There was this guy w/ a great jaw, physique, and hair, who was partnered w/ a girl who had a noticeable double-chin, avg or even below avg physique, and thick eyebrows.
Then there was this guy who was sub5 facially but tall af, who was w/ an objectively attractive woman.
All in the space of ten minutes…
This is my version of the red pill. Yes, the dating market is unjust. Yes, we can game the system to get ahead. But this only reinforces the injustice of said system. We are giving power to women and the wealthy when we should embrace our power as inkwells and refuse to go along with their nonsense. I’m specifically talking abt those of us who are avg looking and theoretically could get a relationship if we jumped through a bunch of hoops. If we changed x or y, which of course costs money or requires sacrifice, we can get what most women and attractive men get for free/just for existing.
Yes, I could completely change my look to appeal to women, but why should I have to? Why isn’t being mid good enough for avg looking women? Maybe I’m chopped, but I’ve been complimented before, so Idk. A woman who complimented me before just wanted to be friends; figure that one out. I think my rambling has now hit the length requirement.
In the weight room, these two girls and I were walking towards each other from opposite directions. I recognized them cuz they saw me using one of the machines working on legs. I looked at them, they looked at me, and they looked at me and smirked as I nervously moved out of the way.
How to find ur soulmate in 2026? U don’t. What’s the advice? Keep on trying? Does this sound like it’s worth it to u? Women and Boomers will never understand the struggle fr, cuz it’s ridiculous that this is the main way of dating now. This is not a sustainable or tenable way of facilitating romantic connections. We be better off w/ friends or family members playing matchmaker.
I genuinely don’t know how. If it’s the same way u talk to any other stranger, maybe I don’t how to do that either, cuz I go some place by myself and I’m literally unable to meet ppl.
I've never asked someone out before or even talked to someone in a romantic way, so I'd like to at least have that experience before I graduate. Unfortunately, I'm moving across the country for grad school one I graduate, so starting to date might be hard.
Women often talk abt falling for a guy's personality--is that smthg for men as well? If so, what is it abt someone's personality?
It seems like it happens to pretty women and nothing changes. They can still pretty much get any guy they want. If a woman truly has a pretty face, she doesn’t need to stay in shape or rlly try at all. Must be nice, right? Meanwhile, men have to either be tall or in tip-top shape, and even if ur in good shape that isn’t always enough. The dating market is so incredibly skewed, it’s crazy.
I always love tragic villains, cuz I see myself in them. Ppl shouldn’t be surprised that we act like monsters when ppl treat us like one. Like Darth Maul, our role has been predetermined for us. We are the villain of our own story, struggling against self-righteous Jedi who are hypocrites blinded by arrogance and hubris.