r/Accountabilibuddies

Im a month into my weight loss and strength training journey and have been very consistent with my process and always looking for more people who need someone to check in with on the daily.

Currently on a 1600 daily calorie limit with 160g protein minimum. I have different cardio levels everyday and do weight training 3 times a week. Any low calorie foods and recipes I find I share with whoever I can. So if you need someone to help with your daily accountability lmk! I gotcha, my dude.

Hi! I’m looking for someone who is serious and won’t ghost. I don’t care about your age. I don’t care about your sexuality. I care about whether or not you are or want to be consistent, and whether you are serious about improving your life. I’m tired of how my life is and I want to make changes. I think it could be fun checking in with someone every day.

Ideally we’d message in the morning our tasks for the day, then periodically message throughout the day what we finished and/or message what we accomplished for the day in the evening.

What I want to work on every day:

Stretching

Physiotherapy

Reading

Math

Strength training

Probably more but I can’t remember right now.

Please be between 0-5 hours diff of EST.

Hiya, I'm looking for an accountability buddy to help me achieve consistency around:-

Working out 3 times a week

Meditating daily

10k steps daily

Eating low carb

Feel free to reach out if you're interested. Thanks!

About a month ago, I posted here looking for an accountability partner.

Since then, I’ve been doing daily check-ins consistently for 30 days with a few people who reached out to me. Some people dropped off, but only a handful stayed, and I saw a real difference in my productivity.

Now I’m looking for more a few more committed people who are serious about building consistency and changing habits.

About me:

28 F, Timezone: GMT+7, MBTI: INTP

Currently working on:

•	Posting social media contents

•	Recording & editing lecture videos

•	Building an online course

•	Publishing a book

I prefer :

•	Someone committed to daily check-ins

•	Around my age or older

•	Serious about improving and building consistency

•	Within \~4–5 hours timezone difference (flexible if consistent)

Fun fact: I’d prefer to befriend an INFJ, INTJ, INTP or ENTJ, but I’m open to anyone as long as you’re committed. (Mindset matters more than personality)

How this works:

•	Daily regular check-ins (tasks + updates)

•	Weekly reflections

•	Mutual accountability 

I’ve already done 30 days of consistent check-ins —

so I’m looking for someone who’s willing to show up consistently too.

I'll do the same for you. I'll check in, support your goals, stay consistent and accountable too.

If this sounds interesting to you, feel free to DM me. Let's grow together.

Hello! I’m 33/F, and I’m working on undoing years of bad habits and becoming healthier (physically, mentally, socially) overall.

So far, I’ve lost 19.4 pounds, and I’ve stopped eating out 6-7 days a week. Now I only eat out 1-2 meals per week. I am focusing on small habits like walking more, reading instead of doom scrolling and trying new things.

If anyone is interested in accountability like this, let me know!

Hello,

I am a programmer building my startup for the past 2 months and cycled through mutiple accountability buddies, its all the same story.

We give each other updates, all is well, 2-3 weeks later, motivation aint that high, asks them where the updates are at, no response. Rinse and repeat.

During this time I got my app from basically 0 to submitting to IOS apple store for review, and buddies relaly do help me cus even on days when im sick, I told myself i gotta give em updates, and ended up working until 2-4am to finish my feature.

However constant ghosting has been a problem and Im looking for someone who's acutally commited and has been ghosted by others before. Not some "oh i will try it for a few days" kind of thing.

If you are actually serious and want an accountability buddy that shows up every single day, i'm here. otherwise please don't waste both our times.

25m, EST.

P.S. After my app launches, I will dive into social media marketing. You can do whatever goal you want to work towards, but im here to give and receive accountability and Im not a therapist. If you got a mental illness trying to fish for empathy instead of giving actual progress updates, DONT dm me.

You wont believe the amount of people ghost you for several days then say "I got ______ i cant focus."

I’m 21F needing to fix my sleep schedule and make it more consistent, submit assignments on time (biggest issue), become more financially secure and improve my credit score, work out more consistently and build muscle, and stop wasting time with “productive procrastination” - I always cook healthy meals and keep my place spotless, but at the expense of my schoolwork and sleep. Basically just get my shit together and create some form of routine in my life.

I am ESTP (possibly ENTP? Unsure), enneagram 8, and in my fourth year of college (I do online school, so fourth year-equivalent). Most of my hobbies are creative in nature- I am a musician (I play a few instruments and have started producing) and I figure skate.

I am very ambitious and competitive, so I will likely try to out-work you (regardless of if I can lol) so I am looking for someone with the same qualities, who also values achievement and becoming the best version of themselves. I am looking for someone who is not afraid of confrontation and who will call me out when I’m slacking or when I could have done better that day. I will also do the same for you. No sugar coating things, no passive aggressiveness. It would be nice to work with someone who has high levels of openness to experience/intellect. Immediate rewards help me, so we can put money on it too (but not a requirement). Can be M or F, ideally between the ages of 20-24, but flexible.

Most importantly you need to be striving for exceptionally high achievement and be willing to tell me the harsh truth when needed. Ideally you need to be competitive. And you cannot be a trump supporter (idc if you’re a republican, just if you support trump).

Can be done over text, FaceTime, both, or whatever, I don’t really care about the method or what time of day it is. Ideally not zoom or google meet or anything like that. It would be nice to mix it up every once in a while so I don’t get bored. I do not have social media except for Snapchat though, I deactivated my insta/FB/tiktok accounts about 4-5 months ago because I was spending too much time scrolling. Will probably reactivate once I have more of my shit together.

Im fine with small talk, getting to know each other more personally, or simply just being there for accountability. Im super flexible on the level of personal involvement, as long as the accountability aspect is there.

I am looking for something relatively long term, but if it is clear that we don’t vibe/our productivity styles and goals don’t match (you are okay with being mediocre), I will let you know, and probably find someone else. If it works tho, I’m in.

Shoot me a message if this sounds like you, and if I sound like someone you are looking for! Looking for someone asap.

I'm looking for someone that wants to be more focused and disciplined with doing sales activity, such as making phone calls to existing clients, or new prospects.  

I run my own business, and I need to be more consistent at doing this activity in order to hit a target that I've set for next month. I think I'll be more likely to achieve that target with some accountability. 

So here's what I am looking for. 

Someone that's interested in doing body doubling / online coworking for blocks of time during the working day. Maybe 50 minutes at a time, and it could be just 1 session a day if needed, but this needs to be something that you're looking to do multiple times a week, or ideally multiple sessions per working day. 

We would both join a video meeting, like Zoom / Google Meet, etc, at an agreed time. We would have a quick chat to say what our individual goals are for the session (E.G. Speak to 3 prospects on the phone), then we both mute our microphones, but leave the video camera on. We then individually work on the tasks that we said we were going to do. Seeing each other making calls should help both of us to focus on doing that task, and motivate each other. At the end of the session we have a quick chat to say how we got on. I've found body doubling in this way to be very effective at helping me to get started, and remain focused on, activity that I sometimes put off doing. 

About you: 

- Ideally you would be running your own business, and looking to be more disciplined and focused on doing sales activity (although if you're an employee that does cold calling / sales calls, then that could work).

- Work from a desk, ideally making phone calls. 

- Be looking for some accountability to help you get started with doing that activity. 

- Be serious about testing this out for at least a few sessions if you've never done this type of thing before. 

- In a time zone where you are wanting to do some sales activity for some of the hours between 9am and 5pm in UTC+1 (I'm in the UK). 

- Sell something that I'm going to feel comfortable knowing that you're promoting. I want to be in your corner and want to be encouraging you to make sales. That's going to be hard to do if I feel what you sell is going to be bad for other people. As an indication on this, if you told 100 random people about what you sell, if any of them were likely to think it's a scam, then it's probably not going to be a good fit for working with me. 

I'm 38M, based in the UK. 

If you're interested, then please comment "interested" below, and then send me a direct message.