u/ABry__

So I’m not gonna lie I kind of have had a crazy past year and a half and because of trying to be employed full-time and also trying to go to college full-time there is a possibility that I lose my financial aid and I’m trying to figure out what to do if God forbid that wants to happen

I know everybody always says that trades and college is the only way to go and I am a 22 year old dude and I just don’t really know. Like are they good employers or employment that people can get here or around the county without having like a certificate/degree?

Also, sorry I was having towards this and the title weird but it wouldn’t let me submit because of the role is for some reason even though I’m not breaking them I’m just looking for suggestions

I’m (M21) just kind of venting and I understand that I’m young, but even my older family members are telling me that to be honest, they don’t see any hope that anything’s gonna get better and it’s kind of sucking right now

I’m doing almost full-time work and full-time college and I’ve struggled so much this year that I’m at least gonna drop out for one year and see if I can kind of get my life a little bit more back on track, but I don’t even know if I will return to college

Even worse is in my state if you want to work in the trades, you kind of have to go through a college to work for them so I can’t do jobs that require a college degree or trades

It’s not that I don’t want a relationship or don’t want sex. I want a relationship with a girl that is like my best friend and I would love to have sex, but to be honest, even though there’s protections you can use the risk still worries me way too much.

I know that two parents with full-time jobs could probably make it, but even in my state in most of the popular cities where you can actually find jobs you can’t hardly find a place to live

So I (M21) know that this probably isn’t gonna happen in the first place because I’m already struggling with school and I’m having to drop out because of how bad that I’m doing in college right now and they’re also isn’t a way to get into the trades without going to school in my state

If me and GF ended up expecting a kid (obviously I know there’s protection, but even that can end up messing up on occasions and that worries me really bad. In my state, we are also very red so abortion is illegal (I don’t agree with that and live in one of the Democratic cities) and to be honest, I’ve kind of thought about just avoiding relationships altogether because I know that people are going to want sex

I do want to have sex also but to be honest, I just avoid it and the whole me talking about a girlfriend is hypothetical in this, but I’m being for real that I’m genuinely thinking that I might just avoid it fully because if something was to happen there’s literally no way I can get a job where, even if my hypothetical partner had a job also that we could support a kid, especially with may not be unable to complete college

So I (M21) know that this probably isn’t gonna happen in the first place because I’m already struggling with school and I’m having to drop out because of how bad that I’m doing in college right now and they’re also isn’t a way to get into the trades without going to school in my state

If me and GF ended up expecting a kid (obviously I know there’s protection, but even that can end up messing up on occasions and that worries me really bad. In my state, we are also very red so abortion is illegal (I don’t agree with that and live in one of the Democratic cities) and to be honest, I’ve kind of thought about just avoiding relationships altogether because I know that people are going to want sex

I do want to have sex also but to be honest, I just avoid it and the whole me talking about a girlfriend is hypothetical in this, but I’m being for real that I’m genuinely thinking that I might just avoid it fully because if something was to happen there’s literally no way I can get a job where, even if my hypothetical partner had a job also that we could support a kid, especially with may not be unable to complete college

Like, I know when I tried as a teen to upload videos. There was the tags or other things like that, but then sometimes they wouldn’t work so I would just upload it without anything and no video of mine ever got views

I’m wanting to restart again soon but no video that I’ve watched truly explains it and it seems like everybody has different explanations of how you’re supposed to upload your video to make sure to algorithm since it out or we tags you should or shouldn’t put in or if you should/shouldn’t at all