Purchased $1.1M new home - being told “I got no chance “
Hi Everyone. Shared this earlier on TorontoRealEstate and it’s somewhat created a HIGE polarized conversation leaving me more confused than when I started. Was recommended to post here instead.
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Hi everyone,
My wife and I put a deposit on a new build in Pickering, ON. APS signed October 2025 - (closing projected for March 2027). Purchase price is $1.1M. We are both FTHB
So far:
$100k deposit paid
Planning another $150k–180k on closing
Combined income 200K
I’m debt-free, she’s got ~$10k student loans
Both have good credit
We’re also looking to use the GST/HST rebate,to finish the basement for rental income. (It seems I don’t understand this rebate fully)
(not toward the mortgage unless absolutely needed). Worst case, we’ve got ~$50k in gold we could liquidate.
Here’s the issue: a colleague told me flat out there’s no way we qualify. Said income is too low and we’d need way more down. Claims he’s seen people in better positions get denied.
Now I’m lowkey spiraling wondering if we messed up big time.
Are we actually that far off here, or is he being overly pessimistic?
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Thanks everyone for your replies:
Adding some context since a lot of people are saying “go talk to a bank/expert” —
My wife and I are first-time home buyers and signed our APS in October 2025.
We’ve already spoken to banks and professionals, and the consistent answer has been: “it’s possible, but it depends on how things look closer to closing given the market.”
We fully understand this isn’t guaranteed, and we have backup options (like family support) if needed — but that’s something we’d prefer to avoid unless necessary.
I’m not here looking for someone to tell me it’s guaranteed. I’m trying to understand whether this is truly a “no chance” situation or not.
And yes, I could keep calling banks, but with how quickly things change, I’m not going to call every week. The point of posting here is to hear real-world experiences alongside professional input not replace it.