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Apologies if this has already been shared (I looked but didn't see any posts.) Mike Lawler announced a Town Hall at the Mahopac High School Sunday, 4/12. Need to rsvp, hope this link works

Normally I never post this kind of stuff, but after biking up to Somers to see my uncle who has stage 4 cancer, I was coming home Saturday the 4th on the Empire State Trail in Yorktown Heights. I was in a rush to get home since I have a sick toddler with RSV and flu to attend to so I was chugging along. There was one rider ahead of me but I kept a good 10 yard distance since I didn't want him to think I was trailing or drafting him.

We get to the Yorktown Heights Railroad Station area and there is zero people on the trail and zero kids at the park, basically the area was dead. There is a set of stop signs on the trail and again zero people were around. The guy in front of me, who was a middle age male probably in his mid to late 40's, riding a dark bike with a rear fender mount stops at one of the signs. I slowly roll past it since there is zero people at the park let alone on that segment of the trail and then I hear, you got to stop man! I think nothing of it and this guy is beat red in the cheeks and pissed off and now is screaming you got to stop! At this point I realize he is clearly talking to me and not going to relent. I politely say, there is no one remotely around and I am in a rush to get back home. He then goes on this tirade of how people like me give "us" (cyclists) a bad name and how when he goes to the town meetings and his HOA meetings he is falsely defending assholes like me. At this point he is riding side by side to me maybe 2 inches off me giving me no room wile there is now oncoming foot traffic with families with kids. At this point I loose it and tell him, there was zero people around and what did he think someone squirrel was going to jump out onto the path out of nowhere? Again this guy will not relent and at this point I am telling this guy to just fuck off. He continues to spiral into saying how he's been riding way before I have and he is constantly calling me "son". I quickly reply stop calling me son, I am not your son man. He questions my age and I tell him 39 (I look young) and he goes silent. He starts to pivot and says, well I noticed you trying to chase me down back there. I start to laugh and just say get over yourself. Not to make this into a Bicycle Circle Jerk post, but this guy was a Fred MAMIL with mismatch kit, a fender, and nice gut hanging out. To say I was following might be true in the sense that I was on the same trail as him and just didn't want to unsafely overtake him or go any faster than I had to since I had a good 25+ miles back home. To say we are the same type of rider or that I was trying race or draft him is comical.

The argument starts to heat up since this idiot kept cutting me off not allowing me to cycling past him. He starts saying, "I am going to make you stop!" almost goating me to get off my bike and engage with him. I respond again, just fuck off I am trying to get home and to shut up you Karen. For whatever reason he absolutely looses it and starts saying how Karen is an anti white racial slur. To put this in context this guy is white, middle age, probably 6' plus tall, 200lbs+ and I am Asian 5'5" and 138lbs soaking wet. When he sees I am clearly not engaging with him he shouts, why don't I get off this bike and beat the shit out of you! I turn to him as I am wearing my Meta glasses and say Meta record. I ask him to repeat what he says and to keep talking so I can call the police. He goes dead silent and slowly starts to drop back.

My glasses actually failed to record so I don't have a photo or video of this asshole, but it's so sad that the fear of being held accountable via recording is the thing that stops people from becoming violent. If anyone see's a guy in Yorktown following this description just be aware of this psychopath Karen. I would love to have recorded and know his name so I could have sent his tirade to his employer. IMO HE is a prime example of why people in general hate cyclists. I like to think if I wasn't some small Asian guy, he would equally would have been an asshole and threatened assault to anyone out there, but it always crosses my mind, guys like this always love to pick on the smaller guys. Simply an asshole bully.

Anyone have any suggestions on great lunch specials? Would like to try new places and I'm open to any cuisine! Let me know what's your go to spot.

I have the surname Tappan. I don’t know where it comes from. I also grew up in Los Angeles so I’m a bit far Tappan N.Y. any My family history is really messy. I was wondering if anyone else have the same last name and live near or around Tappan.

Hey all! I’m looking for places to propose that are a reasonable distance from NYC and stumbled on Croton Point Park, mainly due to the sunsets. I’ve never been though, and have a few questions for those who have.

1. How packed would the park be during a weekend evening in October? I know this is probably hard to answer, but mainly want to know if we would feasibly be able to find a relatively secluded spot.

2. Whats the tree cover like? Would a friend or two be able to hide and take pictures?

3. In general, do you think this is a nice place to propose? I live with my partner so it would be difficult for me to come here earlier to check it out and see the vibe for myself.

Thanks!!

My backyard property is pretty large and borders about 6 other backyards. One of these neighbors is an avid gardener/farmer and wants to expand his plot of land to add some more gardening room. The area he would like contains nothing of value to me except property land value and a large tree that I’d be happy to hand the responsibility off to someone else. I have no clue what the process for something like this would be or how to value the area for sale. Would sale or easement rights be better? Idk. Has anyone been through something like this? Any direction would be appreciated.

There's a conductor I sometimes get on the Harlem line who audibly goes "choo-choo" before you to each stop on the speaker. I think it's funny and I'm curious if anyone else here has had this person as their conductor.

Trying to decide where to live and would love some real input.

I’m single, mid-40s, have a dog, and would be commuting to WTC ~3x/week.

I’m deciding between Tarrytown and Montclair. I like that Tarrytown seems calmer with a better commute, but I’ve seen people say it can feel isolating if you’re not a parent or already have a circle.

Not looking to party all the time, but I do want some life around me and the ability to meet people without trying too hard.

For anyone who’s lived in these areas — how does it actually feel day-to-day?

Does Tarrytown get too quiet? Is Montclair worth the longer commute?

Appreciate any insight 🙏

I’m so confused I’m joining Wcc as a summer student taking EMT classes but I’m also joining in the fall as an undergraduate seeking a degree.

They put me in as a non matriculated. Do I have to apply for the fall after I finish my cert? How would I register for classes in time ?

Cable wires have been down partially blocking a lane since before thanksgiving. Con ed says they are cable wires. Verizon says they are Optimum wires and Optimum says they are Verizon wires.

They got hit again a few days ago so now they are even more in the way. Nobody seems to want to do anything and the town just keeps putting cones around it which keep getting hit because it’s on a somewhat blind curve.

Does anyone have any recs for an upholstery company in upper Westchester? We have a couch that’s been going strong for 50 years but the fabric is starting to wear through, and I’d love to bring it back to life with new cushion covers or a custom slipcover.

Looking to sell a bunch of old video games and consoles that I no longer use. Anyone know where I can get the best prices? Willing to travel up to an hour.

Thanks all!

How much did you pay to have a at home wall charger installed? Any recommendations throw em my way- looking to get an electric Volvo if that makes any difference.

What end of the train is best for catching the 6?

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Hi everyone,

Is a $1,700/month budget realistic for living in Hyde Park, NY as a student?

I’m planning to move to Hyde Park, NY soon to attend the CIA, and I’m trying to figure out if I can survive on a monthly budget of $1,700.

I have a few questions regarding the cost of living:

Housing: Is it possible to find a room in a shared apartment (or off-campus housing) for under $1,000 including utilities? I’d prefer to be within walking distance if possible.

Transportation: I currently don't have a car. Based on my budget, would you recommend buying a cheap used car for this area, or is it better to save that money and rely on the bus/Uber? How reliable is public transit for groceries and getting to the Poughkeepsie train station?

The Winter Factor: For those without a car, how difficult is it to manage during the New York winter months in Hyde Park?

Food & Lifestyle: After rent, will the remaining ~$700 be enough for food and personal expenses in the Hudson Valley area?

I'm trying to be as frugal as possible while I focus on my studies. Any tips from current students or locals would be greatly appreciated!

Thanks in advance!

Hi everyone!!!! My friend is getting engaged soon and her STB fiancé is looking for a photographer to capture his proposal. I was wondering if anyone knew of a photographer in the Rockland / Westchester area who is available on APRIL 24. Thank you so so so much!!!