r/FtMpassing

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Could my scars pass stealth?

Im going away to university at the end of august and plan to be stealth there ‼️ I’d like to get the full american college experience and join a frat or whatever (please do not attempt to talk me out of it/educate me of dangers, focus on the scars.) and want to see if my scars ever have a chance at passing as either gyno or weight-loss or nothing at all. I pass perfectly in every other regard, so people dont tend to assume I’m trans when they first see them, but I’m trying to be careful anyway

I started working out like 2 weeks ago and will continue to until the end of august, hoping that i can build some solid pec muscle to cover up my scars. Im so insecure abt them in my head theyre bright red.

u/SatiricalInstigator — 3 days ago

Top Surgery Results

21M

I had keyhole top surgery in 2022. I originally had a larger chest, but T took me from a C cup to an A/B. I was a candidate for keyhole due to my nipple placement, but was told I would certainly have some loose skin. I was okay with this.

I was in a hotel fire a couple hours after my surgery, and picked up all of my luggage and ran out of the building. This tore my stitches and surely contributed to the very long and difficult healing process I had. I still experience pain and numbness to this day.

My chest has never been super flat, but I don’t know if it is in a peck sort of way, or if I should consider a revision. I brought my concerns of knotting & scar tissue under the skin to my surgeon and suggested I start working out my chest area at 12 months post op, which I do.

Long story short, I’m 4 years out from surgery, pain is at an all time low, and I would just like some feedback on if my surgery results look okay. I don’t have confidence issues, but I do have dysphoria, of course, and it’s just kind of hard to tell, personally.

u/windoespeek — 3 days ago

People need to be more considerate in this subreddit

There’s brutally honest, and then there’s whatever the fuck some of the comments on posts in this subreddit are.

Blunt is fine, and necessary. Shallow reassurances are no help to anyone. However, a lot of comments on all sorts of posts go well beyond blunt and into just fully mean territory.

Somebody asking not to be hugboxxed is not asking to be openly insulted. The tone of some of the comments on here is so off-putting and just outright unkind.

Asking for clothing advice is not an invitation for people to go ‘your clothes look stupid as fuck lol’, it’s a request for sincere and constructive advice. This isn’t a roast subreddit.

Someone asking for advice on what’s clocky about them is not gonna be helped out by snarky comments going ‘everything lol’. Be constructive.

Some people come on here just to put people down, and I cannot understand why you’d want to be so malicious about stuff like this as a trans guy yourself. Of all people, you (you being a broad collective term) should know how hard it is, so a bit of kindness and compassion goes a long way.

Just wanted to post this because it’s really disappointing to see so many people being shamed and put down when they’re just trying to work out how to live happily and comfortably by asking for pointers from members of their own community.

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u/EllaSharpey — 13 hours ago

I know im far from passing, but curious what y'all think!

4 months on T

Piercings are being changed to simpler (gold) jewellery

Glasses are unisex, do they read specifically fem? I can get new ones in July 😁

I sometimes fill in my eyebrows (pic 3) but a friend recently referred to a pic as "the one where you're wearing makeup" and I didn't realize it was that obvious so now I'm not sure if it's doing me any favors 💀

I'm hoping with facial hair/voice changes I can pass as alt male 🙏🙏🙏

u/bunnydrawz — 13 hours ago

Do I pass / how well do I pass , 17 Pre T

I start T within the next three months so I don’t mind wether I “pass” or not. Just curious in general speaking from others point of views , thanks in advance

u/Tricky_Bowl_7630 — 11 hours ago

Do I pass? (14, pre-T, no blockers)

Probably gonna delete this after a while just mainly for privacy. Also I know how unflattering the hoodie looks but it’s wash day so I got nothin else.

u/actual-Paul-Stanley — 1 day ago

(16, pre-T) I probably don't pass, but any tips? I need to get my hair cut again soon.

I really don't want to go back to a natural hair color, and I'm trying to lose a little weight and gain muscle currently.

These pictures are probably too flattering to be accurate but whatever:(

u/assassinwannabe3 — 5 hours ago

Age? Clockable?

I’m not a minor, but lmk honestly what age I look, I’m curious. Also should I keep the facial hair or shave? Idk if it helps me be less clockable or not. And should I grow out the hair and mullet or would that risk making me look feminine? Photos going from most to least recent, last one is from this past December. I’m on the right in the third photo :)

Edit: I’m 19, 5+ yrs on t, and I’m wondering how much more I’ll change. I know I’ll keep growing up as I’m still pretty young, but a lot of ppl say the changes from t are pretty much done within 6 years.

u/Other-Extreme5438 — 5 days ago

do i pass better with short or long hair? does it make a difference at all?

went to cut my hair today and now i am unsure about how well i pass. no tips on passing please

u/archivistseye — 1 day ago