me to his friend's house where that guy is actually a aeroplane mechanic but on the side he just fixes cars. He says I only work at the airport for 2 days and rest of the days just work on cars. His house is pretty big and has almost 20 cars on his lot. Some in the backyard. Like is mechanic a profitable business. He says I like the fact I'm only dealing with selling and buying with cash so I don't have to worry about taxes. He says I basically buy cheap cars under $10k from Facebook marketplace or auctions and fixes it then resells it. And also fixes cars for many people. It was pretty amazing how much knowledge a person has about cars and its mechanism. I wish I can learn basic auto skills in my free time. I don't think I can become a mechanic but I guess it's very important to understand the basics of car maintenance..

My friend took me to his friend's house where that guy is actually a aeroplane mechanic but on the side he just fixes cars. He says I only work at the airport for 2 days and rest of the days just work on cars. His house is pretty big and has almost 20 cars on his lot. Some in the backyard. Like is mechanic a profitable business. He says I like the fact I'm only dealing with selling and buying with cash so I don't have to worry about taxes. He says I basically buy cheap cars under $10k from Facebook marketplace or auctions and fixes it then resells it. And also fixes cars for many people. It was pretty amazing how much knowledge a person has about cars and its mechanism. I wish I can learn basic auto skills in my free time. I don't think I can become a mechanic but I guess it's very important to understand the basics of car maintenance..

It's my first time setting up iPhone 14 for my little brother. He wants to take it to school. I don't know how to setup iphones. I heard you need iCloud but also Gmail too?

Like the thing is he already tabs opened in safari and photos and videos too in the gallery. So like am I supposed to delete all this? I don't know what to do. Also any tips on how to secure phone and understand about privacy and security features. For instance phone gets lost or damaged and everything is backed up. Any must apps to download?

I'm trying to figure out what skills to learn during free time instead of doom scrolling on social media. I hear a lot about tech skills especially learn tools of AI. Like chatgpt and Claude. But what else to learn and work on. How can someone eventually find a career interest based on the skills they learn. I currently don't know my path.

I've been wearing prescription glasses since teenager years now I'm almost 30 and I'm still wearing glasses. But I've noticed that my eyes are so dependent with glasses. Like I literally wear the minute I wake up. I wish there were exercises or natural ways to fix vision. Even my eyes have become small and feels like it went inside. I got recommend wearing lens but it's too expensive. It's like wearing glasses has taken away my joy. I always wished to learn martial arts and swimming and always wanted to go on a rollercoaster. One day I sat on that and I had to grab my glasses 😭🤦 because I thought it will fall.

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I have developed severe low self esteem because of no accomplishments and purpose in life. For context, I've been sitting at home for nearly 9 years ever since high school was finished. And now even my younger brother is gonna graduate high school. It is crazy how much time has gone by and I'm still where I'm as I was 21. Like I don't know what is it inside of me that is feeling shame and guilt. I still cannot get over the fact I have not graduated high school because it was my biggest dream to graduate and go college. That one goal or accomplishment that I never achieved is haunting me for years.

I got my GED and even enrolled in community college but for some reason even that felt like a failure since the majority of kids straight up went to university. I also realized I'm not a bright person. I don't have the talent, hope, passion, driven winning mindset, fast and smart.

I have developed severe low self esteem because of no accomplishments and purpose in life. For context, I've been sitting at home for nearly 9 years ever since high school was finished. And now even my younger brother is gonna graduate high school. It is crazy how much time has gone by and I'm still where I'm as I was 21. Like I don't know what is it inside of me that is feeling shame and guilt. I still cannot get over the fact I have not graduated high school because it was my biggest dream to graduate and go college. That one goal or accomplishment that I never achieved is haunting me for years.

I got my GED and even enrolled in community college but for some reason even that felt like a failure since the majority of kids straight up went to university. I also realized I'm not a bright person. I don't have the talent, hope, passion, driven winning mindset, fast and smart.

I currently live in Florida and plan to move to Chicago, however, I'm not really sure because I'm still looking for other options. Like it's the only drawback that I feel is the weather being cold and the living cost being high. But I heard from a lot of relatives that there are many job opportunities and there's a lot of support. I don't know how to navigate my life ever since my parents passed away and I also have my siblings so we are trying to find a new place to settle and you know live our life. Attending college and working stuff like that. We never personally experienced snow before so I'm not sure how that will be.

I don't understand people sometimes. Like honestly, it's like they want to control everyone around them and live a life the way they want to, not the other way around.

Why do they care if you talk so simple and dress so simple. Like some people are not interested. Trying to show off and looking like a bigger person. They don't want the attention and validation from everyone. Do people genuinely think that talking in proper accent makes you stand out because when a person is from village they speak desi.

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I'm always afraid to speak up and simply being myself. I'm always too conscious about making other people feel happy and comfortable. It's difficult to stand up on your own and saying no.

I also feel like I'm overall very slow, dumb and weak. I want to work on my life but I don't even know how to get started. It's like every area of life feels like a mess.